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writes: I've been going out for this girl for five months now. I really like her and she says she really likes me. Her friends say she's been cheating on me but she says she hasn't. I don't know who to believe. I tried to kiss her last week but she told me to go away. What shall I do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks all, you been a great help
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reader, bOy CrAzY;} +, writes (19 March 2009):
Ummmmm.... Ya I say dump her especially If her friend is telling u this cause us girls usually tell eachother everything it's just something we can't help! And....umm..... Well good luck!!!! Oh and it would be better if u did it quick cause if she's telling u to go away especially when u try to
Kiss her she might just the slightest posibility she might break up with u:s sorry
bOy CrAzY
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2009): Being rude is not a pre-requisite to cheating.
As she is your girlfriend, until any friends of her or yours can providoe solid EVIDENCE that she is cheating, and not hearsay and conjecture, then you have a duty to trust the word of the person you are dating in that respect.
And until you yourself find reason to lessen that trust on your own terms, then I'd give your girlfriend the benefit of the doubt.
Flynn 24
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (18 March 2009):
Um, I hate to break it to you, but if HER friends are saying she is cheating, then she probably is. Usually a person's friends will have their back and keep their secrets.
Ditch her, especially if she tells you to "go away" when you try to kiss her. There are better girls out there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2009): Why would her friends lie? Go away is rude from a girl you're dating and trying to kiss. Sounds like she doesn't really like you, so she might be cheating.
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