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How can I control my anger problem?

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Question - (12 July 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 July 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My anger problem is getting worse and ive started to have random outbursts towards my boyfriend, like hitting him, biting and like squeezing his face and diggin my nails into him, i cant help it or stop myself. i say sorry millions of times. it really upsets me and i cry about it.

i really do love him and dont want to hurt him near enough all the time!

how can i stop myself doing it?

please help!

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A female reader, 70times7 United States +, writes (13 July 2009):

I agree with candyluv.

Also you can cognatively help control your behavior by taking a step back, pausing for a moment and remembering how sweet he is and that he doesn't deserve this. It is unhealthy for the both of you and needs to stop one way or another.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2009):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

ohh right, ive never heard of that before.

oka thanks very much (:

x

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A female reader, candyluvsu01 United States +, writes (12 July 2009):

candyluvsu01 agony auntwow....when i read that i thought of myself about a year ago.

im bipolar (diagnosed)....sounds kinda like you could be too. i suggest getting checked and if you are then they can give you medicine to help. if not explain to the doctor whats going on....there are a lot possibilities.

but in the mean time try breathing exercises

http://cas.umkc.edu/casww/brethexr.htm

good luck X

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