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Archived questions from: 20 July, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

The pill is turning me into a monster!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - heres the thing i started the pill in feburary of this year... the first moonth was hectic with my emoitions always moody always crying etc etc and after a month or two i calmed down the thing is me an my boyfrined have had sum problems hes chea...

What is the best position when you have sex for the first time?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I am 13 and im having sex for my first time in a couple of weeks because my boyfriends parents are on holiday and he said i could come round for a couple of nights if i wanted to ... i said yes ... he later asked me if i was ready for sex and i knew ...

I'm no longer interested in sex and I'm scared it will ruin our relationship.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 8 months and we've been living together for almost 2 months. I love him very much, and we get along great. I really believe that he might even be the one I spend the rest of my life with... except for one ...

I love my boyfriend very much but I keep dreaming about his friend. Is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5609 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - Is it normal to have other guys in my dreams? I've been going out with my current boyfriend for a few months and I really care about him. But he lives with his best friend, so the three of us hang out a lot. Last night I had a dream that his friend ...

My boyfriend has a lump on his penis and won't go to get it checked. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - Hi, I know this isn't anything to do with relationships, but I'm worried for my boyfriend, he had a little lump on his penis and you can move it around and he won't get it seen to which really annoys me, he thinks it might be cancer and won't get it ...

His use of porn is now affecting our relationship.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - I'm 24 and my boyfriend's 28, and his usage of porn has began affecting our relationship. Even worse, it was pictures of scantily-clad women in magazines like FHM, Maxim etc. - and it's made me question whether our relationship has a future. ...

How can I stop my boyfriend taking things too far?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I am 13 and have a boy friend who is 15 ..... we have been together for 5 months and i really trust him .. a couple of nights ago we were kissing on the sofa and then he put his hands down the front of my pants ... i said not yet and he stopped ... ...

Help please! Getting mentally and physically ready for sex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and me have been going out for a couple months, and we have talked many times on what we both have done in the past. Surprisingly were both still virgins and were both 16, and we both have gone up to oral sex. The thing is like i feel ...

Stomach pains... should I be concerned?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - Hello, i was just chatting with my bf the other day about babies and what we would do .. and i got this awful pain in my stomach like my body was telling me something.. i dont think im pregnant as im on the pill, we do have sex on my pill free wee...

Is it normal practise to tell your boyfriend every time you go out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5609 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - i have a question about relationships in general . i'm in a relationship and it is my first committed one so this might sound dumb. Is it -normal- to call your other half when you're for example going out to tell them? cause my bf is always why ...

Does he want something more than a booty-call arrangement?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5609 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I've been with a guy for the past 15 months and have recently (for the past 2 months or so) been a bit confused by his behavior. I should also mention that I am moving away in approximately a month, so this might be a factor. We are not in a ...

I don't want to seem psycho by texting too much, but I really like her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - So i saw this girl at my job i haven't seen in about four years. We had a thing in high school and i really liked her. And vice versa. We talked awhile and i ended getting her number. We text each other and she told me she still liked me. How she ...

I really like this guy. Only he's 20 and I'm 25!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I really like this guy. The thing is, i am 25 and he is 20. I'm not sure whether he fancies me or only likes me as a friend. he does ask me to meet up with him alot though,and once he put " you'll have to meet me soon coz i want to see you again ", ...

I need a bit of a breather but don't want him to think I don't care!

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20 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for 3 months and probably been officially together for about a month if that. Last week I had some holiday from work and I ended up meeting his family. Everything was perfect and we acknowledged to each ...

Am I bi? I am very close to this girl. My boyfriend knows and says I can't dump him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I met this girl in one of my classes PE to be spacific and were realy good friends. Except i think she like me and im not all inocent either. I like her to. Shes so nice and she cares about me. She hugs me all the time and kisses my cheek and ...

I broke up with her because my friends said I should. Now I want her back but she said no!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - there was this girl lets say she is called j and we went out and we really liked each other and it was great until people started making fun of me because j isnt the prettiest and i ignored them but then my own friends said they will fall out with ...

