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I thought we were so happy, but niwshe's treating me so badly.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

16 July 2009 (M - My girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year things had been amazing, obviously we had our ups and downs. The past 3 weeks had been great.... Well I thought so. I took her out for a meal and a movie we had a really enjoyable night. ...

What do you do when your man prefers porn over you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

16 July 2009 (F - I'm in my 40's and still get compliments from 20yr. old guys!..but my man prefers porn over me? ive tried everything i'm willing to do for him..but he still does this..we have a child together.. and i want to be a family..but it hurts to know..that ...

4 Drinks, 2 Cougars, 1 Pole, and a Baby

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

16 July 2009 (F - My boyfriend is significantly older than myself. We go to bars together and women significantly older than both of our ages added together usually gravitate to us and begin random conversations. In these conversations, they tend to be overly ...

My boyfriend is an ass, a jerk, inconsiderate and makes me cry

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

16 July 2009 (F - Okay, same guy if you've read my questions before. Last night me and my boyfriend were doing things sexually, and i couldnt get him off...this has happend a couple times before and hes drunk...its been an hour or more and he still wants me to keep ...

Can someone tell me what's going on in his head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5599 days ago

16 July 2009 (F - Firstly I'd like to thank everyone who's helped me in the past, your help is much appreciated. I've been seeing a guy not exclusively for a while now (almost 4 months), but for the past month he's been contacting me less and less, although he's to...

Should I get out now or wait until the whole family is imprisoned?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

16 July 2009 (F - For the last 6 months I have been in love with a wonderful man who I had every intention of marrying. Recently his past relationships have come to the fore a lot esp regarding his young son who is always getting into trouble. This child has recently ...

I don't know if I can walk away. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

16 July 2009 (F - I know my boyfriend loves me, he does tell me this and we would could potentially have a good life together in the future. We complement each other quite well. He's helped me with a lot of things in my life and helped me try to accept who I am. T...

How will I avoid losing her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

16 July 2009 (M - I am desperate for some help and feel like I am stuck in a rut and I cant get myself out. Here goes.... I have been seeing my girlfriend for around a a year and 2 months the first couple of months were fantastic and we had so much fun together she...

She says she wants to be with me yet wants to lose her virginity to a guy

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

16 July 2009 (F - Hey I've been with my girlfriend for 3 months. I too am a girl n for her this is her first lesbian relationship yet it is my third. However it is my first sexual lesbian relationship. Were both 17 and I have fell in really deeply and it seems sh...

How do I make the break final instead of running away from our problems?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

16 July 2009 (F - Hello, I'm looking for help regarding my marriage and would be grateful for advice from people who may have gone through a similar situation. My husband and I have been together 12 years, but only married for 3.5 years. Less than a week before we ...

Why do women place such importance on the emotional side of sex?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

16 July 2009 (M - Okay, I have a question for both men and women. My girlfriend and I have been together for over a year. When it comes to sex, she claims to love it with me and tells me that I make her feel better than anyone has before - physically but then she ...

Was I right to end things with my boyfriend? And what should I do about my 'new' boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

16 July 2009 (F - I was going out with this guy ('dale') for over a year, but like every relationship we had out ups and downs, but the best thing was is that, not only was he my boyfriend he was my bestfriend too, we got along perfectly, i felt so comfortable around ...

Help me plz, my husband is possessive!

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16 July 2009 (F - Hi,am a lady aged 22,and i got married last year to a guy who is so possesive. It was a hurried wedding because he had to travel to south africa for further studies so he didnt want to leave me and his two year old son bak hom in kenya without ...

I think I rushed into a relationship to quickly, what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

16 July 2009 (M - Perhaps I've rushed into a relationship too soon since my last one. My new boyfriend has become very clingy, and long-term oriented, but in essence, we've been together a week, and it's scaring me. We got to talking today and I realized that I ...

The first date was great but he hasn't called to me ask me out for a second, what's going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

16 July 2009 (F - I work at a rehersal studio and this guy comes un once a week... For a few months he would come and buy a soda and flirt with me... One night he started asking me questions about myself and I ended up giving him my business card... He had it for ...

