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Dating: Help and advice

She has feelings for a relative..its weird, right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5607 days ago

22 July 2009 (M) - I met this girl while on vacation 10months ago. She lives in Colorado and I live in Florida. We hit it off and had a great time. We have spoken everyday since we met. She has visited me twice since I have met her even though she has never flown on a ...

Is 5 months too soon to propose to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

22 July 2009 (M) - hi every1, would u say 5 months is too early to propose? my girl moved over here from scotland last year, we met through work and got it together end of feb. i know for sure she's the one. i'm going to scotland with her in 2 weeks to meet her family ...

I'm 15. He's 24. Mom says she's going to throw him in jail! Is that possible?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - Im a 15 year old girl, dating a 24 year old guy. We've been dating for about a year. I know there is a really big age gap there. But we've never had sex, he has never pressured me into anything and the furthest we've gone is kissing. My mother found ...

The skype lies

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5607 days ago

22 July 2009 (M) - Hello guys and girls.Im writing a question about one thing that bothers me.When im chatting with the girls they say that they are going offline,but they are still online in the skype? I send hugs to them and they reply to me with hugs WTF is go...

Is what he's begun to say to me an idication that he now sees me as a potential g/f?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - Hi I have a male friend, who I am very close to. We talk every day, and I have been attracted to him for a very long time. Recently he has started making little slips in conversation, accidentally saying sexual things, or implying innuendo without...

I know I like him and I think he likes me, but he has a girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - Well, there's this boy who I really really like. He goes to my school, and ironically we never really talked in school, but then I went to summer camp and surprisingly he was there and we started talking and now we're really close. Anyway, he ...

Night attacks from my mind over boyfriends past!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - Ok so this was a year ago now. Me and my boyfriend had been going out for seven months when we went to the same uni and i got involved with another man and broke it off with him. That dissolved quickly and by the new semester i was back with my ...

I just don't know why no one likes me. Can you help me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

22 July 2009 (M) - Why am i so lonely? I mean, I am 14 and I have never been kissed and have only ever had one gf but I dont understand because I think Im a nice guy and im quite sensitive but I just dont know why no one likes me! can u help me please??...

My love for my bestfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - okay, well i have this girl bestfriend that ive known for about two years now. when i first met her, i was dating this other girl i thought i was in love with. during that time, i never really payed attention to my bestfriend yet. i never pai...

Why does it hurt during sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - When i have sex with my boyfriend sometimes it hurts internaly. Why does it hurt? But again often times it feel ok....

I'm hopelessly Jealous

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now and everything's great aside from one thing - I'm ridiculously jealous. Of course everyone gets that way sometimes, but, I get jealous too many times a day. I can't go to movies with my b/f ...

Should I leave home to be with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - Two questions in one day, I'm on a roll. Okay, if you haven't read my earlier post, then you probably don't know that i had a misarriage. I had it a week and 1 day ago. My boyfriend's life isn't that great right now, his fathers an alocholi and ...

Did being pregnant ruin our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

22 July 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I are 21 and she is pregnant. When we first found out the news we were both scared and shocked, I would be lying if I said anything different. In the next few days we both talked and were very excited, she always wanted to start ...

Help - I've had limited experience, and I'm attracted to an older woman.

This question has 43 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

22 July 2009 (M) - I'm 24 and attracted to a 36 year old woman. just recently moved to a new city. We were introduced by a mutual friend. She is incredibly attractive, went to an ivy league college, and has an amazing journalism career. We went to the movies the other ...

He flirts on-line -- how do I make him stop??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - hey my boyfriend is 16 and im 5 months older than him weve been together a little less than 4 months i really like him he's told me he loves me weve met each others family and friends and were really happy together i can just be myself arou...

I'm 14, he's almost 18, and I'm nervous about his 'needs'

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - I am 14 years old and I fell in love with a 17 year old boy. We met at school and we even kissed once. We are considering being together. I know my friend's views but I'd like to hear from people who aren't biased. He is about to turn 18, which ...

Should I call the maths teacher I'm in love with?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - I am 17 and in college. I am in love with my Maths teacher, we talk all the time, I feel so much love for him its untrue. I think he has feelings for me too. We have finished college for the summer and he gave me his mobile number and home address...

He tells me he loves me by text but not in person, should I be worried about this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend loves me. He's told me via text. Also when he's drunk. I also know that he wants us to last forever and move in together. But again, he says this through text or when he's drunk. I know he has communiation problems, but why won't he say ...

20 and never had a boyfriend...What am I doing wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - i'm 20 and i've never had a boyfriend! I'm ready for one, what am i doing wrong? I am confident, happy and sure i'm not all that looks wise but there's nothing wrong with me either. I go out, socialise, I've dated a bit, had fwb (i found ou...

