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Archived questions from: 4 July, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I'm only 16 but I KNOW I want to marry my boyfriend. What can we do while we wait to be 18?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - We've been together for 9 months, and i know that doesn't seem like alot, and i know im too younge to think i know what love is. And i know many of you who are married or older are going to tell me i am naive and don't know what i'm getting into. ...

Any ideas on how to afford the wedding of my dreams?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - I'm a young women (22) who has in fact found the love of my life. I'm sitting here watching some wedding show. I have a single mother who lives off a fixed income. My love's parents aren't well off but have every thing they need. I have no idea how ...

He is emotionally as cold as ice. This seems to be a pattern for me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5625 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - i need to write this stuff down otherwise ill go mad. 6 years ago i worked with my ex fiance and a guy i was very good friends with. my ex fiance and i met when i started the job. we got engaged and got a house together soon after that it went wron...

Does she have feelings for me but maybe just doesn't feel ready to give them to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

4 July 2009 (M) - I am sure my situation is common though not every part of it is common. I will try to keep this as short as possible. I have met several girls over the years on the internet. Not really ashamed of it though since I have had plenty of positive...

He chased after me, then as soon as I got interested he seemed to quit. Why? What did I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - I started Talking to this guy almost a year ago. We met in school but didn't see each other much and mainly talked on facebook. This past spring, I was really busy with school and wasn't too romantically interested in him so I never really answered ...

I'd like to have a baby but I have some concerns...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5625 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am 24 and would like to start trying for a baby in a year. I am in grad school currently, and will be very financially secure when I am done. My question is, how do I tell my boyfriend? He is 10 yrs older than I am, and had a ba...

I have an enormous jealousy issue!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - long explanation but here it goes...childhood for me was not great. parents split when i was 5. was back and forth between the 2 till 11yrs old. i watched my mother marry ten times(yes i said 10) and my father i think 3 or 4. i said that to say t...

How can I get my boyfriend to miss me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend very much. He also loves me. Actually he is a rude guy but very cute. He is my life and everything. We started our relation in 2007. So its 2 years that we are with each other. At the beginning he used to call me and talk to me ...

Should I call her or wait until she's done with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

4 July 2009 (M) - Hi lately i keep dreaming about my ex gf. We went out for almost 3 years and we broke up (I believe we were so much in love when we together). Btw I'm 25 and she is 22. First she tried to work things out between us but I didnt want it because I was ...

My situation with this boy has me depressed. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5625 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - Hey :) i am quite depressed and very confused about what I should do here. Please help if you can thanks. I have never had a serious boyfriend except for a few months last year going out with a guy, but that was very minor and relaxed. I'm not a ...

How do I escape this silly routine and take the plunge?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

4 July 2009 (M) - Hi, I’m really shy when it comes to sex, I usually have to know someone for quite a while before I’m comfortable sleeping with them. Only…I haven’t been with anyone in almost 5years now! – I haven’t so much as kissed a girl! I’m a fairly attracti...

I'm worried incase he thinks I'm only interested in younger guys!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5625 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - I was divorced 4 years ago. I dated a guy afterwards for almost 3 years. Now, I have been alone for over a year. A man at work has been really nice to me and he is very attractive, but I think I might have given him the idea that I am only ...

Should I keep her a secret?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

4 July 2009 (M) - Recently i just started getting into relationship with a girl i like. I Don't know if i should reveal it to my close group of friends. One reason is because my girlfriend ex-boyfriend is one of my friend also but this friend is not in my group of ...

I can't continue sleeping with someone who doesn't want a relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5625 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - I've been dating this guy for almost two years on and off. He has problems with smoking pot and used to promise he would eventually stop but it only has gotten worse. I even moved in with him under the condition that he would not smoke anymore. I ...

I've been single for 8 months and I hate it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5442 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - Ive been single for 8 months now and i havent had sex. I dont do one nite stands neuer had one never will. Ive only ever had longterm relationships.of 5 years and 3 year im 26 I dont want a one nite stand because that is not me having random sex ...

What do girls think of a man who cries?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - alright hi girls this for you: what do you think of man who cries ( emotional person) can you be with him, do you think he is weak I can't be with such a person or ... tell me, what if he cries for you, beg u ... ...

We keep calling each other for stupid things but aren't getting back together!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

4 July 2009 (M) - To start off, let me tell you I am sending this from my cell phone. So I apologize for mispunctuation LOL. I'm going to make this to the point the best I can. December of 07 I start seeing a girl, never knowing she will end up being the girl I...

Is she afraid of comitment again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5624 days ago

4 July 2009 (M) - I've dated a girl for 3 years, we recently broke up in January of 09, we haven't talked for 4 months, and I messaged on her on myspace, because I really saw that she was down, with no intentions of getting back with her, as we talked we got a little ...

Father doesn't want crush to date me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5624 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - i'm currently crushing on my older brother's best friend, who also likes me. my big brother is completley ok with it the only problem is my step father. he is also friends with my crush. as far as my step parent knows my crush and i are merely ...

Isn't there a rule about friends not dating each other's ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - so i had this boyfriend a two years ago. we dated for a year, before i knew he had cheated on me with his co worker, i found out n broke up with him.. at the time his dad had passt away n mom was not very well, i gave my condoleses n told him he ...

We had a fight over a little game, Is it over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

4 July 2009 (M) - i'm 22 and my girl is 19. we had a fight few hours ago. it's because of 1 silly thing, a game... she's a moody person, she changed too fast from nice and lovely to nasty and bad. i don't even know if i said bad or wrong words to her. as far as i kno...

Is her new guy a bandaid or is she playing mindgames with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

4 July 2009 (M) - So, my girlfriend and I of two years broke up. the last year we were living together. We got into a fight and she left the house didn't come home that night. first time she ever did that in a fight. everything was going good the weeks before. I ...

Does my guy friend like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - Hi I need some advice about my guy friend.I need to know if he likes me. My guy friend is really nice to me only.Well,we met through my brother at first i didnt think he liked me but he knew i liked him.So he tried to aviod me.After a few years ...

Was this really nothing, or is she the most ridiculous person ever? Why is she like this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

4 July 2009 (M) - I don't know if this is a bigger deal that it should be? My girlfriend is kind of shy, but also kind of picky. People tease her about both these things sometimes, even I do. I think she might have a complex, but I honestly don't understand why s...

Can a selfish person change at all??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

4 July 2009 (M) - Hi everyone, I have been seeing a woman for the last 7 months. This woman has a had a hard life with her family, having been thrown out of home by her mother at 18 and forced to pay for her studies, finding a place to live and making a career ...

What can I do to cum sooner?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

4 July 2009 (M) - What can I do to cum sooner? I'm 52 gf is 34 I take cialus and still most times can't cum in her she has a great pussy, help me if maybe I don't jack off or have sex for 3 months I might cum in a few min but otherwise no! Help!...