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Archived questions from: 12 July, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Broken trust... please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - My boy friend and i have been dating for almost 2 years and are almost alwasy together. To avoid doing anything stupid we always only drink when were together. Last night my boy friend and i were hanging out with some people from his new job. I had ...

Been with him 6 years but he says I'm not ready to be his wife yet!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - We have been together for 6 years I'm 24 now almost 25 and I'm ready to get married and have a baby. He wants a baby too but says I'm not ready to be a wife yet. He says I don't keep the house clean all the time and I'm supposed to be his best ...

Underappreciated and undervalued, she treated her exes better than me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

12 July 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm new to posting on this website, but i have come here for advice before dealing with my relationship. my girlfriend and i have been going out for almost 8 months now. things were amazing in the beginning. she would do anything to please me ...

I fancy my best mate's brother.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5617 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - Dear cupid, I’ve got a problem and need some advice. There’s more than meets the eye to the problem, it’s not as simple as just, I fancy my best mate's brother. There’s more but I’ll try to keep it short. Basically like everyone in their first ...

How can I control my anger problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - My anger problem is getting worse and ive started to have random outbursts towards my boyfriend, like hitting him, biting and like squeezing his face and diggin my nails into him, i cant help it or stop myself. i say sorry millions of times. it ...

I'm unsure...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for over 3 years now and I feel I am really wasting my time. Although he is good company and I can talk to him about most things, there is no romance or passion in the relationship. He has never said he loves ...

Is he really ready for marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - Looking for some advice please. I have been going out with a guy for about 1 year. We are very close and moved in together about 5 months ago. It was the best thing we could have done and it was his suggestion as we'd been spending most nights ...

Should I be worried that he'll cheat on me too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - my boyfrind went to south carolina for work. He called me one day and told me that his ex was coming so he could see his daughter that he hasnt seen in 3 yrs. But the problem is she is stayin with him at his brothers house. She wont let him talk...

I don't want to leave him, I really don't, so how else can I sort this out?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - Hello everyone! Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half, and his attitude is getting to the point where I don't know what to do. He has a childish way of dealing with things when hes upset, he never wants to talk about it, he'l...

Am I being jealous and silly or do I have valid reasons for feeling like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5617 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - My fiance and I have been engaged for 3 months but have known each other for many years. He is really nice, rational and calm and sees both sides of arguments and both feelings when we argue. Recently we have started arguing all the time due to a ...

Two guys, one decision, but I can't pick both.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5617 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - Ok, so one of my guy friends asked me out a couple of weeks ago on myspace, i said yes, and then he says we should wait until school starts to be together, so the next day, I'm chatting with him, and I find out that he got a girlfriend the very next ...

My ex fiancé is married, but I really want to send him an e-mail to get forgiveness and closure...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - what can i do ? ive recently come out of a very bad relationship with a guy who has bled me dry and made me feel like a sack of crap. before this i was engaged to my fiance had a house with him everything but in the back of my mind i didnt feel...

Is it true that players don't like to be dumped?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - A guy I love only contacts me when he wants to. He asked me if I have a boyfriend and I replied no. When he did not contact me I wrote to him "Hi, How is it going?". He did not answer me so the same day I broke up with him telling him that "you are ...

Does anyone have any clues as to what was going on with him because I feel totally lost and just want some closure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5617 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - I have just ended a my 2 year relationship with my 36 year old boyfriend and feel very confused right now. We were in a long distance relationship. I felt he was the love of my life - he was so attentive, generous and welcomed me into his fami...

My ex slept with someone else while we were broken up, how can I forgive now that we're together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - Hi all, well here is my problem, I have been recently seeing my ex..just meeting up in the day time and talking nothing physical. We have both decided to give the relationship another try after 4 months apart as we both never stopped loving o...

Boyfriend doesn't want to live with me anymore

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - Ok so im 19 and my bf is 20. We've been dating for a year and a half and for the past 6 months we've been living together. Now he's bought his own place and doesn't want me to move in with him he's told me to find my own place but we can still be ...

I'm starting to hate his daughter

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - Well its a really long story so im guna cut it short! well as short as i can. Been with boyfriend 3 1/2 years he has a kid to another woman (1 night stand!!! a big mistake) I have took on his child as if she was my own, i looked after her while ...

