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Archived questions from: 13 July, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

He's asked me to go on a holiday but I don't have the money

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13 July 2009 (F) - Hello all. My boyfriend has asked me to go on holiday with him to new zealand for 2 weeks, the problem is that i cant afford to go with him, should i expect him to pay for me as he earns alot more money than me,he has not asked me how i was going ...

I have a crush on my nextdoor neighbor? Could this get awkward?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - I have a crush on my next door neighbour (same age). How can we date without having an awkward life if we break up (i.e seeing her and her parents often etc) To top things off, she's good friends with my sister (who told me she's ok with me going ...

How can I forget about someone I am completely in love with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - I've been completely in love with someone for over a year. We only ever met once and we're not in touch but since we met I haven't been able to stop thinking about her. There is no possibility of this going anywhere yet I can't seem to move on. How ...

Am I getting the "brush off" here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - I met this girl recently - really got on well, just in a social sense. I don't rate myself too highly (I'm not good looking and am partially disabled, though this doesn't always show to people who don't know) and she is exceptionally good looking. ...

What is "smart casual"?? What do I wear?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5616 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - Hi guys. Well basically me and this guy that I like (we went out before and broke up) are seeing each other a few times while his parents are away (dont worry- we will be sensible) and we have been dicussing it tonight. He has asked for the first ...

Don't know what to do about these feelings for my ex boyfriends friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - The father of my child passed away two years ago when I was six months pregnant. He was 19 and in a drunk-driving accident (the guy who hit him was drunk) and I was 17 and a senior in high school. We, admittedly, had only known each other for three ...

She really WAS turned on and I misread her! Help me fix this please..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5616 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - i was out with a girl who im in love with; she really liked me to but i tend to f**k things up after a few days so shes was messin on and i was messin on with her. I didnt no i was turning her on then she told me but i thought it was a joke and she ...

Having trouble choosing between the two girls that like me...Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - I am just an everage guy but recently I have had these two girls come on to me and i like them both. One has messed me around a little bit but i like her more, but the other girl genuinely cares about me! I have no idea who to choose. Please help.....

First time sex. Underage but how do I come across it with my boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - Im ready to have sex with my boyfriend. I know am 'underage' but I have spoken to my bf about it and we are both ready for this kind of commitment. I didnt come on here to be told am to young and i shouldnt be doing it because I KNOW this okay. ...

My mum wants to meet my boyfriend but he won't even say hi to her. I can't please everyone!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - I feel like im supposed to please everyone, and its impossible and its really getting me down. I am in a very happy relationship with my boyfriend, but he wont come to my house or meet my parents or even say hello to them. this would be fine (b...

Shouls I ask for her forgiveness and hope she will take me back or leave it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - I'm so confused about my feelings and think I've made a terrible mistake! I have recently ended a relationship with the most wonderful woman after 2 years! We had a really deep connection and in the beginning the excitement was fantastic as I ...

How can I mention to him that he has forgotten my birthday!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - Well today is my birthday and I have been seeing this guy for about 3 months or so, but he seems to have forgotten. What should I do? I do not want to immediately freak out or anything and start yelling or screaming but I can not help feeling a b...

I don't want a physical relationship, I want something meaningful.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - I meet this guy well over 1yr ago, we exchanges numbers 3 to 4 months ago. We went on two dates within the last two weeks and basically went all the way last night our third meeting. I’m 26 and at this point in I’m tired of dating for sport. I’m ...

Am I really in love with him or his cousin?

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13 July 2009 (F) - Ok, so I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years and it's been pretty serious. But recently he had a family reunion and I met his younger cousin and we just hit it off. Ever since I met him I can't stop thinking about him, we exchanged cell phone ...

He left his girlfriend but seems more distant to me now..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - In May, I asked the following question on this site http://www.dearcupid.org/question/hes-sweet-and-lovely-and-caring-and-cheating.html. After people's advice the man I asked the question about dumped his girlfriend...was a real suprise to me asw...

