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writes: My gf is 15 and im 14..we've known eachother for a long time and have been going out for over a year, so we have great chemistry, and we simply love eachother.... so lately we've been tlking about having sex for the first time...we want to loose it to eachother..she really wants it, i do too, because when im around her i get all heated inside adn get turned on..even when im talking to her on the phone or thinking about her i get horny...that's how much i love her and care for her..so basicly im a very horny guy... we havent had any sexual contact, not even oral yet..so we havent seen each other's bodies naked yet... the only thing we've done is make out (really passionately) and dry humped...-i sound stupid writing that- but anyways i really want to get physical with her i want to have sex....(with protection) so i just want your opinion on this....what do you think????? bad or good???? i feel like i cant resist it anymore.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2009):
You will need to use birth control to protect yourself if you have sex.
But you also need a method that works 100%. And that doesn't exist.
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reader, yogosun +, writes (19 March 2009):
Firstly, the legal age in the U.S. is 18 as you most likely know... Secondly, if there is a condom break you're life is gonna be, to put it bluntly, really screwed up.Thirdly, both of you are still maturing and your hormones are raging. You may want to have sex, but still consider that. So there really are many things that can go wrong if you have sex as a teen. My advice, wait.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2009): Honey,some people get into their 20's,and even older than that ,before they have sex,and it's perfectly normal.I confess,I am 25 years old,and i haven't had sex yet !.I have touched guys and they have touched me,kissed areas,and we've had " dry sex ",but just not gone all the way yet.I havent had sexual contact with many men though,through my own choice.Believe me,you have plenty of time.Please dont rush into this.
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reader, Pyro_Dimples +, writes (19 March 2009):
 I believe you guys are too young. I lost mine at 13 and I still to this day regret it. You guys are still kids I know you hate to hear that but it's true. Just hold on a bit because you have to consider if something goes wrong, if the rubber breaks then the rest of your life is messed up and I'm sure you don't want that for you or her if you truly love her. good luck and really think about it before you do.
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reader, Moviefan +, writes (19 March 2009):
 You don't need to be doing things like this yet, hold off. If you really like each other as much as you say you can both hold in there until your both of your states AOC or older and can take care of yourself financially and emotionally. Right now if she got pregnant you would force your parents to have to deal with the kid.
You guys are just plain to young to have sex, im 18 and have put it off until i feel like that i can take care of the results if I have a kid.
I know how it feels to not do it even when your body is screaming the opposite. Do keep in mind your body can be your worst enemy, it is what makes you sick and have a fever after all. Its not the cold virus that does it.
If you listen to one thing someone dealing with the same stresses as you says, be it this. You shouldn't be worried the whole time you have sex, it should be a happy moment.
Wait bro.
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