His performance in bed is so disappointing I'm not sure I want to see him again! Should I tell him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for a very short time, He invited me to his place for a meal the other night. After a few glasses of wine, we ended up in bed. I was very dissapointed in his performance, to say the least. He was too rough, and didnt bother...

Does this flower have a deeper meaning?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - While on a bike ride with a mutual friend, the boy of my affections picked me a tiger lily off the side of the road to bring back to me. However, he does not know about my affections for him and I'm wondering if maybe this flower may have meaning to ...

I fell madly in love with her, but I'm too tongue tied to tell her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

22 July 2009 (M) - hey well theres this girl in school that i fell madly in love with at 1st sight but i know that i have no chanse what so ever with her she soo beautiful i dont know what to do. what should i do whenever i try to tell her i get tongue tide and ...

I want to turn this from a good relationship into an amazing one!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - my boyfriend still really loves me because he tells me all the time, but how do i get him to show it? i want to make an amazing relationship out of a really good one, any suggesions please ? xx thanks!! ...

Keep in contact or let go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5607 days ago

What's with a guy when....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - Ok would like opinions from both guys and girl here please! :) Whats with a guy when... 1) he talks to your friends and starts converstaions with them on msn but doesnt with you! He only talks to you if you talk to him. 2) when he chose to s...

"Dating" is shaking my confidence AND making me lonelier!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5607 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - I found this site by googling the same question almost as Honeybun. I am an older woman - divorced for almost 10 years - had a financee 6 yrs ago for 4 rocky years. My thing is I am older over 50 and maybe I shouldn't complain....please keep ...

I met a Turkish man in Germany and now I'm very confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - hi All I have just returned from a holiday in Germany with some friends who live their. While in Germany I met a Turkish fela the same age as me 34- he has lived in Germany apparently for 12 years or so and seems to be quite successfull in h...

Should I give up on the love of my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

22 July 2009 (M) - Aiight, check it... I'm 20, two years ago ago I was with this girl, she's 18.. knowing how she was.. she was scared of letting her parents find out, so we were in a private love affair... Things got really heated and we almost had sex on many occ...

When we met up she was all over me, but now she isnt replying to my texts! What should I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - I have known I have been gay for about a year or so, and I have had gay flings wtc but ive never been in a sexual relationship with a girl. I started talking to a girl (friend of a friend) about two months ago, and we were talking and texting loads. ...

How come I always pick guys that are like my father?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - I need help my boyfriend is just like my father. He is immature, a drug addict, and alcoholic. I didn't notice at first but then in the middle of the relationship I had noticed that they were exactly alike in so many ways. My boyfriend is the same ...

Should I stay with him? Throughout our 3 year relationship I have been depressed and I feel like I am losing my mind!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been through alot in our relationship, he's a widower and has a little daughter. I don't know if I should stay with him. He always takes his mother in law and sister in law side (they don't like me...trust me I know they ...

My boyfriend accuses me of flirting when I was at an industry networking event! Will this type of man ever change?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - I am an event management student, and our teacher organises frequent visits to exhibitions and conferences. this is a great way for us to network with industry professionals. today was the australian event business expo and was a great opportunity ...

I feel like I'm the only one putting the effort in, should I stop seeing this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5607 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - Good morning all, well i have a lil problem i cant decide whether or not to continue seeing this guy. Weve been seeing each other for 2 months. Yesterday he worked over time so i texted him to let him know that if he felt like it then he could txt ...

I'm in love with my best friend, is there a chance he feels the same way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - I'm in love with my bestfriend and I don't know if he feels the same way. We text each other everyday and he would find time to hang out with me even though his busy schedule. He said that he will never leave me and I am the most important person. ...

How do I get over this crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - I cannot get this guy Gary off my mind. I won't get into all the details, but there is no chance of us ever hooking up. He is a friend of mine. I can never wait to see him. I have sexual dreams about him and sometimes masturbate to the thought of us ...

This is only my second serious relationship, and now she drops the bombshell that she has a boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

22 July 2009 (M) - Hi there, I fell in love with a woman over a period of time. Nothing physical happened. I've known her for a while. Anyway, It was her birthday few weeks ago, and I had a special night planned for us. She calls me and says her "b/f" is coming ...

Why do guys stop making an effort after being in a relationship for a while?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - Can someone tell me why over time guys stop giving you compliments and other things like that? I've been with my boyfriend for over 9 months and I know he loves me but he's stop giving me compliments and never does x's on his texts when I tex...

He wanted to discuss our future together, but all of a sudden he has gone quiet!

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22 July 2009 (F) - ive been dating this amazing guy, and lately (in a jokey way) he's been asking to marry me, suddenly he told me he wants to discuss our future together, i said im open to possibilities and now he's gone quiet - what is he thinking?...

