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male
age
41-50,
*PB
writes:Hi there, About little over a year ago a long term relationship I was in ended. We were together for 4 years and 3 and 1/2 years in she went overseas to pursue studies. She was only going to be gone for roughly 12 months and we were very very much in love and promised each other that we would stay together. Sadly she met someone else while she was there and only told me after something happened with that person. It was the hardest thing I had ever had to hear, and losing her was equally hard. I spent most of last year picking myself up again and was somewhat successful, I embarked on a study exchange myself and started to feel good again. All the while she would email me from time to time and I would reply out of politeness. We are both home now, and one month ago she sent me an email to catch up on things and at the end invited me for a coffee and 'catch-up'. I can only assume she is still with the guy she cheated with and left me for, because I have never asked her if she's single again because it is none of my business and I feel funny asking. I guess I want to know 'why does she want to see me for a catch-up?' I think she is just curious about me, but I guess I want to know what other people might think. I guess you can never know what someone is really feeling or thinking, but a female perspective would help so much. Thank Heaps! p.s Sorry for all the text
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reader, DPB +, writes (25 March 2009):
DPB is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice mate, but I have well moved passed feeling angry so getting even is not a concern for me. If I still retained any anger then I don't know what type of person I'd be right now, but I'm sure I would not want to know that person. I guess I just wanna know if this sort of thing is common regarding my situation and reasons why she might have suggested it or indeed what she 'might' be think. I really appreciate your advice all the same tho, thanks for that.
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reader, DPB +, writes (25 March 2009):
DPB is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice mate, but I have well moved passed feeling angry so getting even is not a concern for me. If I still retained any anger then I don't know what type of person I'd be right now, but I'm sure I would not want to know that person. I guess I just wanna know if this sort of thing is common regarding my situation and reasons why she might have suggested it or indeed what she 'might' be think. I really appreciate your advice all the same tho, thanks for that.
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