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Archived questions from: 14 July, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I treat him so badly. How do I stop it and tell him how sorry I am?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend about a year now but its suddenly hit me how bad i treat him. We are in a long distance relationship and see each other at the weekends but i have realised i take everything out on him and start stupid arguments for no...

I'm Pregnant! Do I marry this guy or not??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - I am in the Army and have spent the last 11 months in training and in a holding status. I had been seeing a guy for the last 8 months and broke up with him a week ago. The next day I found out I was pregnant. It was an accident and I was told ...

Am I asking too much of this man?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend of 6yrs split up last week. Due to his unreasonable behaviour and attitude toward our relationship. i have had my share of being a bitch and i have also regretted it. I have done everything possible to make him see im sorry and ...

He doesn't really want me around him...so should I just lose contact or email him in a couple months?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - there is this guy i have known for almost a year. we met at a place we both used to work (but don't anymore). anyway, we were mostly just friends although i think he liked me a bit and i started to like him too..we are both very free-spirited and ...

I think my man is a pimp and I'm scared! What can I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - please tell me if you think this sounds like something to do with organized crime-okay,so a few years ago I knew this girl who I'm sure was a prostitute-she would go to different men's houses and come back with cash-one day she took me to this man's ...

Help! my sister was raped and the police don't want to help us!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - i seriously need some advice here. not even the police are helpful! it all started when my sister saw this ad in a local newspaper. this bar was looking for a waitress. so she called the bar and asked if she could come by and have an interview wit...

What can I do about this ongoing, troubled relationship with this guy?

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14 July 2009 (F) - hey this is a long story but i need advice? i know this guy years i started to hangout with him when i was 15 we were great friends he had a girlfriend my bestfriend at the time and the three of us were inseperable well after a 14 months he finished ...

I'm insecure and paranoid that he still has her as a friend

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - I used my husband's laptop the other day and I went on his Facebook and read his messages. He had received a message from a girl that he used to go to college with, they might have even dated in the past. She was basically saying to him "I can't ...

I'm just not sure if he's the one or what I want!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5615 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - I am with a guy who is completely in love with me and wants to be with me and I don't know what I want. Is there something wrong with me? I hear about all these girls who turn 30 and who are still single and can't find the right guy and here I am ...

Why do I put up with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5615 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - I need some advice. I have been dating a guy for 1 and a half year. Nearly broke up once before. He has a lot of baggage. When I met him, all was fine. He seemed mature and like he knew what he wanted in life. It has been a emotional rollercoaster ...

I'm training, he says if I go running he'll just masturbate and not want sex later

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5615 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - This might sound silly...but I have been trying to train for a half marathon. My boyfriend smokes and has a hard time running. I am supportive of him quitting and being physically active together. However, he recently started to smoke again a...

I'm in love with a person that drives me insane, so I think

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - I'm really confused on what to do... I just broke it off w/ my now ex-boyfriend of 8 months because of his creepy behavior. i.e. stealing my cell phone out of my pocket and biking away w/ it and deleting a ton of numbers causing me to ca...

He won't go near me now - what can I do about it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - hey i work with this guy he is younger than me the moment i seen him i fell in love we got to be great friends told each other everything he was with sum1 and so was i but we didnt care and took our friendship to the next level, we were with each ...

Does it sound like this relationship has reached a dead-end?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5615 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now It's been a difficult year, suffering from depression and having serious surgery he's stuck through it all with me. But a couple of months ago he said something to me and ever since then, its lik...

How can we avoid all this anger towards each other? What can I say to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - I do not know what to do and need advice. Been a very good friend with a guy for many years and we got on very well.we would talk and he always showed off and even showed me how too play music for the music events he did.used to drive him home.he ...

I think she still has deep feelings for her ex. Should I prepare for the worst?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

14 July 2009 (M) - I've been dating this wonderful girl for about a year and eight months. She used to screw around with another guy before we got together, even occasionally when she was in a relationship. When we started dating, she said that was over. So did he...

I want to be there for him, but I don't know how if he won't tell me what's wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - Please help,I don't know what to do. Me n my bf,have been together for nearly a year now, my parents broke up last night of a 13 year relationship and a 4 year marrage. Im 15, and its my mum and step dad are the ones who have broken up. My bf, ha...

He visits chat rooms and dating sites, yet he accuses me of hiding things!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - I have been with my bloke for 3 years. for the last two he has developed a habit of visiting chat rooms and dating sites. we broke up time and time again. i get denial,aggressive behaviour,or blame. he says things like how do i know you dont go on ...

I was doing fine until my ex asked to see me. Now I am so confused and can't stop texting him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - I am really confused of what's going on right now... Recently, I met with my ex as he terrorized me with texts saying he wanted to see me so badly he has something to say. He kept calling until I agreed to see him. When i saw him, all he sa...