I feel guilty about my past and I'm afraid I wont find anyone in the future who will accept me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

16 July 2009 (F - I am a 16 year gal...I'm really finding it difficult to forget my past..here goes the story { In brief} I was in this relationship for about 13 months..After a long emotional drama..Fights..misunderstandings..Problems of insecurity.. We've called i...

I compare all the guys I date to a man who I cant even be with!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5600 days ago

16 July 2009 (F - I seem to be comparing the guys I date to one guy who is very special to me, but for various reasons I can't be with. He's a great guy and we stay in close email contact and sometimes meet up. To me he is perfect (apart from being over 1000 km away ...

Should I get in touch with my ex even though I said I never wanted to hear from him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5600 days ago

16 July 2009 (F - Should i write to my ex fling even after I told him I dont want to hear from him again? I used to date a guy for a couple months 5 months ago, we were perfect together and i was very happy but we were never official so i cut off all contact with...

Why did he put in so much effort for the first 3 months, only to now act like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

16 July 2009 (F - alright guys i am confused. so this is going to be long. please give me some opinions though. so i have been sorta kinda been with this guy for 5 months so i met this guy who works at the airport in my hometown, when i had a really long layo...

Worried about my new life in Oz....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

16 July 2009 (F - Hi - I am due to move out to Oz to be with my boyfriend (he's 33 I'm 37) soon but he is cricket obsessed. I know he has always been really into playing it and there is no way I would get in the way of that in essence (he played since an early age ...

Did he take advantage of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

16 July 2009 (F - Almost a month ago I had a one night fling with this guy we will call him "M", well we talked over the phone about our "fling" we both agreed that things would go back to the way they were between us. Well, last Saturday he just calls me out of the ...

Taking it slow?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5599 days ago

16 July 2009 (M - My GF of 3.5 years recently broke up with me. She was hurt that she didn't feel I loved her anymore and that I no longer made her feel special. I felt the same way, I feared she no longer loved me which caused me to pull back and stop making her ...

I really want to make things work but he wont make any effort!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5599 days ago

16 July 2009 (F - ive been in a relationship for over 4yrs. with my boyfriend and we have one kid together. we dont live together and i feel like he has no responsibilities to me or my daughter. i go to school and work yet he can't even go back for his GED or find a ...

Why do I no longer love my wife?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 July 2009 (M - Why do I no longer love my wife? My wife and I have been married for 5 years, we have no children. She is 31 and I am 32. I feel no longer love my wife. She is a wonderful person, the kind that does everything to make you feel better. People ...

Am I being selfish, or is he?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

16 July 2009 (F - This winter my boyfriend decided to take a 2 month trip to europe. We had only been dating 5months, so obviously our relationship wasn't going to "stop" him from travelling, but we were both in love, and the distance apart for so long was hard on ...

Confused about whether to find a new girl.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

16 July 2009 (M - At the end of last year I ended an 18 month relationship because it wasn't working out, and I was having family problems at the same time which didn't help. The relationship had been great for the majority of the 18 months but had been degenerating ...

Is he just using me and I should end this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

16 July 2009 (F - I met this guy a month in a half ago, and we have been hanging out since then. At first it was a really nice date, we did things together and then at the end we made out. We have been going to this park and hooking up, and he told me he liked me. So ...

Why would a man stay in a marriage like this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

16 July 2009 (F - ......i need help finding someone to talk to about my problems! question?..why would a man want to stay married to a woman he has no sex with, does everything for...but is never around or spend time with his wife..of 20..years?...

I've been pushed aside AGAIN! Any advice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

16 July 2009 (F - I have been in a relationship for five years. It has been really hard, because I have been put to the side so many times. I have been stood up, and I expressed how I felt. He promised to change, showed up at work with roses, and told me he loved ...

There is not point to what they are doing and it doesn't help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

16 July 2009 (F - hey, i was just wondering, how you can love someone enough to let them go, hurt them so they wont get hurt later on to protect them and try to save them. can this happen. also if a person is doing it how can you make them stop and see that without...

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