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Archived questions from: 21 July, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Should I take him back? We have this chemistry.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - Ok let me break this down for you in its simplest form, if possible. Me and Sam click. Theres always been this chemistry which we both find difficult to gain from other relationships. Theres almost an oxymoron persona between us; love is always f...

Why them and not me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5608 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - I'm confused. I've known this guys for 5 years. We never physically hooked up until 2 months ago, but were always good friends. We also live 3 hours apart. Before we took it to the next level I introduced him to my 2 best friends and he hooked up ...

How do I proceed with this shy girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5608 days ago

21 July 2009 (M) - I know it`s a hard task to complete,but id like to try. I like a girl from my class. She is a beauty, but also she is very shy person. One night she was drunk and kissed me on the cheek and the second day she pretended that i dont exist. She take...

Is he dropping hints that I'm not picking up on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - I met this guy about 6 months ago and we didnt really get close as firends til about a month ago and lately I think he has been dropping hints about wanting to get with me but I am not sure. He says things such as he went out on a blind date a few ...

Possible to have a real relationship without sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - So is it possible to have a real relationship without sex? Im 16 and Im a virgin and in a great relationship but I just don't see the point in relationships if you're not gonna do anything else. I mean what good is a teenage relationship? So my ...

I had sex with a girl I love very much, now shes ignoring me...why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

21 July 2009 (M) - So I been hanging out with this girl that I work with. I’m totally crazy about her, we pretty much got hired around the same time 6 months ago. A couple of weeks ago we met after work to have dinner and we later did “stuff” in my car. Fast forwar...

When is the right time to tell him how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - Hi, I have been with this guy for almost 6 months. every since we met, we spend every second we can together, its at a point where i dont even stay at my place anymore, i pretty much live at his house, im even at his house when hes not there. we ...

I'm afraid to like him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - i was asked out by this guy i like, but i turned him down. i tried to make myself believe i turned him down by making up some lame excuse, but the real reason i turned him down is that i'm scared to like him. i have never had a boyfriend before and ...

Heartbroken over 2 guys!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - I dont know how to stop this heartache feeling, it never seems to fade. I lost my virginity to this guy in december after a few too many drinks, we meet each other in the summer and liked each other but nothing happened because i was scared because ...

Is he just making fun of me or is he being flirty with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - ok this is my problem. i think i'm in-love with the wrong guy.he has a girlfriend that is far away -like long distance relationship- and the girl really loves him and he loves her (i think). And the worst, he's older than me about 10 years... ...

To call or not to call....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

21 July 2009 (M) - This might sound stupid to you all and i feel so by just asking. When i like a girl i want to see her often, only recently have i undertaken the two step forward, one step back rule. We've been on 8 dates and are sleeping together. Last ...

Will he start to back away from our relationship due to the additional stress in his life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5608 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for about 2 months now and things are going really well between us (no signs of him backing off or anything like that). 4 days ago he called to tell me that he is getting layed off (this stress now on top of other stresses ...

Is his lack of jealousy just a lack of interest?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

21 July 2009 (?) - I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now. He's a wonderful guy and a great boyfriend. He's very loving and kind. The only thing that's been worrying me lately is that nothing ever bothers him. I had some problems with my Ex-bf at the ...

How do I let him know that I am ready for a serious relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

21 July 2009 (M) - i'm a 18 year old guy, im fed up of sleeping around and really want to settle! theres this guy i want to try a relationship with, we have known each other for 4 years and he is just turning 20 in a few months. the only problem is he thinks ...

We have been getting on so well but now his ex is back in the picture!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - Hi. About 3 or 4 weeks ago I started seeing a guy, who we shall call michael. It was very much him pursuing me and took me out on 3 dates, with a 4th planned for this week. We aren't going out yet but it was certainly going that way. He is a really ...

