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Archived questions from: 27 July, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

A story of my first real love

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I was 13 years old at the time, it was 8th grade...I was only in middle school...I am a shy, insecure little girl, and on the first day of my new 8th grade year, I wore a white polo shirt, light blue jeans, and blondie hair in a bun. I walk into my ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I love my boyfried and i know that he loves me, we have the most amazing times together and have often talked about the future, getting a house together, having kids etc, however recently we've been having a bit off a tough time,arguin and stuff, ...

I have three options in asking her out: What one's best?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - hi ive just started the sumer holidays and there is this girl in a lot of my classes who is pretty and i like that added me on facebook. we were talking on comments and i THINK that we are flirting. she comments on my status a lot and i comment on ...

Am I being too sensitive when I expect my boyfriend of one year to invite me to family events?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - Am I being too sensitive when I expect my boyfriend of one year to invite me to family events? I have met some family members and he has met some of mine, so I don't understand why he does not invite me to cookouts, dinners, etc when he is with his ...

Should I confront her about this or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - Hello there, Ive been dating my girlfriend for over a year now. Lately im getting more worried that she doesnt love me like she did. First of all we did not have sex yet, she is 16 and i am 18. But lately her sex drive has been lower than usual...

My annoying boyfriend follows me around, help, please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I just got a boyfriend but am having second thoughts, he is a really nice guy but just a little to nice. he follows me around a lot and sends me texts every night saying how much he loves me. i really like him but he can be annoying at times. i dont ...

Boyfriend is depressed - what to do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I have been dating this man for about 5 months. We met over the internet and he had just relocated to my city for a new job. At first he seemed to good to be true..such a great guy, no drama, steady job...just what I needed. Things were going ...

How will I know when it's right to move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - I've been with a girl for 5 years and for the past few months we haven't been happy together,we both wanted different things in life so we decided to end our relationship. It is two weeks since we broke up, soon after we broke up i was talking to a ...

Is she giving me a signal that she wants me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - Ok my first question so here we go... I got out of a bad relationship about six months ago and since then I started chatting to a girl I have known for many years well she rang me on Wednesday night from tesco and I said I fancyed some lemon ...

His woman "friends" from the past keep coming out of the woodwork!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for one year now. Since then quite a few of his female "friends" from his past keep coming out of the woodwork, still. Some turned out that they had once been more than friends but because he calls them all friends, ...

He seems selfish sometimes! I'm not sure he appreciates me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for several months now and we were friends for a couple years before we started our relationship. We have a lot of fun and spend a lot of time together. However, I find that he can be really selfish sometimes and I am ...

I'm dying to talk to my girlfriend but her mother has taken her phone away!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - its been like a week since i talked to my girlfriend and i'm already dieing to talk to her, her mother took away her phone from her and "i have no idea when she would get it back or if she would get it back" so what should i do ??...

First dates at someones house? Yes or No?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - What would you people say about dates at someone's house when you're only getting to know that person? I met a guy online and our first date went well. He called me two days later and asked me if I wanted to come over to his place that night as he...

Have I lost my virginity or not? And does my boyfriend love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I need help i dont no if i have lost my virginity or not because i dont no what its like, so someone help me. How do i know n i also want to know does my boy friend love me cos we've been together for five months now and he's been tellin me he love ...

Why does she keep turning me down after claiming that she wants sex with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - im so confused about this girl im seeing!!! Ive startd seeing a girl the last few weeks that has really fancied me for about 2 years. Anyway the thing is we havent had sex yet but have had plenty of oppertunities to, but she keeps making excuses...

I unconditional love worth waiting for?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - My love life is beyond complicated. My last serious relationship lasted roughly 2-3 yrs, the last year of which I lived with the guy. After a year of living together he asked me to move out. I can't explain how awful I felt, having to recoll...

We're on a break and I want to fix this relationship. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - okay me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year now and it hasn't been easy at all. recently we decided that we are forcing the relationship and we need tew change or its not going to work. so we decide to take a break for a while so we can get ...

How do I prove to her I'm in it for the long haul?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5603 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - So I've never asked a relationship question online, but here goes....I've been dating this girl for two years now. The first year we dated was great. I could not have been happier with another person. She was a very caring person and I would smile ...

How do I get this man to the altar?

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27 July 2009 (F) - I am a never married / childless woman who has lived with one man for many years. I ended that relationship many years ago and have been dating a wonderful twice divorced man for two years. We spend all our free time together and talk numerous times ...

Would you wait for him or ask him out yourself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I met a guy online and within a week of emailing we arranged to meet up. We were going to play mini-golf but he made dinner reservations as well so we had dinner before the golf. We got along really well, had a great time at dinner and the golf and ...

Boyfriend kept gawking at bellydancer!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - My b/f and I went to dinner with some other couples, to an authentic Indian restaurant and there were belly dancers performing that night. When one of the dancers came to our table the other men barely glanced at her, they nodded and went back to ...

How do I explain how I love my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I know this sounds stupid but I don't know how to explain that I love my boyfriend! he has like a hard time feeling loved cuz his mom killed herself and he's just always felt like she didn't care so now he just has a hard time feeling someone ...

Is he my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - so i was at a party and i was talking to this one guy who i have a mutual friend with and we have hung out together a couple of times but never alone. so he texted me while i was there and said we should hang out with out all these people around and ...

Is this controlling behaviour?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - Hey guys! Question! My grandmother just passed away and I've been having a really rough time. I'm not sure if I'm just overreacting because I'm going through all of this, or if this is how a normal person would react? Anyway, my boyfriend keeps ...

Does he like me? Where do I go from here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - We don't really talk a ton, but he tags along with my friends and I sometimes If I ask for a hug, he will give me one (I like hugs) At a dance, he just refused to dance so I grabbed his hands and started dancing around. He started dancing as we...

My boyfriend told me he fantasizes about other girls all the time!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - my bf told me he thinks about having sex with other girls all them time. He said he would never go with them or leave me. He said he loves me very much and wants to be with me forever. He said he sees girls everywhere and thinks about having sex ...