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writes:I'am female just call me simplegal. I'm already 18,but I never had experience relationship with a guy since birth...Now I'm here, because I want you to give me some advices and your help this serious problem with my feelings to this men. this was the story begins. we only meet this japanese men,here in the internet where there is a website(not mentioning the name of website)who really helps me to find my perfect pair for me...we are alraedy 5 months in relationships as bf and gf...I really find him very attractive but not his looks but the way he talk to me conversationally.He is really a gentle men and most of all his really smart in all things we've talk about this and that....and he is a funny one also and have a good sense of humor....To make the story short,I know already that he is married and he had already had two sons...he is a business man in this industry,it doesnt mean that I only like him because he is indeed a very wealthy men. but i like him because he had a very pure heart and warmth hearted type of men....Now the first thing I could never forget him is that when we first chat, he ask me if im still a virgin, now i tell him the truth that yes I'am...I feel discouraging at that time,but I let myself to be friendly to him as if i know his an old man...but I dont know what my heart and my minds telling it..what did i do is to follow what i feel...So that was the start weve knowing each other well and sharing laughter,pains and happiness but only thru chat...heheheh...Now after two months,he wants me to meet me...I say yes to him then he was happy...hehehe but after a while ago,he said to me if im ready to meet him? and said to him honeslty and no lies at all...so what he do is to be patient to me...and thats was the good point to him coz he is very understanding type of person...until how many months go by,i never meet him yet..hehehe..now for how many months ive text him by showing him how musch i really care for him...and so he did to me also...we always chatting every night until the midnight comes..and I just want to prove him how much i interested to him and care him a lot....So after how many weeks and months go by...I feel that he had other chatmates and girls that surrounds him.And to tell it frankly I really feel it...sometimes Im sad and worrying if he will get bored to me because i was not ready to meet him...I ask him if he doesnt got bored and tired of me chatting all day and night and texting him everydey and night without meeting personally...he said "no.but one thing he said to me that its good to meet each other more practically,coz we really know each other who's the real me and him also....And I think his right....one thing he said to me also,that he will be the one to finance my studies..and I was shock coz i couldnt believe whay he says! but I refuse his offering to me..just to prove him that I love him not for his money but the LOVe he gave me...because its my very first time to be inlove with a men an old type of men...even in my highschool year i never had experience this kind of feelings...I cannot eat well and sleep well because too much of thinking of him always..and sometimes i cry because Im afarid if he would left me just because not meeting in him personally...my friends keep telling me that dont let myself cry just because of him..and also they said that dont let myself also to be naive just of that old man...but i said to them that he is different from the other mens...what my friends telling me that it depends on my decisions...now,my decision is to meet him this coming month of June..and when i tell him to meet him this coming june,he felt so excited and very happy coz his wished alraedy granted...but im afarid also if he would escape me when he saw me personally and my looks also..Im not telling myself that Im ugly, but im not really beautiful as what the other mens or guys dream of.but i alraedy told him that im not as beautiful and gorgeous type of girl that he expexted of...and he said to me that he really dont care as long as im a real person and have a good and beautful attitude inside and out...and thats what i really attract him most...all I can say to him he si very perfect man for me..I dont care what might other says...Now My problem,is it okay to meet him? and showing the real me? did he loves me too?
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reader, mondie  +, writes (2 April 2009):
This would be my answer to you. This guy is married so he is not going to be as serious about you as you obviously are about him. He has been patient all this time because he has nothing to lose. He has his wife, maybe other girls he has met over the internet and you may be just another opportunity for him.
I think your devotion is touching but it is too much for a man who is already committed to someone else. I just think you are going to give yourself to him and he will lose interest once he has had sex with you. Your virginity should be lost to someone you are going to be able to talk to about it months afterwards. Somehow, I sense that this guy will not be around the following week. I would not advise you to lose your virginity to him, if that is the plan, although if you want to meet him and see whether he could be worth it, then go ahead, just try not to give him anything. However, you are so in love and eager to please, I doubt you will be able to resist. That kind of devotion ought to be tenderly treated but I have misgivings about whether your 'man' is the guy for that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2009): He is MARRIED!!! Drop the whole thing and tell him to leave you alone. There are plenty of good men out there to lose your virginity to.
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reader, funnyintit  +, writes (25 March 2009):
 Go and see him! He obviously likes you very much to wait this long already...
dont worry about how u look, he already has said hes not worried! good luck! :)
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reader, Jason means Healer +, writes (25 March 2009):
Wow! I think you've just invented Chavspeech!
Still, true to Chav's getting on approach; strangely I understood everything you said...
Sure; go ahead meet him, he's not gonna bite your head off.
You gotta take it to the next level, girl.
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