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Archived questions from: 3 July, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I am going CRAZY. I don't want to just let go and regret it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

3 July 2009 (M) - I know this is probably a common question but I haven't been able to pinpoint a situation that I feel I can completely relate to. I have been dating my girlfriend for about 6 months now (I'm 19 and she's 24). The first half of our relation...

I don't know what to make of all this, can you shed some light on it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I don't understand what's going on. My boyfriend has a few issues with confidence and things of this nature. Recently they have become a massive problem and he said that he may need a break, but he doesn't even know if it would help him. So at the ...

Are his feelings still true?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - a few months ago my boyfriend ended our relationship. Hes in the army and he was away for 8 months. He came back and within a few days he text me after me returning home from his with a text "i dont feel like its working out, it feels awkward"... ...

I want to make up with him but I feel so alone

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I have recently broken up with my boyfriend. I am not sure why but he has stopped ringing,texting and stopped talking to me.I feel as if everyone is against me, I've heard people talking about me and making fun out of me. I don't know what to do. I ...

Is this me or is it moving to fast?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I have a good friend and his wife left him four months ago and they were together for 12 years. For three months he begged her to take him back. As far as I know, he didn't do anything bad and this break-up was out of the blue. He met a girl 4 ...

Was he playing me all along?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Hi I met this guy while on a school trip together, and we kept in contact since then. I developed a little crush on him, and when I told him he said he did like me back too, but wasn't looking for a gf since he was so close to moving away to u...

Are his feelings for me genuine?

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3 July 2009 (F) - I like this guy from past 5 years... I got to know that he is in relationship with someone else and after that i dont how but even i commited myself in a relationship but my feelings for this person remain unchanged. Whenever I used to talk with som...

Step brother lover...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - This is actually quite hard for me to do, i am and have been deeply in love with my step brother for over 20 years. our parents were together when we were three till 13. he never lived with us and only stopped over once a month. our parents had kids ...

Please help me get over this, we're so alike and they're just not suited its killing me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Hey some help here would be appreciated please. Could you just please explain to me why this lad that i was good friends with is behaving this way. We were good friends and stuff and i've always liked him think he liked me too because of how he ...

Since we've gotten back together I haven't orgasmed and my boyfriend thinks it's him that must be the problem. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Hey, so I'm with my boyfriend of just over three years. We have been in love for these three years since we met, though we broke up after two years as we were both worried we were getting tied down too early, and both saw other people. However after ...

Feuding friends...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5619 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Well, this isn't a dating question but I really needed to ask anyway. I grew up with my two best friends from kindergarden to high school then through uni we were inseperable. We had a very intense and amazing friendship. Then disaster struck. F...

I can't bare to think about them together or even see them together because it hurts to much...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Hi, hope some of you could help me here. This is kinda 2 questions in one so sorry its long I know im probably being very stupid and yes i havent gotta get over it but i need some help and someone else opinion on what has happened. Obviously i won't ...

17 and asked to move! How do I get out and onto my own 2 feet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I hate living with my family and they dislike living with me, because I don't contribute to anything in the house and just sit in my bedroom or go out, I've been wanting to move out for over a year now but only ever played with the idea, my Dad has ...

My boyfriend is mad about my past...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Hello, my boyfriend and I recently broke up. I know I still love him and I know he still cares about me, but he is extremly mad at me for my past. I gave him my msn password because I honestly didn't care if he went on. But before I met him there ...

I keep dreaming of my boyfriend cheating!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5625 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I have had three dreams in a row where my boyfriend is cheating on my with my best friend. The first one - my best friend was trying to hook up with him, and I told her to stay out of our relationship and I kept screaming at her. The seco...

My first boyfriend has reappeared in my life, and married and I don't know how to stop living in the past.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I didn't start dating until I was 20, but I never had a serious relationship until I was 23. But the first boy I dated when i was 20, only for 3 months, but he was the sweetest, cutest, most lovely boy, and til now I still think about how wonderful ...

He has left me financially insolvent and hasn't shown any affection for years.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Yahoo!My Yahoo!MailMore Can anyone give me some advice? I'm a little nervous writing this because i really dont want any nasty comments just some advice please. 6 years ago I worked at the same place as my then fiancee and a good friend. I ...

I need opinions here, I don't know what's going on...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I've been dating this guy now for over 3 months, not exclusively. sunday he told me I was "growing on him" I asked him what he meant and he said that in the begining it didnt really mean anything to him, cos he wasnt looking for anything (he'd just ...

How do I show her that I trust her and that I would do anything for her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

3 July 2009 (M) - Hey there my girlfriend has recently finished me after a two year relationship, she says because she is emotionally drained due to me being quiet mean over the past month ( the reason i have been like this is because she started a new job and a guy ...

He makes legal threats to people on Wiki !

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I found out on the computer that my husband has been making legal threats to others on Wikipedia under multiple usernames. I confronted him, and he denied it at first, but then admitted it. He said he got a buzz out of winding them up. All h...