Sometimes I don't feel the same way as my boyfriend is feeling, so I assume he has fallen out of love with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - Okay maybe it will be hard for you to understand, but I have this question and I hope it makes sense when it comes out. So I have been with my boyfriend for 4 months. He treats me so good, takes me out, sends me cute text messages every morning....

We have decided to lose our virginity to each other....but I'm scared and uncomfortable with my body

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - Hey... Well ive been dating this guy for around 3 almost 4 years and like latley hes been like beenig wayyyy to much of a sweetheart :) and i love it! :] We are both 18 and agree that we are ready to loose are virginitys to each other... It will soo...

Don't want to lose our friendship, but I want to move on

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - In January me and the father of my 2 kids broke up- we had been together for 7 years. It was a bad relationship- constant fighting, and cheating. In January he left me for another girl- I didnt even put up a fight because I knew there was no point. ...

My friends get hit on, I don't?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - I am an attractive, quiet type and I am Indie...I have wild curly and can not stand to dress provocative or in loud colors. I do not have that Charlie Angel big hair nor own a pair of Audrey Hepburn (I think thats spelled corrrectly) glasses. N...

What is going on? My gut says there's someone else.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

22 July 2009 (M) - Im confused. my girlfriend out of nowhere started trying to avoid me like the plague. she says its cuz shes worried she is pregnant and is hormonal towards me. its shady to me. she hasnt started period but every pregnancy test is negative. i ...

Is all as it really seems between us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - A brief outline: I met a guy online last year and we got talking pretty seriously straight away about pretty much our whole lives (we just seemed to click). We moved over to talking on the phone a few months later and talk every night. We're due...

I get jealous easily and my boyfriend doesn't like it...Please help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5608 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfirned have been going out for a year and five months now, I love him and I trust him with all my heart but someone please help me get rid of my jealousy. He has many more and makes more friends with girls, and without meaning to, I get ...

Do I make the next move or move on?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - I ended my relationship because he started to distant himself from me then turned around and said that we was never together in the first place which is a lie as we did stuff that most normal couples would do, we spent most our time together then he ...

Are there guys out there who are happy to accept their girlfriend without trying to change her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - Are there guys out there who are happy to accept their girlfriend without trying to change her? A year ago my long term boyfriend wanted to change so much about me - my taste in music wasn't girly enough, my clothes not classy enough, my glasses ...

I'm scared I might be bi!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - Im scared i might be bi. I mean ive always questioned it but im scared to admit it to myself. I mean i have a boyfriend and i love him but i still have feelings towards girls not really sexual just like i like them. i mean i think i have a crush o...

She seems to have vanished since I let her know I loved her!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

22 July 2009 (M) - ok so heres my problem, i met a girl last year around octoberish...we talked online and telephone for about a month until we met in person.she`s in the middle of a divorce at the moment and has been seperated for 2 yrs...so since then we ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5608 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - I've been seeing this guy casually (as in we're both free to see other people but actually don't) for about 8 months now. He's fantastic and we're both happy with not fully defining our relationship yet. He's just suggested we go travelling overseas ...

Long long story short, rekindle or put out the flame? Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

22 July 2009 (M) - Me and my boyfriend broke up 2 months ago after dating for 14 months. It seemed right we both, yes even myself at the time, decided maybe friends would be better, the spark just wasn't there anymore. It was a lot harder then i thought it would be ...

I need my ex to go away before this annoys my new boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - i was in an emotionlly abusive relationship for 11months and finally got out of it about a month ago. i am now dating someone new im really crazy about but my ex keeps trying to come back to me and he wont listen when i tell him to go away. i told...

When we found out we had an 8 year age gap, we stopped dating! But is it really that bad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - well i met this guy a few months back. hes absolutly gorgeous! and i never in a million years thought he'd be interested in me, but he was! i met him through a friend who told me he was 21, but the thing i didnt know is that she told him i wss 18 ...

We need a song, but haven't said "I love you" yet. Ideas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - i just resently started dating this guy and he said we need a song but i cant find one that fits lol. most songs are about love but we havent said i love you so i dont want a song like that. he hates country and rap music and prefers rock. a...

We were texting about the future of our relationship, then he stopped responding.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - Ok, this guy i like was supposed to meet up with me, but he didnt. I was going to have a chat with him about my feelings for him, he didn't know this at first, and because i didnt get to meet him, i told him by text, which i probably shouldn't have. ...

We never go out anywhere! I don't know what to do anymore.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - i love my boyfriend to bits, but im having trouble believing he has "real" feeling for me, we spend everyday in his house, watching t.v or having sex, what kind of a relationship is that? i even had to ask him to take me out for our years anaversa...