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Archived questions from: 24 July, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He breaks my heart everytime I give him another chance, should I give up or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5605 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - How to make me feel better and peace of mind? My boyfriend is a flirt, I had been give him so many chance in the return he said I am sick, I am too much to check his phone, call the woman that he talk with, the last chance I gave him was a month...

Sadly, I am in love with a woman, who is not my wife, but who I do love, what should I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

24 July 2009 (M) - I am a 29 yr old guy with problems (obviously). I have been married to my wife for just shy of 1 year, though we have been together for over 7 years (met in college, first 2 yrs were not really serious yet). She is about a year younger than me. Five ...

Bride wars: Brides plan events for same day - help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - My best friend Bridget is getting married this fall, and I am her Matron of Honor. We have been best friends for over ten years, she was my Maid of Honor, and in short- we are like sisters. Not to make this all too confusing, but it is important ...

Should I confront him about his online dating account?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - My bf and I have been together for more than a year. We dated for 5 months and I had to go back home but came back after 8 months and moved back in with him. we never ended the relationship and we are deeply in love with one another. Recently I ...

Why does he want to hang out with me when he has a wife, a kid, and another on the way?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - hey everyone. i am a 17 year old girl and im having an issue. I like this guy named Tony who is 26 years old and he used to work as a security guard for my school. When he was working for my school i used to skip class andhang out with him and we ...

He said he wanted to be alone but he slept with someone else a week later. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - My question is actually dealing with a break up...My ex broke up with me about a month ago because he needed to be alone to work on himself. We dated for 10 months and lived together for 8 months. I tried evrything to make it work and he just ...

Did he overreact or was I in the wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - Today, completely by accident, I insulted my boyfriend and I don't know what to make of it. Let me explain. I have been doing work experience for a week at a preschool, which means we havent seen each other for a week so we agreed to meet f...

He slept with 71 women, I've only been with 2 men - am I over reacting?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - Ive just found out that my boyfriend of 5 month has slept with 71 women!! I went out with him the other nite and i heard a conversation mentioned bout the number 71 i asked him and he said i was number 72! I feel sick cos i got the impression that ...

His actions scare me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of two years and I have broken up before, at the time our conflicts were getting really really bad. I know I have made the arguement worse many times, I have a dry sarcastic nature that hits him in just the right way, but there are ...

She stopped answering her other line calls from me, what could this mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

24 July 2009 (M) - what does it mean when a women you known for a long time say a year ...stops answering your calls or when she is talking to someone esle doesnt stop what she is doing and pick up call waiting and let you know she is on the other line ...and w...

What do I do with this girl? And my boyfriend's response to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend visited me during my college classes. he Stays home as i go to class. i didn't want him to be bored so i gave him access to my computer. my curiosity gets the best of me, so i checked the history. i saw he went to this social network, ...

My mom wants me to spend less time with my boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - Ok Here's my problem. I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 and a half years. I love him to death and he loves me just the same, our relationship has had some really rough times and he broke up with me for one whole day. and we patchd things up...

One minute he wants to work things out, the next he is pulling away!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5605 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - Please someone help me:( My boyfriend of 6 months broke up with me out of nowhere a month ago. Everyone, including me, was completely shocked. Throughout the month we have been in contact every day, talking, texting, meeting up and even going away ...

Is there a way to ask questions more nicely?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - I recently had a problem with my boyfriend. i like talking about our problems to solve them. communication is the key, correct? there's another problem that arises in this, he at times takes forever to answer. i asked him about this as well, he says ...

Should I hold on with my fiance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

24 July 2009 (M) - I have known my fiance for 5 years now. We decided to get engaged in on our 5th year and plan to get married in the next. We don't live together. She lives with her parents while I have my own place. Now the feeling have changed. She is pushing me ...

After I told him I didn't want a one-night stand, he's stopped responding to my messages.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - Ok so i recently met a guy that was friend with one of my bestfriends boyfriend and we hit it off from the start next thing you know we are making out. Then my girlfriend and i left that night. So he messaged me on facebook after we became friends ...

He cheated, she's pregnant. Now what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - my boyfriend cheated on me back in april and now this chick is calling me telling me that she is pregnant with his baby. he dont want anything to do with her and she is only talking to me about the situation. what am i suppose to do about this? we ...

I reported my teacher for 4 years of sexual touching and abuse, why did my deputy head shun me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - I don't know if anyone will be able to help me with this, but i hope so. I had a teacher (Who is head of department and on the governing board for the school) who was extensively innappropriate with me over a period of 4 years. He used to touch me...

What can I do to speed the process up and get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

24 July 2009 (M) - im in need of a little help here. a little background for you, i dated this girl for nearly 4 years. she left me about two months ago to see other people and if we were meant to be together she says we will find our way back to each other. i love ...