Afraid if I say 'I love you' he'll be scared away!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - Okay so me and my bf have been dating for 3 months now and I just feel like I'm falling head over heels for him, I think I love him. The problem is, I don't know how to say you know I love you. I'm never the one to make the first move or anything so ...

I can't get any girls to notice me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - hi I'm a 14 year old male and I have a problem. I can't get any girls to notice me. every where I go even in my neighborhood there are pretty girls(even at church). I don't know how to act or approach them. that's why I can't ever get girlfriends. 1 ...

Do you think I should get back with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - i dated this guy for 2 weeks which is a very short amount of time. B4 we got together, we would always talk and all that. and he was sooo sweet and nice to me. on our first date i could definitely tell that he liked me alot! he definitely showed it ...

She's way too pretty for me but I like her!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - last night i went to the cinema with my friends and and there was this girl who went with us and i ended up stareing at her more than the movie. i think that this girl is way to pretty to go out with me but i still like her has anyone got any ideas ...

Due to college, we are breaking up in late August! What are some other options so we don't have to do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I've known my boyfriend for a full year but have gotten serious since march. I'm 19 years old ( going to be my 2nd year on college) and he's 26 with a stable job ( has his life straight for the most part).since march, we've been doing a long ...

He cheated on me and then dumped me. I love him--should I wait for him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - hi my name is ashleigh and im 15 years old. ive been going out with this kid who is also 15 years old for one and a half years. He recently cheated on me and told me straight up that he did, he hooked up with another girl. i respect that he told me ...

Do I stick it out with the current bf or give the new Welsh guy a try?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5609 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm feeling very confused at the moment. I have had a very on and off relationship with my current boyfriend for just over three years now. I have recently moved to Wales and he's still in the Midlands and we have found the long distance thing ...

I still love him and I really don't want to anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - Hello, i am an 17 year old and newly single. My ex relationship was huge. He was my bestfriend and a great person everyone loved that he took care of me and loved me. I am sick and tired of thinking I did something wrong. He and i got into a fight ...

My life was so stressed, I wasnt ready for him then...I think I am now but not sure if he feels the same.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I have had so much emotional trauma in my life for the past 2 years, father died, step father died , best friend died, mother fell, in coma in another state, had to leave work for six months, me being sick for 3 months, EX b/f who was not there for ...

I really like him but I'm getting mixed signals. I need tips to help me be strong!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - Hi can you please help I started seeing this really hot guy who lived in the apartment block next to me. He has given a lot of attention, which really is very flattering as His type would be out of my league. Even though he lived in the next apa...

My family want to meet my boyfriend, but I'm scared of what they'll think of him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - my mum and dad and the rest of my family really want to meet my boyfriend i am very scared of what they will think of him what do i do ?? do you think i should invite him round and let him meet evry1 or not ? x...

I broke up with my boyfriend of four years a month ago...is it bad I'm dating again already?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I Broke up with my serious boyfriend of 4 years a month ago....is it bad im dating already? Only been on one date but have another this weekend.......i still think about my ex but know it was the right thing to do as i was looking else were and ...

My dad won't let me and my boyfriend sleep in the same bed, and he keeps checking on us! What can I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I am 19, my boyfriend is 19, we have been together for 5 years. the problem is: My dad wont allow us to sleep together in the same bed! i have been respectful towards my dad for years always going to sleep on the couch a couple times a week ...

How do I know what to expect from my ex? We have started talking again and slowly getting closer.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - We once had a very strong intimate relationship with commitment and then it changed due to outside circumstances. Now time has passed - months - but we are talking again and slowly getting close. But how do I know what to expect? Men don't talk, ...

My parents want to meet my boyfriend but I'm scared they will judge him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - my parents really want to meet my bf but im really scared and nervous that they will judge him straight away i dont think its fair at all. my last bf they met when we went up to my room my mum would make my brother chek on us like 24-7 it was so a...