Rumors are swirling around at work about us and we aren't together!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - hi hope someone can maybe shed some light on what could be going on here. A few months ago a new guy joined my work and we seemed to get on ok. Over the last 2 - 3 months or so he has been talking to me more and we seemed to have a connection. my ...

Am I being paranoid to suspect he's cheating or do I have a genuine reason to be concerned?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5616 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - i think my partner having an affair. iv thought this for a year now after he asked me to wax my bits after 7 yrs of relationship an never botherd bfore this and just recently he found a spot on is man bits showed me then tried to blame me. iv never ...

My friend and boss crossed a line with me and fired me, and yet I miss him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - I feel so dreadful. I worked for this man for 6 months. Before I went to work for him, we were close friends. He’s been married for almost 12 years, and I’ve been in a common law relationship for 7 years. We both had struggles in our ...

I'm in love with my ex-girlfriend's sister, and she might feel the same way.... Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

14 July 2009 (M) - So... here goes. I've been in a really abusive relationship with my girlfriend (call her Sarah) for about five years now, and I haven't had the balls to call it off until very recently. Here's the hard part: Sarah's younger sister (call her...

Is he being friendly, or is it something more? I don't want to risk rejection

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - Hi there. I feel that im in a confused state. I got to know this guy, age 29 back in 2008. FYI: im 22. We officially became a couple in jan,2009. But we broke up a month later because i was still having flings with my ex bf and he couldnt accept the ...

He wants to be with me, but he doesn't want to leave his wife and kids

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - i am hoping you can help with my dilemma. about 15 months aho i started seeing my boss from work. we had only been seeing each other fr a week when we left our partners, the click that we felt as that strong. anyway, he only managed to stay the ...

Help! My girlfriend's transforming into a sack of lard!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

14 July 2009 (M) - Alright, I've been going out with my girlfriend for about five years now, since we were sophomores in high school. We've survived the transition to a long distance relationship in different universities and are completely committed to each other. I ...

I think he doesn't love me anymore, and his comments about my weight hurt

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - i have been with my botfriend now for almost 3 years. we have been through alot of bad times, but good times as well. i have stayed with him all summer long so far..things are great..but i feel like he isnt showing me enough attention anmore. he ...

What causes a man to constantly criticise the woman he's with?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - What causes a man to constantly criticise a girl that he's seeing? My boyfriend does this a lot. At first id laugh about it,because he always says it jokingly. But now I'm really starting to feel hurt by some of the things he says. For example,if ...

His mom keeps telling him to break up with me and meet new people! Should we ignore her, or do as she says?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - Hi! okay well me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 years now and I am in love with him. I have had many boyfriends before and have experienced a lot and so has he. I feel that he has every quality that I am looking for in a guy and he is ...

My brother planned a party that I didn't want. He said it was for a joke, but I feel like I was the joke!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

14 July 2009 (M) - This last weekend was my birthday, and few months ago I had mentioned to my older brother that I would like a meal that just included the immediate family (2 sis, 1 other bro, and mom)A year ago my dad passed away 2 days after my birthday so I ...

There is no proof he is attracted to her, but I don't like her being in his life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been broke up but went back out. The first time we broke up, one of the reasons was another girl in the picture. He didn't cheat. They were becoming good friends as were getting worse. It annoyed me to the point I couldn't ...

He cheated, we haven't discussed it, he hasn't called.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - I recently discovered that my boyfriend cheated on me. I found last night and me and him haven't really discussed it yet. I can't help but wonder if we ever will. I'm hurt and completely disgusted that he would do this to me. This is the lowest of...

Was he trying to make me feel better? Or is he insanely picky?

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14 July 2009 (F) - Me and my fairly new boyfriend (ie there's a lot we still don't know about each other yet) were watching a movie last night starring one of his fave female celebrities. I mean, she's absolutely gorgeous and I've got no problem with him thinking that ...

He called the police on me because I wouldn't shut up

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is 20 years old then me and set in his way along with being a cross-dresser. he broke up with me said he is tried of me and I have been seeing him for 15 years. I've always known about his uniqueness and love him so much. He said he ...

He wants me to break up with my b/f but he won't commit to me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5616 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - Hello! Im am slightly confussed about this guy that I have a thing for online ... Okay, I'll tell you a few details; We've been chatting online for over a year now - I'm a student + I work weekends and he is a manager on a cruise ship which he ha...

It took me all night to get the truth out of him and now I'm wondering if there's more!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - Fiance came home an hour late from work.He told me he had to work late. I didn't believe him and questioned him all night. THe next day he told me a co-worker just broke up with bf and didn't have anyone to talk to so he stayed late to talk to her ...