He says he is willing to take a lie detector to prove he didnt cheat on me with a man!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5605 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - Hi everyone I am a transwoman and I ve been dating this guy for 1year 6 months in at first things were like a fairytale I couldnt get enough of him. Things started to change he didnt have a job,a car or a place anyways I was willing to work with him ...

Relationship from hell: But I cant leave him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - Here’s my problem: I probably have the relationship from hell, but I can’t break up with this guy, I love him too much. Problems: He takes money from me and says he’ll pay me back, never has. (over all, he’s taken at least £1000 from me.) ...

We have an agreement so my wife can have sex with another man, but now he has started to be abusive to her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

24 July 2009 (M) - I have a new question . My wife has had sex with another guy while we are married. And thats ok with me because i have medical problems that prevent me from getting an erection .AND we both are in agreement about this arrangement so dont preach to ...

How do I get her back? I've loved her for 2 years!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5605 days ago

24 July 2009 (M) - basically, i have been involved with this girl for 2 years we've dated twice and the first time other people put an end to it and then we got together again about 5 months ago, and about 2 weeks ago she broke up with me because i lied to her but not ...

My girlfriend and my mum are not getting on, but I feel like we should be trying to keep my mum happy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

24 July 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid I have been going out with my girlfriend for 9 months now and I have been seeing her for almost a year. She is a strict vegetarian and she is currently living with me and my mum for a few months till i can find a job and move out wit...

Why did he come all the way out to my house to be the way he was, especially seeing as we're over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5605 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - Hi..PLEASE PLEASE help me. My boyfriend and I were together for 6 months and brokke up a month ago completely out of the blue. It was very unexpected. We were deleriously happy and everyone, even people we didn't know would comment on it. For the ...

I always thought we would remain friends, but she has told me to stop bothering her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5605 days ago

24 July 2009 (M) - I'm 30 yrs old and I was in a relationship with a single mom who is 7 years older then me. The relationship lasted approx. 3 years in which we lived together the entire time. It's going to be a year since our break up next month. She has a 7 yr...

I'm too scared to ask him how he feels in case I scare him off!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - I'm so unbelievably confused! I can't even think how to get all these thoughts written down in an order that makes sense. I always thought I knew how to figure guys out but I could really use some help, I'm thinking someone impartial might be able ...

My boyfriend sulks every time we have an argument!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - my boyfriend sulks every time we have an argument? my boyfriend sulks when he does not get his own way. He plays golf a lot and works awkward hours in a hotel. I understand his love for the game and I'm always willing to compromise but s...

How do I get over this? My self-esteem is crushed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - I feel very bad. My first boyfriend of almost 3 years broke up with me. Basically, once he heard about my past, he thought I was a whore, and because I lied about the past a couple of times, he lost his trust in me. Now, I know lying was wrong, but ...

Boyfriend ignores me, what should I do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5606 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - I really don't know what to do anymore..my boyfriend is always ignoring me but he gets mad at me when i talk to other guys. hes always so rude to me. i dont get him. he acts like he doesnt care, but sometimes he can be really sweet. i broke up with ...

Should I move on or stay with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5606 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - I've been dating someone for 4 years now on and off. About 2 years into our relationship I found out he had cheated on me and that he was lying pathologically just for the sake of lying. At first I tried to make it work with him. I spent a whole ...

I'm damaged goods... should I just settle for him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - Ok so I hope you can take time and read this, as I dont know know who else to reach to. I am a woman in my mid twenties, I have a small child that I raise at home alone. I was married to the father of my child for four years. The relation...

He was so embarassing to be with when he drinks that I don't invite him along anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - This isn't exactly a relationship question...I moved to a new city a few months ago, and one of the first people I met was a guy who also just moved here and didn't know anyone. So we sort of became friends by default, though he likes me and has ...

My girlfriend thinks she has a horrible body!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

24 July 2009 (M) - i need help, i have been with my girlfriend for around three years now and she still wont let me see her body, she wont take her top off when we have sex and she wont even get changed around me. i have tryed soo many times to tell her she has a ni...

He lied about smoking weed and he was messaging another girl about going out on a date!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - I feel like i have problems all the time :(. Sorry this is so long, but please read. Well, I love my boyfriend. Some of you may have read my last post about the Birth Control. Well, unfortunatley we have another problem. I love my bo...

Girlfriend anger issues

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24 July 2009 (M) - My girlfriend or ex as of a few days ago has basically put an ultimatum that I get help for my 'issues' or goodbye! It's complex, this has been a very close friend for more than 10 years. We dated for a couple of months when we first met 10 yea...