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Archived questions from: 25 July, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Problems with my sister Caroline.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5603 days ago

25 July 2009 (M) - When I was growing up my eldest sister was kind , caring and in all a lovely person - Now she has turned out a disappointment and has such traits as : selfish ,cold hearted , nasty , b*tchy, manipulative, cold and jealous of anyone and everything . ...

Why is he like this now? Is he into me... or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - My man dont treat me right, when we first met he used to bring me roses all the time not just on valentine's day or my birthdays, now he acts as if I dont exist, I am geting really fustrated with him, I been with him for seven years now and dont ...

My boyfriend says he's curious to date other women

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - I have a boyfriend that appears to be curious to date other women... I'm his first girlfriend, we've been dating for 3 years. He was 25 years old when we first started dating..He's been very critical of me lately, says that I'm difficult and wants a ...

What is the best solution?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - hi, i dont know where to start. i was in a relationship with someone who was very good to me. we broke up or should i say i broke up with him because i felt neglected. He would make time for his family and friends but me. 7 months later he went to ...

I feel at an all time low after losing family members and breaking up with my boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - hi everyone, I just need someone to talk to... everything seems to be going wrong at the moment. I have lost so many family members these last few years.. my dad, sister, brother, grandad, cousin, great aunt. Everyone that meant the world to me. ...

I betrayed my best friend by sleeping with his girlfriend... now she's pregnant! Help!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

25 July 2009 (M) - How am i supposed to get out of this dilemma, my best mate and I had a disagreement that resulted in us falling out. After a few weeks we still had not resolved the issue. Next thing I know his girlfriend is at my house trying to get us to sort it ...

We hit it off then he went cold... why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - I met a guy of an internet site, and we hit off straight away, got on really well. but i said i didnt wanna do anything sexually on a first date. i did make it clear, but then we ended up kissing n fooling around but didnt go the whole way because ...

My boyfriend still hangs out with his exes and stays over at their place way after midnight and tells me nothing happened.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - I've been in a really weird relationship for the last year of my life and I would greatly appreciate any thoughts or advice. I apologize ahead of time for the "lengthiness", but I figured details will help you guys out. I've been with my bf for n...

Why do I feel so disappointed and whose fault is this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - Why do I feel so disappointed right now and who is at fault? I was supposed to see my bf today, he is in another state at a sports summer camp but came home (a 6 hour drive) today to spend some time with me. We are both teenagers, so we both live ...

Thought things were going well with my ex, but now there's a g/f??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - Ok, So I bumped into an ex Boyfriend at a party and ended going back to his and staying the night. A couple of days later he messaged me on Facebook wanting to meet up again, he said i was gorgeous and all sorts of nice stuff. We went out for a dr...

I am in love with a man who doesn't want children!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - I am in LOVE with a man who i recently broke up with because he does not want to have children. I felt like he was rejecting me. He loves me and tells me so. I have ended this relationship, then poured my heart out to him repeatedly as i do not want ...

We weren't in a relationship, so why say he needs to move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - I really need some advice. Have been seeing this guy casually for about 5 months. We always met up once a week to hang out and sleep together as we were friends with benefits and we both did not want a relationship. He used to text me around 3 times ...

She doesn't want me to see her sick from her chemo treatments!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

25 July 2009 (M) - My gf and I have been friends for 4 years, dating for 14 months now. Shw was recently diagnosed with cancer. She was really open about it at frist telling me about her fears, wanting me to be there for appointments etc. She started chimo ...

Do you think I still have feelings for her?

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25 July 2009 (M) - hay Im really confused at the moment i dumped my ex gf last year for this other girl, the mother of my child. anyway things never happened between us and i carried on sleeping with my ex, then i found this new girl who im still seeing and is pregn...

How do I stop feeling resentment toward my boyfriend's daughter?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - how do i stop resentment for my boyfriends daughter? i feel so slack... i am constantly annoyed at her.. she is 2, i find myself annoyed everyday, she is very naughty. sometimes i cant handle coming 2nd. will this get any easier? its been a yr and a ...

I just found out she slept with another guy 2 weeks after we split! I feel like he took advantage of her...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

25 July 2009 (M) - ok in need of advice. i just found out last night that my ex slept with a 26 year old guy 2 weeks after we broke up and shes only 20... i never liked this guy, he was a guy she met at her new job and in the last six months of our relation...

He's being hot then cold! Is he just getting me back for saying I wanted a break and not knowing what I want?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for nearly 8 months now. Our relationship was fantastic, madly in love, couldnt keep our hands off eachother, loved spending time with each other etc. We had a little dis-agreement a couple of weeks ago and i told him that ...

