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Archived questions from: 27 July, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Shes verbaly abusive! Should I split?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - Hey there, This story might be somewhat long and tedious, but here I go. I just had a big fight with my girlfriend. She made a comment that was makeing me feel very sad, so I made that clear. But she was saying that I am manipulating the situa...

I want to give him a chance but he punches me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend over 2 years and we're madly in love. However on a number of occassions he has punched etc.He has not beat me up and never badly hurt me. I used to blame myself but not anymore . After warning him never to touch me ...

My sister's been very disrespectful and I resent my mother for her reaction!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I dont even know where to start.....I'am worried that i might be heading for unhapinness for ever. ok so this is the deal. I am 22 with alot on my shoulders, not because i have to but because i choose to. i have 2 jobs. so this sat i came home very ...

He won't let me around his children!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 months. I love him and he says he loves me and wants to marry me someday, but here's the thing... he has 2 kids. Now, the kids themselves are not the problem. I am more than willing to come in and fulfill ...

Am I being too sensitive when I expect my boyfriend of one year to invite me to family events?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - Am I being too sensitive when I expect my boyfriend of one year to invite me to family events? I have met some family members and he has met some of mine, so I don't understand why he does not invite me to cookouts, dinners, etc when he is with his ...

I need someone to talk to because I feel extremely depressed....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - hey guys, i need some help! im not quite sure whats wrong with me doh! Im extremly tired i work a full time summer job have the greatest boyfriend ever feel extremly depressed and i really need someone to talk to iv got no friends anymore their ...

My annoying boyfriend follows me around, help, please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I just got a boyfriend but am having second thoughts, he is a really nice guy but just a little to nice. he follows me around a lot and sends me texts every night saying how much he loves me. i really like him but he can be annoying at times. i dont ...

Boyfriend is depressed - what to do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I have been dating this man for about 5 months. We met over the internet and he had just relocated to my city for a new job. At first he seemed to good to be true..such a great guy, no drama, steady job...just what I needed. Things were going ...

He seems selfish sometimes! I'm not sure he appreciates me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for several months now and we were friends for a couple years before we started our relationship. We have a lot of fun and spend a lot of time together. However, I find that he can be really selfish sometimes and I am ...

She's 17, nearly 18 and pregnant - we're so worried about her mother and brother's reaction!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - Hello Aunts and Uncles, Me and my partner had sex about a month ago and the condom split when using tingle durex condoms. My partner has been worried ever since and we decided to get a pregnancy test 4 days after we had sex. The test came back a...

I have been cheated on before and now I think my new boyfriend is cheating too!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - Boyfriend trouble..... Not sure what to do/think....................? I have known this guy that I am now seeing for almost a year. We just recently started dating almost 2 weeks now. I am 28 years old and have a 9 year old daughter. He is ...

I really need positive advice on how to fix things!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - Ok, so me and my boyfriend broke up last month after being together for six months. Now this relationship was amazing and he often told me that he really believed he had found his soulmate. I totally felt the same. He is a very arrogant and good...

Heartbroken, confused and needs help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - My girl of 2 and a half years broke up with me for another guy who's closer to home and more affectionate. She was 18 just turned 19 and he's 24. Still I love and miss her and i dont know why. Its been 2 months and she told a mutual friend that she...

I made a mistake last year but my fiance cant seem to move on!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I m 18 year old, My fiance and I together for 6 months. He thinks that I'm not show him for enough love with him. I told him many time I do fall in love with him, He is blind and wont be remember this my word. He cant move on for last year, I did ...

I lost feelings for him after he kissed someone else... help?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - hiya, ok well i've just left high school this summer but about a month before i left i went to my best mates birthday party and met this really cute lad called *tom* whos in my year but i'd never talked to him before, anyway we got on really well ...

How can I convince him that I'm telling the truth?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I have been talking to this guy on and off for 6 months now. Recently, he called me from another number, and when I asked who it was, he told me to guess. Not realizing it was him, I called him by someone elses name and now he won't drop it. He ...

I don't want to sound mean. She doesn't exersice and shes putting on weight

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - ok. i dont want this to sound horrible but it probably will. Im very very into fitness and working out. i have a very good body and feel its really important to stay in shape not just for myself but for my partner. my girlfriend however, with...

Why does he want to marry me if he treats me so badly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I have been dating a man for about a year and a half. He has had a very tough year due to unemployment and has become very discouraged in just about every aspect of his Life. In order to try and provide what I can for solidarity to the relations...

Our relationship has changed since moving back home. How can I get things back to the way they were?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - On August 14, me and my boyfriend make a year. We are like to peas in a pod and there is no other love like ours. We weren't only each others' lovers but we were best friends. In November of 2008, we moved into an apartment together so that we can ...

I think this guy might be trying it on with my girlfriend...or am I looking too deeply into this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - i have a question for you...i had a thing happen aweek ago and it still bothers me.. my girl of 2 years has a friend who is terminally ill and isnt doing to hot these days.. well two days before my girl goes to visit this sick friend at home..her...

Husband wants to stay in the family home while continuing his affair

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - Hi there I would really appreciate people's perspective on my situation. I'm dealing with a lot of emotional pain having learnt that my husband of nearly 21 years has been seeing another woman. Admittedly our marriage was a struggle wi...

Is he my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - so i was at a party and i was talking to this one guy who i have a mutual friend with and we have hung out together a couple of times but never alone. so he texted me while i was there and said we should hang out with out all these people around and ...

Very complicated....Two men in my life!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I have been sleeping with my oldest child's father for the last 2 1/2 years....However I have been married for 12 1/2. My husband and I have definitely had major hurdles in our marriage and I feel very unappreciated and he takes me for granted,I had ...

She wants to carry on living as "friends" but act as a couple in all but name!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - My relationship with my ex was not without problems, mainly caused by her having OCD and depression while I was struggling with the pressure of having to fight my ex-wife to get to see my kids. It wasn't working out and we decided to split. Howeve...

I don't know which guy to be with!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - ok well let me see here,....im 19 with 2 kids. they both have different fathers and im not with either of them im with my boyfreind of 11 months now..but it doesnt seem the same anymore it really seems different to me since i came back from visiting ...

What does he mean by saying "you know you owe me"? I'm freaked out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - Me and this guy had a huge crush on each other. He is very popular and handsome. All the women wants him and he has slept around so many times. We met at work. Anyway, things didn't work out especially since I found out he is married. We didn't ...