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Archived questions from: 10 July, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How can I improve comunications with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - I am such a mess. I going out with a guy for 7+ years and living together sharing with another guy for last year and a half. My problem is he doesnt talk to me about stuff. Recently I found he had run up a huge phone bill. I came across it and he ...

He won't talk to me anymore, should I just leave him alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - Well i still love him,but now he will not talk 2 me.I've known him for 4 years,and we hang out off and on. It breaks my heart that he will not even talk 2 me anymore. When he stop tslking 2 me i know i went way 2 far on sending text messages. That ...

I vented my frustration with him to my friends, and he read what I wrote! I'm afraid I won't be able to fix this.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - Recently my boyfriend and I have been discussing the question about whether to stay together when I leave for college. I found him distant and avoiding when the question came up; he was also answering my texts every 5-10 hours and completely ...

Confused! I want to end it before he hurts me more than the first time!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - i was with him before, he broke up with me. now, after 7 months we're back together. even though that's what i wanted, i have not been happy. i feel as if i'm the one trying to keep the relationship alive. i've displayed some angry attitudes toward ...

Am I just a disposable girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - Last night marked the most uncomfortable, heartbreaking conversation with my boyfriend. I just graduated from college and have been feeling awful because I cannot find a job to save my life. Naturally, this sadness and frustration made me want a ...

How can I make him want to see me more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5605 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - I have a new friendship and I realy like the guy. I was engage a year back but broke it of after 8years because it couldn't come to a point. This new guy was also engage till about 6months back. He havn't had a relationship since yet because he ...

He wants me to settle down but he's my first so I'm afraid!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - Okay, little problem. I just turned 16 two weeks ago, and I’ve been with my FIRST BOYFRIEND (ever, I mean I’ve never had a boyfriend before) for 9 months, and he’s asking me to move in with him and marry him and start a family. Obviously he mea...

I seem to fall low on the list of my boyfriend's priorities

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - im unsure with my relationship because of my boyfriends priorities. ive seen him once this week even though we're on our school summer break and when i try to make plans with him he wants his downtime with his computer games and his guy friends. i ...

My boyfriend is going on a holiday...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - Hi ... Well ive been going out with my boyfriend for about 3months now and i love him to pieces and his everything i want, however he went on holiday with nine of his mates, he come back and then the next day on facebook was aload of picture...

My fiance is spending too much time with my ex? Is it just friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5605 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - My fiancé has been spending way too much time with my ex-boyfriend for the past few weeks. About a month ago, me and my fiancé were out at a shopping mall when I saw my ex, me and him had a friendly conversation, and I introduced my fiancé to him...

My man already has a family and isn't excited for my pregnancy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - Hi I'm 23 years old and pregnant this is my first child. My man has a wife and two children already. I got married to him because I loved him and he loved me too. Things were fine before marriage and I thought everything will go fine. But things h...

I want her to desire me again!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

10 July 2009 (M) - ok so my wife and i are 20 and our son will be 1 on july 12th we got married march 27, 2008. we have always had a very intimate relationship. but within the past 5 months she just doesn't seem interested in me anymore. i have asked her why she ...

Barriers in our Love

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

10 July 2009 (?) - Hi, I am really in love with my girlfriend of 3 months.I have given up alot for her and she knows that and she loves me like crazy. But my mind keeps saying there will be barriers that will keep us apart and there is nothing I can do about it. I r...

He tells me he needs a break but his actions speaks a different tune

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - i've been with my boyfriend almost three years my boyfriend just told me earlier this week, that he didn't feel the same anymore and that he wanted a break and that he really really cared about me. i love him so much he literally means the world to ...

This is beyond crazy! I have developed a twitch. I have thrown up multiple times at work from the loads of anxiety! HELP!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - It was a coworkers last day today and our boss took us all out to lunch. I had to make sure that I sat next to all women because my boyfriend would otherwise be angry. I was on gchat with my blackberry the whole time in case he needed to check on ...

Shouldn't he be the one to make the effort to win my affection?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5606 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - I've been with this guy for three years, we lived together for one of them. He's going to graduate school in Maryland while I'm staying here in Oregon. He says that he needs time for himself to grow and mature, and thinks that we're way too young to ...

He's just not there for me any longer... I miss my husband and best friend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - I don't know where to begin. My husband and I have been together for 15 years, married for 13. I have 2 adult daughters from a previous marriage, and an 11 year old son with my husband. My problem is, my husband spends no time with me, one on ...

I'm tired of the way my boyfriend tries to detatch from me every summer and puts in no effort to see me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5606 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - Me again. Hey, so I talked to my friend on the phone the other night. She's my best friend and isn't so crazy about my bf anymore. She gave me some really good advice. He is on a camping trip and is still trying to remain distant from me. Everyon...

I want to study abroad, what about my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

10 July 2009 (M) - For the past year I have been planning to study abroad. However, I met this guy and we became a couple (gay couple), even though neither one of us is "out of the closet", so to speak. We love each other very much, and he made great changes in his ...

He doesn't hit me but he spits in my face. What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - ok ive been married 16 yrs i realy feel my husband is honest, maybe it me ,anyway he has 2 single friends and i mean very single. every day he gets off work he stops in a bar. its a slum bar, i mean. i go sometimes with him but the bartenders wera ...