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Please help! I want to make a step ahead

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Question - (25 March 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 March 2009)
A female Namibia age 30-35, *francy writes:

my boy friend broke up with me a week and days ago.. the thing is he asked me when i was going to the north that means he wanted to see me

i told him i moved on with a guy from an other country he is now jellousy that he does not even wan to halla at me anymore ,

i think he broke up with me because he have heard of an affair i had with a friend of his. do you think he would want to get me back after i did that to him and it was not even the first time him catching me cheating

the other time he caught me cheating with his flesh and blood cousin and now his friend , was that fair?..

i still claim i love him very much that i can not even feel happy with any other guy,or is it only that i have not met my other soul mate yet apart from him. he did not even tell me the reason why he broke up with me or maybe he is could not handle a long distance relationship?

please help i want to make a step ahead i can not just waste time waiting for him to come back while he is maybe happy with his new girlfriend (that when he found one )..

the other question is how can i meet my life man? the last word he said was "take care please" and you will always be my girl" help dearests.. i will happy to read your responses/answers............

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A female reader, flicka23 Mauritius +, writes (26 March 2009):

flicka23 agony auntI think you are not ready for a long lasting relationship. If you really loved him, he's your soul mate then why did you cheat on him. You did not cheat only one time but several times. Your problem is that you want to have him by your side as he has some special qualities that you cannot find in other boys but at the same time you want to be with other boys. How can you meet your life man? You will feel it when you meet him and I personnally do not belieive in soul mate or man of my life, everything is temporary in this world

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A male reader, Jason means Healer United Kingdom +, writes (25 March 2009):

Well, realistically speaking; we all have to hold relationships in reserve just because we don't know every person on earth, and so therefore who or what is our perfect partner.

The problem comes when you've had such a quality partner that nothing compares.

Sad.

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