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Questions I need answered before I try anal sex!

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Question - (25 March 2009) 11 Answers - (Newest, 10 April 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hiya, me and my partner are going to be having anal sex for the first time and I'd like to know if this is true - If you have anal sex regulary, every couple of months, does the women's hips and bum get bigger?

Also when I'm 60 I won't be able to control my anal area? aka won't be able to hold it in?

thanks

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A female reader, SirenaBlusera Mexico +, writes (10 April 2009):

SirenaBlusera agony auntThe anal sphincter was designed to eliminate waste... not to accommodate a penis... it won't make your hips or butt get bigger but you could tear some of the delicate rectal tissues.

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A female reader, kissxmexagainx United States +, writes (6 April 2009):

kissxmexagainx agony auntyou go girl =] don't let anyone make you feel bad for being experimental and open!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2009):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thanks to those who answered my questions instead of deciding to prach about anal sex not being good or downgrading etc etc...

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (25 March 2009):

LazyGuy agony auntYour bum gets bigger from anal sex?

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I just got to know, what possible twisted logic can be used to reason that out?

Young people today seem to know even less about sex then us old folks did when we were kids.

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A female reader, kissxmexagainx United States +, writes (25 March 2009):

kissxmexagainx agony auntsome of you people on here are ridiculous. you're not answering the question she's asking you're just giving your personal opinions on anal sex. I personally like anal sex, you need to remember that you're opinions are not the same as anyone elses && this should be a judgement free zone.

no dear, your butt && hips will not get bigger. while it is possible to have less muscle control after excessive anal sex, it's unlikely that you would experiance that if you do it properly. use LOTS of lube && make sure you're relaxed.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2009):

its fair enough to say you wouldnt like to do it- but I would never tell her not to do it as plenty of women LOVE anal sex. Some women dont find it anything special, but others think its great. Make sure you are relaxed and 100% sure, though. NEVER do anything you dont want, and if youre not sure then wait. Do it slow.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (25 March 2009):

eyeswideopen agony auntGina! You made the coffee come out my nose...my granny/anal sex ha aha ha

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A female reader, deejuliet United States +, writes (25 March 2009):

deejuliet agony auntNo, it wont make your butt bigger, but it could make your sphincter looser. Anal sex is awful, painful, degrading and disgusting. The anus is a one way street. Anal sex can cause all sorts of health problems. Why would you want to do this when something so much better is 2 inches away?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2009):

i agree with eyeswideopen. i don't understand why so many women have anal sex. personally, it's something I'd never do because I don't want to and relationships are all about respect. If you're having second thoughts about it, it means you're not ready for it. You should definitely tell your boyfriend that.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2009):

LOL. I have never heard of a womans hips and bum getting bigger from anal sex. I dont think every couple of months is going to do anything physically to you. Just make sure he isnt too rough and goes slow at first. It can be a little painful starting out.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (25 March 2009):

eyeswideopen agony auntI'm curious, why do you even WANT to have anal sex? Is it your boyfriend's idea?

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