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writes:i have a problem with my boyfriend, he stated that i don't agree we have anal sex then this proves i don't love him that much ,,, but i tried it and i hate it hurts alot and i don't get it it's not like we can't have sex other wise , now i don't think that when i refuse having anal sex means that i don't love him that much ,,,, any help....???
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reader, Red Green 0289  +, writes (22 July 2009):
Buy a dildo that's slightly smaller than his dick, and some good lube. Surprise him in bed, and work that thing up his ass. If he loves you he'll enjoy it....
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reader, AndreC. +, writes (12 July 2009):
 Remember it's your body and he should respect it my gf also does not like anal sex and I respect it and have not mentioned it since he should respect your boundaries and stop asking you if he loves you he won't be forcing it upon you and hurting you remember.Stand up for yourself don't let him boss you around.take care Hun.
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reader, tux +, writes (12 July 2009):
 He's saying that you don't love him because you won't have anal sex? That is very easy to turn around.. You can easily tell him that he doesn't love you because you are trying to force you into something you don't want to do and feel pain performing..
I really don't think your boyfriend is worth keeping if he continues to insist that you have anal sex with him. I'd just tell him that it's over and to find a girl that would love to have anal sex..
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (12 July 2009):
 If you don't like anal it is absolutely your right to refuse. He is being an ass by insisting on it to prove your love. Tell him you won't stand for it and it's not going to happen.
Good luck.
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reader, we-are-nowhere  +, writes (12 July 2009):
 Yea either he starts respecting you and your wishes or dump him. He is pressuring you in to something sexual. That is low
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