Why does he keep asking about my past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - on the way to dinner tonight my bf kept asking me questions about the last guy i was with 2 yrs ago like did u think he was hot? Blah blah anyway i answered but he has asked these questions many times before and i didnt want to talk about it so i ...

Am I being cold or does he just not want to discipline her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5617 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - my bf has a 2yo daughter. Its hard for me b/c he makes me feel like i dont belong (never informing me if she is coming over etc) but i try my hardest. I read her stories, dress her sometimes, help with making her food and bathing her but he says i ...

We want to get married, but she's still married..and there are many other factors causing trouble in this relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

12 July 2009 (M) - I am 38 yrs old and have two children, 13 and 11 and I live with my dad. I have been divorced for 6 ½ years. My girlfriend of 10 years is 46 yrs old and is still married. She has two children, 21 and 17. She recently moved out after only 2 ½ ...

How can I get over my boyfriend betraying my trust?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - First off. I love my boyfriend and I will not break up with him so please do not encourage me to do so, your efforts would be in vain. Throughout our relationship , alcohol has never been an option. He would never let me drink and he made me s...

My boyfriend is playing games with my head!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5618 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - I need help! Okay my boyfriend he's amazing everytime I lay in his arms I feel like I have the world and I love him to pieces but..he calls me beautiful and says that I love you...but the next couple of days later he says he's annoyed of me when I d...

No sex! Make it work? Or end it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - I've been with my BF for almost 2 years. He's the type of guy that every girl dreams of being with: committed, monogamous, great personality and sense of humor, interesting, fun to be with, very handsome, financially secure, charming, great heart, ...

He wants us to get married but he never spends any time with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - Ok I am so confused and don't know what to do. To start off I'm almost 7 months pregnant and am having issues with my bf. Our relationship has changed since we have been together first off we bearly ever have sex. When I say something about this to ...

My GF has a lot of male friends and it makes me uncomfortable

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

12 July 2009 (M) - Hello every one, I have been going out with a girl for a few months. We love each other and are very passionate and she tells me I am the love of her life. We spend as much time together as possible and I believe her that she loves me. Ho...

Why am I suddenly the enemy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5618 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - Ok so...I have been with a man for nearly 6 years now, and we've had our share of problems. But recently his mother passed away. She was nearly 80 so..this was not unexpected. He has never had a good relationship with his parents, but after hi...

I'm paranoid about my next intimate relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - I am very confused by the actions of a guy I'm trying to hook up with. He is a friend of mine and we have already slept together once, about a year ago. Things didn't work out between us at the time because I was looking for a serious relationship ...

I don't like anal sex and my boyfriend is being an ass about it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - i have a problem with my boyfriend, he stated that i don't agree we have anal sex then this proves i don't love him that much ,,, but i tried it and i hate it hurts alot and i don't get it it's not like we can't have sex other wise , now i don't ...

Whose libido is out of whack? His or mine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend for almost 3 months. we have been around each other 24/7 for the past 3 weeks. We have sex maybe once every couple of days. in other relationships I am used to having sex two to four times a day. When we get done, I ...

I love her and want to help her emotionally and financially

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

12 July 2009 (M) - I really need some advice. I have been dating a wonderful woman for the last 6 months and things were progressing wonderfully between us until recently. She is a divorced single mom with young children and has recently lost her job and could ...

My troubled life and I'm not sure what to do about it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - I've remained anonymous because it is for the sake of my family, not me. I think I have a very unbalanced view on men. I have not had the happiest of childhoods. My dad (I don't usually call him that) was a woman beater. Plates, fists, anything....

Why would he kick me out of his life like that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - This guy has been my friend for a year and we havn't been as close anymore which I respect. I havn't seen him in two weeks or more because of summer! I thought me and him were friends, I accepted the fact that were going to be nothing more than ...

I've thought about this woman constantly since we met, but how would I let her know?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5617 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - About a year ago I went to register with a job recruitment agency. The woman I met there was the most beautiful woman I have ever seen, I completely fell in love with her, with such intensity, I've never experienced such a strong attraction to ...