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writes:I have been with my girlfriend for almost two years. We are always together. I have been staying at her house more. Well if we fall asleep together and she wakes up I could be twitching and she will think I am masterbating. I have no way of proving it to her that I am not. Then there is the fact that when I wake up sometimes my heart will be racing and I have no I dea why. So she will think that same thing. I have no idea what to do. We fight about it almost daily. I mean I really do love her and we have been through a lot, I just am stuck and need help... Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (19 March 2009):
Why doesn't she check to see where your hands are?
She has to accept that people move in their sleep, have dreams, even get turned on.
If she can't accept that then she is going to throw away a perfectly good relationship and then when she's with the next guy who twitches, talks or dares to have dreams at night then she is going to realise.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, pepper27 +, writes (18 March 2009):
 Hi Hun
I'm not surprised you wake up with your heart racing you are not comfortable in sleep, If you cannot twitch in the night without her thinking you are masturbating what are you supposed to do????I would sit and have a talk NOT YELL!!!!Just talk and ask her why this is so worrying for her. Does she think that she is not pleasuring you enough? Has she in the past had problems like this? Hunny there needs to be trust and if you cant sleep without her accusing you of such things then there is a problem..If she was secure in your relationship it wouldn't worry her if you were masturbating it should I would have thought turn her on. She is very insecure love and you need to sort this out as you cant wake up with heart palpitations all the time its affecting your health..I hope you can work on this and get to the bottom of the problem TAKE CARE WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, Pyro_Dimples +, writes (18 March 2009):
 Why would she care about you masturbating? and why would you put up with her not trusting you?? Set her straight and tell her if she loved you she would have a little more faith in you and your word.
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