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writes:Last weekend, I went to a dance with my boyfriend at his school(I'm homeschooled). He's in 9th grade and I'm in 7th. I'm 13 and He's turning 15. Anyway, everytime I Met one of his friends, they looked at me in a funny way, like they didn't like me or I was a slut. Then one of his friends and also 2 of his cousins had told me that he told everyone that he fingered me, popped my cherry, and also said he slept with me. Well, the thing is, the parts about him fingering me, popping my cherry were true. The sleeping together thing wasn't true. I got mad at him for a little while but then we sat down and talked. He swore to me that he didn't say anything to anyone and they were rumors. I thought it was funny because most of the stuff I was hearing, was being described like, exactly what happened with me and him. I forgot about it and thought it was stupid to fight over or worry about anyway, but A week later, he finally admitted to me that he did say everything except he didn't tell them he slept with me. I believed him and told him I wasn't mad but didn't want everyone knowing what we do/did together in private. He said it won't happen again and said the only reason he lied and said he didn't start those rumors was because he knew I'd be mad at him and wouldn't talk to him. So I forgave him. But I would like to know, since this happened, should I still trust him like I used to? Like trust that he won't tell everyone what we do, trust him not to cheat/flirt with other girls and stuff like that. Or shouldn't I trust him? I mean, I do but I'd like opinions from other people too. Any advice is helpful. Thanks:) And sorry it's so long!
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reader, RL8 +, writes (18 March 2009):
 Well to be honest you can trust him but dont trust him to much,and thats only because he is in high school and alot of your popularity is based off of how far you get with your girl,now im not saying that your boyfriend is that kinda guy but he did spread some of the private stuff already..now at the sametime he may have close friends and thats what guys do with there close friends they like to share and it doesnt matter what age the guy...but i really wouldnt worry about him cheating on you at all..god bless
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2009): well i think that guys shouldnt go off telling their friends how they 'scored' because it can hurt a girl and im sure if a girl did it to a guy he would know exactly how they feel. and when your young you shouldnt do to much with someone because with highschool students u dont know how long your going to be together its a btter idea to wait till u know that you love them.
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