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Archived questions from: 6 July, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He cheated on me as I was pregnant and made the other woman pregnant too

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 2 years and we just had a baby. A few weeks ago I found out that he has another woman 7 months pregnant. So I start investigating about their relationship and turns out they were off and on during the whole time we ...

We should break up, but for some reason, I'm still with him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for two weeks straight, all day everyday. We are not use to this because he just moved back to my home town. Now as the second week is coming to its end, we constantly fight. There is no communcation. Basically, I ca...

I feel she needs to be let go, but I am unsure

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

6 July 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for over two years and lately it's been pretty tough. Lately, she has been, to be honest, a big pain the ass. She will start fights and get mad at me over dumb little things like forgetting to say “I love you” ...

She wants to be friends but I want more!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - I moved to another state and my ex broke up with me a month later. I still love her but she is seeing another guy now who is much older then I am. She said she loves me and misses me but when i asked her about it she said she was just vulnerable at ...

There is massive miscommunication between what we really want from each other

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - (Mod note: please break up your massive wall of text next time with proper paragraph formatting. Many people fall away from such things.) My head is everywhere and I really need help and advice. I'm sorry that this is so long but I felt like all...

I wrote a letter to clear everything up before he died but no avail

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - my husband has passed away leaving me in terrible mess he never told me he loved towards the end even though i let him no i loved him he never said anything i wrote him a letter asking him to clear every thing up between him an i before he died but ...

Why do men have a problem with me not being "lady like"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - Im an full time auto mechanic and I love it but this really bugs my husband for no reason. Sometimes I do little remodels on our car just for fun or cause I'm bored and I usually take off my wedding band to do so (don't want to loss it). Then my ...

I'm so confused! Should I play hard to get?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

6 July 2009 (M) - I am 29, and my ex is 30. We broke up about 6-7 weeks ago over some serious misunderstandings and misscommunication. Over the course after that breakup, we were talking, but then it faded to nothing. Last monday, she emailed me, and we have been ...

We need to talk but I don't want to make her uncomfortable

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

6 July 2009 (M) - My GF broke up with me a couple months back. To make a long story short, we both began to be unhappy but it was because we thought the other was unhappy with us. I guess you could say it was simply a case of two people being very very close yet ...

Does he want to get back together or is it just somewhere to rest his head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - sooo my ex boyfriend is one of those quiet guys and doesnt really open up to anyone after all he did loose his mom three years ago and never knew his family so he kinda has fear of women getting close to them and then loosing them wich i understand ...

She keeps everything bottled up! Why is she doing this to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

6 July 2009 (M) - i have been with my partner for 9 years and we have two kids and lived togither untill 3 weeks ago when she said i make her sad and asked me to leave she said she loves me but cant live with me is she just saying she loves me and why is she doing ...

Thank you! Your advice worked..but how do I keep him this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - I'm really thankful to u because your idea worked. I told u about my boyfriend that he neglects me. When I call him he says that he doesn't wanna talk. But after consulting with u I stopped calling him just for one day and then he realized that what ...

10 years and hes seeing this other girl but texting me like we never broke up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - Ok so me and my ex were dating for 10 years. We had a pretty good relationship. Then all of a sudden we stop hanging out and seeing eachother. We would still send texts back and forth to eachother like we were still together. come to find out he ...

I have to end it with this guy but not sure how...Opinions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - I need to end it with this really nice guy as i'm just not that into him. but its going to be really unexpected for him and he is going to be heartbroken. i've never had to do this before and i really don't want to do it in person, as its g...

Should physical intimacy play a minor role in a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

6 July 2009 (M) - I have had major relationship problems with my boyfriend which have mostly revolved around intimacy/sex. My partner has revealed that he thinks non-sexual things should make up 90 per cent of a relationship and that sexual things should be 10 per...

My sister owe's me money! How do I go about getting it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - My sister owe's me money since 2006, i keep asking her every month but she promises to give it to me but never does yet she can fix her husbands car every month i am no longer working but that doesn't seen to matter to her and i also have bills to p...

I feel like a dirty, cheating tramp! Please help....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - i really need some help as i just feel awful. i feel as thought i can never forgive myself for something i did, 6 years ago i was friends with a guy at work. i liked him a lot to talk to and he made me laugh. i ws engaged to another guy at th...

She says we shouldn't need physical contact all the time!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

6 July 2009 (M) - Hi all. So as the title suggests, all me and my partner seem to do is argue over things. We have been together 9 months and we both love each other very much, but its all starting to get a bit too much. Last night we had a row over how ofte...

Fiance is being very secretive and its got me very worried!

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6 July 2009 (F) - hi i need some help im so confused. im 3months pregnant with my fiance's bby, we have been together a year now but i think hes cheating on me! hes lied to me in the past about where he was going n stuff, he told me 6months later, he said he dint ...

Do I chuck 16 months with ex and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - Hey aunts and uncles. I have recently written on here before maybe 2-3 weeks ago, about how i had started to like another boy that i had only known for 2 weeks, when i had a boyfriend that id been with for 16 months. Well il update everyone b...

I know I need to get over him, but he's beign so callous!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - Wow, ok, I have a huge problem getting over my ex boyfriend, because he was my first love, at 23. The relationship lasted for a year and a half. He has 2 MSN accounts, one with his real name, and one with a fake name. I met him online, on his fake ...

Now that we are back together, he's not showing me love and respect. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I just got back together after taking a break for a few weeks. I initiated the break because I just wasn't feeling respected or appreciated. He would forget to call me, not show up for a date and then have some lame excuse, saying ...

I love my guy, but his family's intrusiveness is causing so much stress on our relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5624 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. He is 25 years old and recently he purchased his own home. His family is having a difficult time dealing with him moving on with his own life, and guilts him into spending time with them and not ...

I want my ex back, I still love her and now she's seeing someone new!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5624 days ago

6 July 2009 (M) - Hi guys, I need help, i was dating a girl for 5 months and it was going amazing. We were both really in love and i thought it would never end. Then she broke up with me out of the blue, said that she needed to concentrate on her exams and she coul...

We have no chemistry, but I stay with him because I have no one else...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5624 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - I am dating my ex that I divorced 10 yrs ago that I was only married to for 2wks .He is nice but for me there is no chemistry, I don't want to be intimate with him. I sometimes feel I am dating him him cause I am not dating anyone else. I guess I ...

I'm feeling unloved and thinking of ending the relationship -- advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - Okay so I'm 16 years old and I have a bit of a problem. I've been dating my boyfriend for 1 year and 10 months. He broke up with me last year, but we got back together and everything has been going reasonably well since we got back together a few ...