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writes:I'm comfused because first robert liked me and we were close then he started not talking at all to me and keeping his distance. Now hes all almost the same again but he keeps telling a girl that nobody likes him and he wants someone. Duh why won't he ask me he is so stupid sometimes. I like him! I really don't know what to do. He makes me laugh and we chat more times now. How do I know if hes still interested in me without asking him. How should I act around him, should I flirt with him. How?
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reader, bOy CrAzY;} +, writes (26 March 2009):
You know what I say flirt with him who gives a crap if he likes you or not but ii bet he does and if he doesn't at the moment he will if you flirt with him shows confidence!! ;D
Go for it!! BoY cRaZy;)
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reader, CrazyMind  +, writes (26 March 2009):
 How do you know if he's still interested in you without asking him?
Well, you could always shift a conversation to talking about relationships - that's technically asking him, but then you're both on the subject, slightly easier.
Otherwise, there's the option of getting a mutual friend to ask him, or ask if a mutual friend knows. Have you considered playing truth-or-dare. That's one way of getting to know more about eachother!
Try and spend more time with him - offer him out for a coffee or to go and do something - if he immediately rejects, then it's probably he only likes you as a friend now. But, you won't know unless you actually ask him for sure.
How should you act around him? Should you flirt, if so how?
Simple: Be yourself. Don't change for anybody else - always be your own person. If you're already close, hugs could work. Maybe try and build them into being something that you always do. If you miss him while he's not around, let him know! Guys aren't mind readers - we're don't know what's going on in the complicated mind of females! [Apart from shoes and shopping, of course! :P] If you want him to know you like him, make sure you're enthusiastic about whenever you're going to meet up, he may pick up on that. :)
And, I mentioned hugging already, but in general: physical contact. So, hugging, touching his arm, hands, whatever...
Though, if he shows visual signs of being uneasy with you doing this, don't do it - you don't wanting him feeling uneasy around you.
Best of luck;
- Crazy x
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