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Archived questions from: 7 July, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

So why isn't he talking to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - ok i have been talking about my boy friend jarid and like i said befor that we have a some what long distint reation ship and latly he has not ben awnsering my txt or my calls he has been a little sick but we used to talk every day it has been 3 ...

Our relationship doesn't seem to be going anywhere - how long do I stay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - ok so i have a boyfriend , since is summer we havent seen each other since the last day of school. he asked me out like 5 days ago and its been kinda going ok but lately it's like he dont dont give a fuck. excuse the language. but anyways i have onl...

My best friend and I are in a big fight because of my boyfriend...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - Hello, I have two very close friends. One is a girl, one's a boy (E.). They are dating, but the three of us are close friends since we've known each other for three years now (my friend's have been dating for 1 and a half years now). Point i...

Something is bothering him but he insists that everything is ok!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - I feel so confused at the moment. My partner and I have been in a LDR for 2 years. He is 36 years old. 8 months after we started seeing each other he was very keen for us to move in together, however I felt it was too soon and the subject was ...

WHY do I stay with this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - I hate myself for loving my boyfriend, but I can't be without him. We've been together for 3 years, and he's been my first boyfriend and love. Generally he's great towards me, but sometimes he hurts me so much and doesn't seem to care. He always...

The father won't return calls ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - My daughter, who is 18, is 7 months pregnant and her boyfriend (20 years old) won't return texts or calls. She is really upset and just needs to talk to him to make some decisions. She originally wanted to offer the baby for adoption, but may now ...

How do I convince him our marriage can be saved?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - My husband left me four months ago for another woman, he had been having an affair for over a year. basically i want him to come home and give our marriage another chance. (we have been married 20 years) he says he loves me but not in the right ...

How do I leave him and keep custody of the kids?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - i have been with my man for almost 5 years and we have 2 kids. my problem is that i dont feel the same way about him like i did when we first got together. he has very bad anger issues which has made me angry. i love him but im sure that i am not in ...

I can't imagine being with someone else, so why am I having these doubts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year now. He's 22 and i'm 18. He's got a full time job, which means he has to be up for work at 6 every morning until 4 in the afternoon. Whereas i am at uni. Hes my first proper relationship. He tells m...

She broke up with me because of her family, am I a fool for waiting and hoping?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

7 July 2009 (M) - Ive been with this girl for 2 years + we where going fine we loved each other endlessly but on sunday she told me "i need a break" and that she loves me and hopes we can get back together. she says her heads all a mess with whats going on with her ...

My girlfriend is avoiding me, could it be she cheated?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

7 July 2009 (M) - My girlfriend is not able to speak with me in a normal way for about 2 weeks. She has a cold distant attitude since then. I tried to be patient and told her she will have to tell me one day when she's ready to let me know what's going on with her. T...

My girlfriend has feelings for another guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

7 July 2009 (M) - Ok so heres how it goes.. Ive been dating this call for 4 months now. before that, we were best friends for a year, and it was basically the best relationship ever in the beginnin when i could see that she loved me a lot. Now, i dont see that ...

He is mistrusting, paranoid, insecure and trying to control my life

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - This story sounds minor but it pretty much sums up my relationship with my boyfriend of two years, who I love dearly and he wants me to move to Italy (where he is from)... So I bought two pairs of shoes, I work in a professional setting. The he...

Long distance girlfriend wants a week break

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

7 July 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for about 8 months. She came directly out of a two year abusive relationship and i got out a 6 year relationship in which i was engaged about 4 months prior to seeing her. We hung out everyday, while we ...

We have second thoughts on marriage, but for some reason, I still think I should marry him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about 10 years now and I am having second thoughts about our relationship. We have been talking about marriage and I think he is ready to pop the question but I'm definitely not. I'm not sure if he is the one for ...

She broke up with me because of my friendship with other girls. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

7 July 2009 (M) - I have been seeing this girl for almost a year. We were never exclusive but we were dating and over the past three months, we were very serious. In fact,we went out several times a week. Well, back at the end of may, she went out with friends and ...

My boyfriend can't get me to orgasm and it's causing problems between us

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend hasn't been able to bring me to orgasm through any method. Not oral, not sex, not fingering, Nothing. So the other day we were having sex, and trying to get me to have an orgasm. And even though we know that if you focus everything on ...

Problems with the people in my life! And now there's a guy I like!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - I feel really unhappy latley , all my friends are being horrible to me exept one , all the people in my year , and the year above call me , it feels like no one likes me and i like this guy , but my parents and auntie have told me i have to have ...

