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Archived questions from: 19 July, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

There's been no honeymoon period... am I being a drama queen, am I wasting my time or should I give him some time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - Im dating a guy who has a ten year old daughter that he has sole custody for. The ex has only come back recently and takes the daughter every fortnight. Ive a couple of issues Im trying to get my head round at the minute. Firstly, I brought up the ...

My 15 year old is pregnant!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - DearCupid, I am a forty year old mother to two teenage girls. One who is thirteen, and the another one who is fifteen. My husband and I have always taught our daughters right from wrong, or at least we thought. We told them what we did and did...

No sex on my wedding night!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

19 July 2009 (M) - I am writing this a day after getting married. We had a really special day and we retired to our room about 1am. My wife looked amazing and I couldn't wait to consumate the marriage. Unfortunately despite my advances she simply was not interest...

He never introduces me to people we bump into who know him, but when I did the same, I was told I'm "spiteful". Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - My b/f of 3 yrs. and I have had a long-standing disagreement about something. We are always running into people who know him (mostly women) yet he rarely ever introduces me. They give him a hug, ask how the kids are doing, how the job is going, ...

Her control freak husband started texting me anonymously, I caught him and he's begged me not to tell her. What's my next step?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, My friend has been married to a complete control freak for some years now. She works for him from home and i find it difficult to see her sometimes as he makes it awkward for her. She cant drive so is dependant in lots of ways. ...

How do I start relying on myself to make me happy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5610 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for around 8 months now. We are completely different in so many ways eg our outlook on life, what we like to do for fun etc. He constantly wants to be out doing things, whereas im happy relaxing watching the ...

Lately he's started flirting with lots of girls, and says it's just for fun, but I've lost trust in him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - Hello people. Probably this is just another story for you guys, but I really need some second opinions so here it goes. I've been with this guy for more than 3 years, we went through a lot of things, good and bad, he met my parents and I met his, ...

Is he scared of his feelings or does he not like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - This is quite a lengthy question, I've condensed it to the most relevant details! Thank you too anyone who reads it and answers! I'm 17 and my ex boyfriend is 19. He is in the RAF and so works far away, about 160 miles away from me. We start...

Am I being selfish or expecting too much after 9 years in this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5610 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - I am back again. several years later. David (26) and I (24) are living together. We are not married. For the simple reason..we feel that there is no extra money for a ceremony. That is not what i'm concerned about. My brother just passed away...

Lost out on friendliest girl I ever met due to shyness, how do I fix it, can it be fixed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

19 July 2009 (M) - I had a bad accident about three years ago, I got really thin and weak after it and lost all my self confidence. I've only just recovered from it in the last few months. A couple of months after the accident I saw this girl on the bus but I was too ...

My best friend claims my boyfriend tried it on with her but my boyfriend says she's lying. Who do I believe?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - Okay, heres the thing, My old best friend claimed that my boyfriend tried it on with her, she had been a really pants friend and been getting around a hell of a lot! i didnt know what to do, he denied it but said he might have said things to her o...

She's stealing everything away from me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - my friend is getting on my nerves at school because whenever we are around everyone else she is nasty, selfish and hurts everyone's feelings. She acts like she's the queen of the world and steals everyone else's attention when they need it the most. ...

He criticized my breast size now I can't get over it!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - hello my ex has made many mitigating statements of how small my breasts are. He had his new girlfriend mock me. She told me how he laughed with her about me for having small breast. She compared herself to me and made me feel so insecured. Eversinc...

How do I explain? What to do... please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - I am a 25 year old female. I have only been with my boyfriend for almost two years.We have three children all together in our home. I have a 4 yr old son from a previous relationship, he has a 2 1/2 yr. old son from a previous relationship and we ...

Do I ride out this break and hope my boyfriend will stop being so smothering?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend 6 months. I do really care for him, yet we've had problems in the relationship because he's too smothering. I'm very independant and don't want to be "mothered" by a boyfriend, which is what he tries to do. We've had...

We've been arguing non stop and I don't know what to do!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - Hi everyone! I've been with my fiance for 6 1/2 years and we have a 4 1/2 month old baby. As of late we've been arguing non stop and I just don't know what to do anymore. We are both stressed since we barely get enough sleep. Any little thing will ...

I've given up so much for him but he lies to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - hi guys. i thought this would be a good way to get things of my chest seeing as i dont really tell people my problems. im 16 and im going out with a boy whos 21. i know you are probaly all thinking about the age differrence. i dont know what you...

I think he would lie about anything to keep the peace with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - My BF and I have been together for 4 years now. On and off, it's been kinda bumpy but now it's pretty good. We would be perfect if two things: I don't sweat the small stuff and his issue with his children's mother. I'm working on my problem but I ...

I called my Girlfriend a slut and a whore and she won't forgive me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

19 July 2009 (M) - Ok, so I get a call form this guy I used to go to school with, claiming that he had sex with her about 2 months ago. So I called her a whore, slut, just about every mean thing u can fit in a 5 minute conversation, while she just kinda took it, then ...

B/f constantly asking for money! Even called me in the hospital to ask for some!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been in relationship for the past 3 and 1/2 years now (it's long distance: I don't know how we've made it work, but we did). And we both love each other very much! Last year my BF lost his job and as a result he has ...

Should I believe this will work or should I believe that "history" is going to repeat itself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, About a year ago I left my man due to the fact he stopped listening to me, started screaming and yelling @ me instead of talking to me and he was being just down right sneaky!! During the time we were broken up we still communic...

She has developed her own life's needs and wants which does not coincide with mine

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

19 July 2009 (M) - Hi ladies and gents, I am 29 going on 30 soon. I have been with my high school sweetheart for the past 13 years. We separated 7 months ago, right after new years. We have 2 kids a 12 year old daughter, and a 6 year old son. We had ups and downs, and ...

When do you know it's time to throw in the towel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - When do you know it's time to throw in the towel? Been with b/f 3 years. We have alot in common and enjoy each other's company; good chemistry. But my b/f doesn't treat me w/respect and we're constantly hooking horns over his temper. I love him but ...

We're poor and this is affecting our relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - Hi there, I am 25 and my partner is 34. We both lost our jobs a few months ago and haven't been able to find anything since. We have cut down our outgoings to the bare minimum, and this is the only way we can survive until we find work. Our savings ...

He's withdrawn and distant

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5611 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - hi im 29 i been dating for a year and my boyfriend and i was so close very passiate but now hes withdrawn and im 4 months pregant i dont know what to do i asked him has he lost interest he says no but hes showing otherwise so how do i really ...

Befuddled and heartbroken

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - I am 34, divorced (3 times over) with five kids ranging from 15 to 3. I ended my first marriage because my husband thought he was gay. I ended the second because he was seeing several other people and became an alcoholic and abusive. I ended my ...