Am I justified in feeling suspicious and what can I do about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

3 July 2009 (M) - I just want to know if what I am feeling is normal and justified or if I'm over-reacting. Here's the story. I have been in a relationship with my current girlfriend for 10 years and we are engaged but have never got married. We met at Uni and as f...

He treats me badly, makes me feel sad, and strips me of my confidence...so why do I still want him and hope he'll change for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Its hard to express how i feel bout my ex do i love him still? Am i jealous of him? I dont know. Me and him have been so back and foward to the point it makes me dizzy. 3 yrs ive spent trying to make him realise and hoping that one day he will cha...

He says he loves me, but he'd like to have sex with other women!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I've been with my b/friend for 5 yrs. I'm very open minded as in making allowances for other peoples idiosyncracies...But there's never any kissing -which I need to light my spark, and he only ever likes to enter me from behind. It makes me feel ...

My wife has suddenly become jealous and suspicious...why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

3 July 2009 (M) - My wife has recently become excessively jealous of the women I work with. I'm not jealous of her socialising with other guys - far from it - so I don't get why she's like this. She seems to think I'll sleep with any other woman in sight - even ...

Ready to dump jealous boyfriend and go back to ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I am 17 and i recently i started going out one of my close friends and it was ok but now he has changed and everytime that i talk to any of my boy friends he gets really jealous and always comes up and puts his arm around me even when i dont want ...

I love him, I told him, but I don't know if he gets it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Okay, I love this guy and have since the first day we met. But every time we go out (date) i always end up breaking up with him,. We both tell each other we still have feelings for one another. But recently he asked me if it was okay if he asked...

Girlfriend has been difficult but tonight she hit me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

3 July 2009 (M) - Tonight my girlfriend 32, came over to tell me I was not going with het and her 3 kids to san diego. A 4 hour notice. She is ptsd. Also pregnant with our child. I am 59. When I asked her why she changed her mind she said I was trying to smother her. ...

His insecurity is killing our connection with each other

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - well im 17 and i've been in a relationship w/ my boyfriend for 2 years now and he's still insecure..i don't know what to do.I love him and i want to spend the rest of my life with him..but i feel like i can't have any friends casue he's insecure..i ...

My guy is more conservative and this is driving me nuts

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been on and off constantly for 2 years now. we keep breaking up because he's not 'touchy'...he wont even hold my hand or kiss me or put his arm around me or anything. we text each other like nonstop and he always tells me ...

My self-esteem issues is making me hang onto this boy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - So I was crazy about this guy a few months ago- like the very smell of him caused me pain' kind of crazy. We would flirt and heavily make out drunkenly/passionalty at parties, and hang out on a weekly basis, but always with a third wheeler friend to ...

There was some miscommunication between us and he's stressing over it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5627 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Yesterday night after I got off from work I went to a movie, and after it was over I texted my boyfriend saying I'll stop by his house since he was just getting off work. Well I was planning on having sex with him before I left but when he got back ...

Can you teach someone to treat you the way you want to be treated?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Can you teach someone to treat you the way you want to be treated?....Or is that the typical trap we women fall into, thinking a man is going to change for us?....My boyfriend has many great qualities, but doesn't really respect women in general. ...

How do I not fall for verbally abusive ex's guilt trips?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - So basically I am just wondering if anyone out there has some tips or ways to not fall for guilt trips? My ex-bf who was verbally abusive "jokingly" he called it, made a promise to change but he has lied about things in the past and I don't th...

I think I deserve to be treated much better. Your opinions, please!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - just need opinions! Heres what its about. Well i have a boyfriend and ive been going out with him for ten months now, but the big problem is that he treats me like his little B**ch. See he sais its all because his ex girlfriend cheate...

He's moved to be with me, and he says he loves me but that things just aren't "right"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I met my boyfriend in a weird way. Our "at the times" cheated with each other. Him and I ended up bonding over broken hearts. He is my best friend and has always been there for me. He makes me smile and my every day. The only issue is, I lived in ...

I hit my wife and choked her, she thinks it's her fault...help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

3 July 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid, My wifew and I have been under alot of stress since my accident 2 years ago , we just recently went through depositions for our case, which is hard for us. Yesterday we got into a big fight and she wanted me to express to her w...

Broken...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

3 July 2009 (M) - Hello, I've been in a relationship for 6 years with this woman who is now 31. She was a single mom of 3 kids with three different fathers, a high school drop out. I became daddy #4 four years ago. In our house there is a total of 6 different ...

I'm a silly big girl who's in trouble with boys

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Hi.. I'm a 17 years old girl.. and i'm not as all the girls my age because i've never been in a relationship and i've never kissed a boy. Sometimes i talk with boys but because of my insecure i don't know what to say. And i think that if i have a ...

I love him, but I miss myself and I want to be happy again, how can I find myself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I've been dating C for 4 months, everything moved way too fast. He has a lot on his plate right now trying to get his 2 daughters back from CPS and he can't seem to let his baby's mama go, after 9 years. I saw all the warnings and walked into this ...