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36-40,
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writes:i am scared of something friends ....i have been committed to my girlfriend since a year but i dont love her !! i really dont know what i found in her but i like her only as a friend as she is a real sweetheart to be with. probably the eagerness to be with some girl attracted me towards her as i never had any girlfriend in my life. i care for her a lot whereas she is madly in love with me and could do anything crazily and stalk on me to get me back if we depart. i could have avoided getting into this mess long back but i didnt want to hurt her as i cant see someone who is loving me suffering so much because of me!! i can do anything for this girl guys i respect and care for her a lot and I MEAN IT !! we broke up because of her family and got back together again secretly and are still going and this has given birth to the rock hard determination in her to never lose me and has strengthened it even more. one thing friends, it is too late for me to go and tell her this thing as it can lead to disasterous consequences for this loner and low esteemed girl...yes u heard it correct and hope you can predict what all things such girls can do and I CANT SEE HER IN THIS STATE! i have really never felt true love for her but i have always been showing love for her sake and i think i have done a big mistake friends! she is in her paradise thinking and talking about our marriage, our children and i have always been foolishly cheering up in that and showing her many more dreams.she is really innocent and i pray to god to punish me for cheating her all the way. i know i am the real culprit friends but kindly show me the way out of this as i am really tired feeding her love and sacrificing myself! i am 21 and she is 18. how to get rid of her ? i would love to be friends with her but is this possibe IN THIS CASE after the damage has been done ? i know she will be psychologically disturbed a lot but i cant wait longer for HER SAKE !
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reader, Jason means Healer  +, writes (25 March 2009):
Relationships redefine themselves every day.
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reader, superrrshawna +, writes (25 March 2009):
 You are doing both yourself and your girlfriend a disservice by pretending to love her and by staying together. My advice is to tell her your feelings have changed, that you feel the need to date around, etcetc. Then, after you two have broken up, promise me to TAKE A BREAK FROM EACH OTHER. Especially if you know she is so attached to you, the two of you continuing to talk will keep her from getting over you, will let you see how upset she is and will make you feel regret, and so many other complications. If you think she is going to go through a really tough time, maybe tell her friends and family so she has support.
Sticky situation, but I think you know what you need to do!
Good luck
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