I have dreams I am losing my friend, and it is my worst nightmare. Is it a sign it will happen? He already ignores me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - Me and my guy friend have stoped talking. Its been the whole summer and he hasn't talked to me but 3 times. I knew that he must be busy but he has been online a lot. I know now that if I text him he wont text me back so I dont anymore. Its like our ...

My boyfriend and his friends are having a get-together, and I'm upset because I'm not invited. Am I making a big deal of this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - my boyfriends old friends who are married and single are having a get together. I went to a Birthday Party last year and met them. My boyfriend said they are trying to get it together, I felt by the words he was using that he was not going to ask...

I always thought I was funny and happy but now I'm worried friends are thinking I'm an idiot!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

25 July 2009 (M) - I need some opinions about personalities, and how people perceive eachother, in this case its me. I am 24 male, hard working, single.. I am told by people and friends that I am a social butterfly because I enjoy meeting new people. With ...

He's great in person but when texting me he's a jerk!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - I am really confused about my boyfriend, when he sees me he shows all the things that says he is in love with me with me. He stares at me so intensely, holds my hand even in the most uncomfortable position and he tells me he misses me. As soon as he ...

I want to trust him but when he doesn't answer my calls I have doubts!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - Hi I am Sana I am muslim and he is hindu,It has been a 15 months of our relationship we love each other very much we are toghter from apr 2008 with a unconditional love and trust but In month of november his mother got hospitalised and his ...

I love her but she is not giving me what I need in this relationship. What can we do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

25 July 2009 (M) - I am unsure as to what I can do about the intimacy with my girlfriend. The first few months with her, she was the one getting all of the action and calling all of the shots. Now that I have more of a say, the sex and being physical is erratic and ...

My boyfriend doesn't include me in any special dates and I'm sick of it. Should I go?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - Ok everyone I really need some help here. My boyfriend and I are in are very early thirties. We have been together for four years. However, about two years into the relationship things got bad and we ended up breaking things off for a few months. We ...

He ignores me and is rude to me, so we break up. But he always wants me back. How should I handle this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - I really don't know what to do anymore..my boyfriend is always ignoring me but he gets mad at me when i talk to other guys. hes always so rude to me. i dont get him. he acts like he doesnt care, but sometimes he can be really sweet. i broke up with ...

I'm not sure about my feelings for my ex. But I think I might want him back...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - So I've been talking to my ex frequently. Even though our breakup was recent and andom and didnt seem to have much behind it *hes having financial/work trouble* and ended it but still wanted to stay in contact/hang (we supposedly broke up cos ...

He spends more time with his friends than with me! Should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5605 days ago

25 July 2009 (?) - me and my boyfriend have been dating for a little over 3 weeks and it was love at first site for the both of us. well things started off well he lives about 20 or 30 minutes away from me so we try to see each other as much as we can. i love spending ...

Am I jealous? Am I moving on? Or just tired?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - hello well ok me an my ex botfriend have been broken up for about a month now hes a jail bird an hes in another relationship. He called me recently trying to be my friend or something an that really confused me because i didnt want to hear from ...

He's angry I didn't come visit, but he told me not to come if I was sick!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - the only time i get to see my bf is on the weekends, and this weekend i was meant to go over on friday night, but i have been too sick, i wasnt in the mood for the 2 hour train ride so i told him im too sick, ill see how i am tomorrow. so i call him ...

Fell in love with author found out it was teacher at my school

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5605 days ago

25 July 2009 (M) - I think the one I love is angry with me. Lets back up a bit. So a teacher at my school wrote a book and published it online. I found it on accident even though at the time I was not aware it was his book because he used a pseudonym for the author. ...

We're both heading off to different schools so she decided there will be no sex, Is it worth continuing this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5448 days ago

25 July 2009 (M) - I'm home from university and I've entered into a relationship of some sorts with a local girl. We've been seeing each other for a few weeks and we're having a nice time, but unfortunately we both know that this will all have to come to an end in a ...

B/f used to be my escape but now we fight all the time!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years now. We been fighting a lot lately and he claims to be tired of me...but we love each other too much to break up. He use to be my escape from my problems and stress. He use to make me feel ...

I broke up with my boyfriend, but my feelings for him won't go away.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5605 days ago

25 July 2009 (M) - I really need help, I broke up with my boyfriend like a month ago and I´m having hard times trying to move forward, we had really good times together, but we ended up in really bad terms, he was rude and mean to me. Trying to escape from my reality ...

How do I get her to be honest with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

25 July 2009 (M) - Ok, I have been out of town for 2 months for work and I talk to her everyday or at least try to. She says she will call me back and then she does'nt, she tells me she forgets. So when I get home I find out from other people that she has let guy ...

Wow! Why is everything in my life going crazy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - Wow!! It's being a long time since i wrote Dear Cupid but i really need some help on this one. My (Best Friend??28) left agian to move to flordia but before she left we was not really talking to me and she chose a man over me we have been best ...