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30-35,
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writes:Ok, so one of my guy friends asked me out a couple of weeks ago on myspace, i said yes, and then he says we should wait until school starts to be together, so the next day, I'm chatting with him, and I find out that he got a girlfriend the very next day. Well that night, I had asked him if he was sure about waiting, and he said he was sure, and that he knew feelings wouldn't change over the summer, and the next day all of this happens, and I'm like, I can't believe I actually trusted him again! Well, last night, I went to a rodeo with my family, and I saw my best friend (which happens to be a guy I've known for pratically my whole life, and really love, though he doesn't know I love him more than friends go). And I told him about it, and he was like "Dang, that really sucks", and I had asked him out a couple of years ago, but he turned me down, because he had a girlfriend he thought I knew about, and some serious stuff went down after that, but we both settled things out and we're closer than ever now. So last night I asked him what would he say if I had asked him out earlier that night (last night), and he said he seriously didn't know what he would say, because one of his ex-girlfriends are trying to talk to him now, and get back together, and then I asked him, what would he say if he wasn't seeing anyone, and he said he would most-likely say yes, because I'm his best friend, and he likes me for who I really am, and not who I was trying to be a few years ago way before I asked him out in the first place. But I do love my best friend more than friends, I'm not sure he feels the same way. How do I choose between both of these guys, I mean they are both great, and in ways forbid me to be with either one because of the situations going on right now with both of them. If you were in my shoes, who would you choose and why? I'm leaning towards my best friend a bit, because, I can always count on having his shoulder to cry on when things get tough, and has helped me stop cutting myself for the other guy. Also, I think I should be with him, because, he's a guy I know won't make me hurt myself for him. So I really want to know, what would you others out there do? Girls and guys opinions and answers welcome.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2009): I say your best friend. even if he is trying to talk to his ex i'd choose him over the other because you know he'll be there for you no matter what and he actually likes you for who you are. the other guy sounds like a huge player. i think the reason you liked him is because players know what to say. go for the other guy, the best friend.
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