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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:my boyfrind went to south carolina for work. He called me one day and told me that his ex was coming so he could see his daughter that he hasnt seen in 3 yrs.But the problem is she is stayin with him at his brothers house. She wont let him talk to me or any other girls. He said that she is only there so he could see his daughter. He has to sneak around to call me and when she knows that he is calling me she gets mad.he calls me every day or when he gets the chance to call me. I always get butterflies and gut feelings and when my gut feeling goes he calls me. Does that mean he is thinkning about me?he said that he really loves me a lot and he said that he will wait for me for when i turn 18 so we caan get married. He has called me a few times feeling really sad and sometimes he cries.he says that he misses me and wants to be with me forever. He tells me that he dont want her he tells me that he wants to be with me. He lived with me for 5 months and he was so good to me.Some of his ex girlfriends tell me that he cheated on them but when he cheated on them he told them.Should I be worried that he will cheat on me with that girl that had his daughter??
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (13 July 2009):
 Okay, now that I have the information I need here's my advice:
The past is often the best predictor of the present. If he's had a lot of problems staying faithful it is definitely something to worry about. It wasn't just one relationship but several, as you have learned. It doesn't matter that he was honest about cheating, the fact remains that he did it anyway. You can always tell what a man really means by his actions. Plus, I'm sure that his exes heard the same thing they are telling you.
I would definitely be wary. He might not cheat with his ex, but that doesn't mean there wouldn't be someone else. Stay aware of his actions and watch out for your heart. Don't get married until he has proven himself faithful and honest for at least TWO more years.
Also, you getting butterflies and a gut feeling may mean that you are psychic (it happens!). Is it a good or bad feeling in your stomach? Listen to yourself and feel what your body is telling you. Often the body knows before the mind does.
Good luck, stay aware and strong.
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (13 July 2009):
How old is he?
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