New hot date! Face is a mess! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - Ok i have a date this saturday with a guy i met off the internet...he seems great, good looking etc....but i have bad acne...lumps on my cheeks etc and my confidence is on the floor....even with makeup the lumps can be seen...im not sure if i should ...

Family making fun of my best friend and his family

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5608 days ago

21 July 2009 (M) - hi im 13 and i have this best friend and he has a sister the same age as my older brother, then my older brother decided to go out with my best mates sister and i thought this would be awkward but it turned out to make us better friends and i even ...

Should I date the best friend of the guy I lost my virginity to?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5609 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - So I lost my virginity to this guy about two months ago and I have not seen him since that night and he talks shit about me. His best friend has liked me for awhile and I've treated him bad, until recently when I discovered i really like him. We ...

Why won't he let this girl go and be with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - I am 20 years old and just recently, four months ago met a guy at school who is 30 years old. I have never been able to cope with guys my own age cause of maturity. but anyway I met the guy in college and I guess I talked first kinda flirting asking ...

We're going to be roommates, and I'm attracted to him! Should I say something now or when we are sharing a roof?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - So I recently started working for a new company. About 2 months after being there, I started inquiring to some of my coworkers that I was tired of living alone and was possibly looking to get a roommate or find a new place with roommates. I was ...

How do I ask my girlfriend to masturbate with me? I don't want her to break up with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

21 July 2009 (M) - I was wondering if girls masturbate as often as boys? I want to ask my girlfriend to do it with me, but idk if shell break up with me or something. How should I ask her?...

It bothers me that she's slept with so many people. I value sex, and she has just been giving it away

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

21 July 2009 (M) - my girlfriend is 19 and so am i. She has had sex with seven different guys, including me, while i've only had sex with her. Ever since she told me about that, i haven't had the same respect for her and i feel like i cant see her the same way. a lot ...

I want my boyfriend to plan something for us to do. How do I make this happen?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - how do i get the guy i like to come up with the idea to make a plan with me? is this even possible? (i heard that guys don't do so well with subtle hints many times.) i really like this guy. i want him to come over next week when my parents are g...

I attract quiet innocent guys, how to attract sexually adventurous ones?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - I look very sweet, lovely and innocent and so I tend to attract guys who are looking for those qualities, especially because I'm quite shy with people I've just met. The thing is, I'm actually nothing like that - I'm really wild, free and sexual. So ...

Would it be proper to ask a guy to hang out at your house on a first get together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

21 July 2009 (?) - i am thinking of asking the guy i like out and i think he will say yes as i know he likes me as well. i was thinking that we could hang out at my house as i know neither of us has a lot of money. is this okay to do for a first date or would it be ...

Do some guys prefer drugs over girls, as in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - I dated this guy for several months and he still wouldnt say we were in a relationship and kept asking for sex. I didnt do him any "favors" and one day, I got really fed up with all of it and left. The thing that I dont understand is that he has so ...

He seemed interested after I initiated the moves, now he has backed off, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5609 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - So, i started seeing thia guy i work with. we went on a couple dates, all three of which i had to ask for, but he was more than willing to comply. then there were a few nights of just hanging out (again, i initiated, but there really wasnt any ...

This guy likes me, I have not dated, how will I know if I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

21 July 2009 (?) - i know this guy who likes me, but i'm not sure if i like him the same way or not yet, as i have never had any experience with dating as i have always focused on school and spending time with my family. how will i know if i feel the same way about ...

I think I've lost his interest!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - I think I've lost the guy's interest I've been dating for almost 2 months now. He hasn't been showing me as much attention as he used to. He joked in the past it was a summer fling- and I went with it! I think it's because I didn't reciprocate a lot ...

He said he's not ready for a girlfriend right now, but he also told me he'd never let me go!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5609 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - ok so im 15 and theres this guy ive been in loge with since december.. hes 16 and tells me he loves me too. first he had a girlfriend and we started talking and were like best friends. then i started to like him more than a friend. i just figured it ...