He replied "maybe you do love me more" when I said "I love you more". What does this mean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - hi there, I am a little confused and I hope you can help me clarify this situation with your responses. Here goes, my boyfirend and I have been going out for almost 9 months now, we are both in our early 30's. He has never had a proper girlf...

My boyfriend has been calling me horrible names but always claims he is joking after!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have a very close relationship we've been on and off but recently he's been calling me a bitch a slag and a c**t wen i say thats rude he always replies with im jokin but is he really joking but i love him so much i could never ...

He says he'll call later but he never does!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5610 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - Here it goes. My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now. Lately he has been developing this habit of stating that he'll call 'later' that day, only to not do so. His excuses range from being really stressed and busy to having h...

Girlfriend has started treating me poorly and I'm not sure how to work things out

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - Hi, i know alot of you will probably rub this off as nothing due to the fact that im "young" by most of your standards, but i would really appreciate some honest help here... me and my girlfriend have been together for about a year and 4 months, ...

Sarcastic boyfriend too afraid to admit he's in love

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5610 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - ok here is the deal i am in a long distance relationship for about five months and my boyfriend has not ever said i love u to me. all of a sudden he begins to say it to me but when i ask him about it he says that he is being sarcastic but he does ...

After one week,, I have developed feelings for her, should I tell her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5608 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - I think i have developed feelings for this girl after only one week. we met at the park and started talking. We are into the exact same things we have both had the same problems in our life so we understand each other. So should i inform her on my ...

How do you work out what you want in a partner?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - How would you go about working out what you want in a partner? I thought I knew, but last night I was talking to my brother about it and some things he asked me made me realise I have no clue. Until the end of last year I'd been quite settled with ...

I have a lot of pain and burning when we have sex, what could be the problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - ok well iv benn having sex with my boyfriend for a while now atleats 16 times.. and its hurt me everytime its like a burning feeling around my vagina walls i hate it i havnt sed anything to my bf but it hurts SOO SOO bad i get to wear i wana cry... ...

Is it possible that a relationship can survive after one person cheats, please help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - About a week ago I found out my boyfriend cheated on me. I wrote another post regarding this, but now I need so more help. During last week we had no contact at all. It was killing me inside, but I knew I had to be strong. I miss him every single...

He keeps doing these stupid things!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for eleven years off and on.i was 14 he was 16 and we have been threw so much i guess u can say we've both hurt eachother.he is my bestfriend and i love him with all my heart.we just got back together after being apart ...

Is she worried or cheating

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - my girlfriend used to stay with me quite a bit, lately she has been giving me excuses on why she cant. one nite i went over and she and 3 others were partying and she got mad i was there and asked me to leave. she says she hasnt cheated and its ...

Stuck in a loop of humdrum and can't get out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I have planned a holiday with my partner but we are not travelling together but have arranged to meet upon occasions. I have not been intimate with him for over a year. I kinda went off him a bit as I did not feel our relationship was...

Confused and Troubled: She's my best friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5610 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid, im really confused and troubled as to what to do right now. I have feelings for this girl who I am best friends with. I want us to become closer and get into a relationship. We have talked about it somewhat and we are both somewhat ...

Is he leading me on again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

20 July 2009 (?) - Why would a guy tell you he still has feelings for you and wants to see you again, then comes over and hangs out for a while and hasnt contacted you again and it's been three days? Is it all lies or should I just wait to see what happens? If he's ...

The girl I like is moving away what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - hi some one please help me. well im in year 11 and leaving school now forever! but a thew months before a new teacher assistant started working in the school. the first time i saw her i new i was going to like her! she was different she wasnt li...

How do I talk about us without scarring him off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5610 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I've started seeing a guy. We've been seeing each other for about a month and had lots of fun, we were kind of friends before and it's been great getting to know each other. The problem is that I'm going travelling in 2 months. He knows this and I ...