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What exactly is it that girls look for in a guy?

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Question - (18 March 2009) 8 Answers - (Newest, 16 April 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, *ndrew loves hali writes:

Hi, I'm 15 and I was wondering what do most girls look for in a guy??? So this is mainly for girls but guys can answer too I guess and I'm not asking this so I can get a girl but I just want to know.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009):

Ok man, all girls are different. A lot of girls like a guy who can hold their interests. You can't be boring. That's why a lot of girl like guys who are funny. Looks are Everything to a girl. Girls also like confidence. You ever seen a guy with a very hot looking girl? Thats because he can talk to her and hold her interest. He has the confidence to talk to the girl.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2009):

In general, woman are really impressed with a man that is comfortable with himself and is capable of running his own life. Women don't like a man that is overly confident mind you. Comfortable means that you are content with your looks and your beliefs and that you feel easy to express yourself and listen to others. We like it when you speak up and express your opinion while still having respect and open mindedness.

Women don't want to be your mother or sister or any other relative. A good rule is don't wait for someone to do what you can do yourself. If we forget or don't have time to make dinner, make it. Don't wait for us to feed you like we are your mom. If we are stressed about something, try to help us with something in are daily to do list? Get the idea? Be the take action kind of guy we love.

I hope that helps a little. You just need to learn to be comfortable with yourself bottom line and when women see that they will respect you more and instantly be attracted to you.

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A female reader, MonksDaBomb United States +, writes (19 March 2009):

MonksDaBomb agony auntYes, every girl is different as it's the same when a girl is told that every guy is different.

For me, personally, I like the sweet, sensitive, shy guy. Not loud or boisterous or obnoxious. Yes it's sweet when the guy tries to impress the girl, but don't overdo it. The gentleman.

For me, he doesn't have to buy me anything (but it would be nice :); he just has to be there for me when I need him and to cuddle and hold me.

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A female reader, iSmil3y United States +, writes (19 March 2009):

For me, personally, I like a guy that's caring, sweet but outgoing at the same time and isn't a player, sticks with his girl, and can make me laugh.

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A female reader, bOy CrAzY;} United States +, writes (18 March 2009):

Okay I agree every girl is different but I for one would love a guy who I could talk to and we would just sit there and comfort me when I was upset and I wouldn't have to say anything he would just sit there and let me cry in his arms! Need anything else just message!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2009):

go out and buy a book called "the game" by neil strauss.

its all you'll ever need to know, and trust me it works

good luck!

~Mischeif~

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A male reader, andrew loves hali United States +, writes (18 March 2009):

andrew loves hali is verified as being by the original poster of the question

andrew loves hali agony auntokay girls individually what do you look for in a guy?

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A female reader, Quiet.Kisses Canada +, writes (18 March 2009):

Quiet.Kisses agony auntEvery girl is different. Personally I look for someone I can count on and someone who can be my best friend and make me laugh.

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