What should I do if I find flirtacious comments by my boyfriend dated almost a year ago?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - I went through some of my boyfriend's forum posts for some gaming tips and found something I didn't like. I found flirtacious comments to 2 virtual females a few months after we started our relationship in 2008. Now, this was almost a year ago and I ...

Thinking of moving to another country with my b/f, not sure I trust him, mom controlling about it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - Ok everyone I am stuck between a rock and a hard place! I'm 21 and I'm going to graduate university in 1 year from now. I've been w/ my boyfriend all university (about 3 years). He has 1 extra year of school left after I finish. When he finishes...

I'm having an affair with a guy who has stopped contacting me! Is he over me already? Or just confused?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - I have been married for 13 years and have 2 children. My husband has had terrible bouts with alcohol and just recently decided to go to AA. I feel he is really trying, but I hold years of resentment from the pain he has caused my family ...

We're still together after he hurt me a lot, but I'm finding it tough. Can the damage ever be reversed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I went through a very tough few months where he was very verbally abusive. We have made it through those times and are moving forward, I am doing so with caution. However, I can not shake the empty feeling that I have inside. ...

She's ignoring me over a misunderstanding, so should I keep trying or forget about her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

7 July 2009 (M) - My girlfriend recently broke up with me. It is kind of a long story so I won't get in to all of it but long story short she misubderstood something I said, took it as being a control freak said it brought up a red flag. She agreed to talk to me last ...

Should I really believe my father after all he has put me through?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - Hey, i was wondering if anyone can help as this is kind of very important and disturbing. Ok i was talking with my father one night and he started asking about my boyfriend, as he asked more questions he said he is related to a family with the ...

Will he call on my birthday? We haven't talked in a week!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - My birthday is 2day and I am afraid my boyfriend won't call me because we haven't talked in a week. We have so much planned for 2day so what should I do if he doesn't call me? Should I call it quits or give him another chance...

I don't feel comfortable with this friend of his, is it worth ending our relationship over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - I apppreciate that I am a bit old to be feeling jealous but this is how I feel. I am due to be getting married again to a man I have known for 13 years. We met at work. At the same workplace was a lady that my boyfriend used to spend a lot of time ...

Twice she's rejected me and called me a creep and I don't know why!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

7 July 2009 (M) - oh my where do i even begin. firstly, sorry that this is long but i need your help as i have no friends. i am begging you to read this, please. i feel so awful. long story short i met this girl online back in january and we talked and all. she ...

My boyfriend has put me through so much, yet still I remain at his side. Why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - I need to tell somebody - anybody who is willing to listen. I have things bottled up that I need to get out in the open, so I can really spend some time and think about it. Thanks to all those who take the time to read this. My boyfriend is r...

My friend was upset over the death of her mom. I tried to comfort her with a joke...and I think I made her feel worse! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

7 July 2009 (?) - My friend's mom died recently(6days ago)and she been upset lately. The other day she was at my place crying her eyes out. I wasnt really sure how to calm her down so I made a joke thinking that would help. The joke was a bit mean now that I think ...

I don't know what he wants. We haven't fought, but he's ignoring me. What's going on with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - Met him on FB and we have been emailing each other for 6 months till we met and really like each others qualities. I am confident that he is a genuine person. The only issue is that he has a girlfriend. It was at the beginning stages when we got to ...

When they tell me they love me I start to feel trapped. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - I'm not sure what to do about this, I've thought about it a lot and I think I always want what I can't have. Lately I've been seeing a new guy, and until he said he really likes me I was feeling very attracted to him, but now not so much. And about ...

I still love and miss him but does he feel the same way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - I lost my virginity to this guy and at first had a "casual" relationship, I guess. He told me that he would ask me out but he needs to get into law school and he is on the verge of failing. After a few months, I told him I cant do it anymore with ...

Is better communication the key? Even though he cheated on his wife with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - Hello. I have been living with my boyfriend about 4 months now. We've known each other for 8 years. we met while he was married, started a relationship then, but we ended it after a year when we realized it was not right and he would not leave ...

I think he can't forgive me for spilling the beans to his family.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - So my ex and I broke up in really bad terms almost 2 months ago. It was a turbulent relationship, and I found out he served me white lies during the 2 years together ( which was a big shock to me and betrayal). I took revenge (not thinking st...

I love her and I want her back! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

7 July 2009 (M) - dear cupid. after 2 years my girl as finished me . i realy love her and want her back. how do i go about this. if i come on to strong she will run from me . she was so passionate towards me in the past and now its as if she want give me a second ...