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writes:i dated this guy for 2 weeks which is a very short amount of time. B4 we got together, we would always talk and all that. and he was sooo sweet and nice to me. on our first date i could definitely tell that he liked me alot! he definitely showed it with his actions and words. then i checked his myspace and his relationship status stayed the same which is single, he never changed it. and we talked less and less. we texted and stuff but he never called me. and he wouldnt call me wen he said he would. and our second date wasnt like the first one. he also used to date 2 girls at once. so i was really worried about him cheating on me. so i just decided to end the relationship. its been a month now. one part of me tells me i made the right decision, but the other tells me that i should've talked to him about it, cuz i didnt discuss it with him, i didnt tell him it was bothering me and all that. idk,,, i guess maybe i should've given it more time because there are always obstacles and flaws in every relationship but what matters is how we deal with those. Now me and him r still friends. we're not mad at each other. we talk on myspace alot sometimes we text cuz its summer we dont have skool. and i still have feelings for him...but the way he treated me was wrong...and idk wat to do. i kinda want to get back with him. btw im 14 please help!
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reader, busy04  +, writes (20 July 2009):
 From the look of it, you sound like you're in a relationship. It doesn't sound like he's in a relationship. Maybe you need to talk to him & make sure you both are on the same page. A date doesn't always mean relationship. So talk to him & make sure he feels the same about you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2009): Did he actually know he was going out with you at the time? Sounds like you went on one date and then it just kind of petered out. If so, he's probably not that into you. Going on a date doesn't mean a relationship, just the possibility of one. If I went back in time I'd damn well steer clear of boys at your age, anyway.
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (20 July 2009):
 if u want to get back with him, there's your answer.u need to speak to him about what happened and tell him why u did what u did, then see what he says and go from there.if u don't tell him your feelings and risk it, u will always live wondering.good luck!
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