Does the girl I had an affair with want me back?

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13 July 2009 (M) - Hi, Last August i started cheating on my girlfriend (C****) with another girl i met online (J***). Me and J*** really hit it off and I ended up breaking up with C**** in order to get into a relationship with j***. J*** wanted to take thing...

Should I give her some space or just let it go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - alright here it goes. i was talking to this girl iv begun to develop feelings for over the last few months. one night she and i were hangin out and she and i ended up in the bedroom were we did a little fooling around. now she keeps blowing me off. ...

My girlfriend is under the impression I have a really big penis, but I think I'm average. Will she be disappointed?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - Ive met a girl that I really really like. and she has also fallen for me to. She has left her boyfriend of six years for me. Anyway, this might sound very stupid but please take it seriousely as it is getting to me. She is under the impres...

Are married women more flirtatious than single women? This study has me confused!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - confused and need help.. lately i saw a video on the youtube showing a confusing study that says marreid women or those who are in a stable long term relationship are more flirtarious than sinlge women !! the study was made in a club and it ...

I'm worried I'm not attractive enough for my boyfriend. Should I be so bothered by this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - Hi there. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years and I love him very very much. The problem is I'm so insecure about my looks and I can't bear the thought of him looking at other women! It started when I read a message that my boyfrien...

I get performance anxiety when sleeping with someone for the first time. Would Viagra help? Should I try it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - i get really bad performance anxiety when im with someone new for the first time. it stops me getting an ersction. ive met a girl and feel like im really falling for her. would it be a good idea to use viagra for the first time I sleep with her? I ...

I had sex with my boyfriend's best friend!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - Heyyah Every1 I dont no what to do it was my party on sataday and me and my boyfriend had an arguement and 1 of his best friends jordan, told me to come up stairs so he could talk to me ( we were both drunk ) and he were telling me to talk to da...

I think I love my best friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - Ok to cut to the point... i think im in love with my best friend and dont know what to do about it... ok short(ish) version: it didnt start like that but her mom and dad absolutly adore me and want me to date their daughter and my parents want the ...

Is this just a phase or have I gone too far?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - I have a problem and it's quite weird so I don't quite know who else to talk to. Background: I've been going out with this lovely man for 2 years now. He is 28 and I'm 22. I've always received a lot of male attention but I never met the person I ...

How can I tell if I like this guy in my class?

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13 July 2009 (F) - There's this guy is my class. Everyone says he likes me, but i don't know if it's true. Everytime he sticks his tounge at me, I kinda smile. I don't know if I really like him. I'm not sure. How can I tell if I like him? If I do have a crush on him, ...

At first my boyfriend was sweet and respectful, but now he seems to just want sex!

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13 July 2009 (F) - ok well i jus started goin out wit my boyfriend at first he seemed really sweet and respectedful but when i finaly said i would go out wit him he changed he started say he was ganna f*** me so hard in my ass and jus made me start to really feel ...

Do I stay with her and be shunned by my family or stay with her and be unhappy?

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13 July 2009 (M) - hey every one, i've been in a relationship w/ my girlfreind for over a year now, i don't feel loved anymore and feel like she's only with me for physical reasons. But i do love her and don't want to lose her. i'm unhappy and am becoming very dep...

I just found out my boyfriend cheated on me....

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13 July 2009 (F) - I just found out my boyfriend cheated on me, and I feel like going to his house right now and just wailing on him. I feel so hurt as I have been played for a fool for these last couple of weeks and everybody knew and didn't tell me!!! I feel so...

My best friend and boyfriend hate each other!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - A couple months ago my boyfriend and my best friend got into a fight over facebook. I had a picture and my best friend, (he is a guy btw) commented on it, saying "You are so beautiful, I love you!) My boyfriend responded to this very negatively,...

Should I keep our friendship or throw it away?

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13 July 2009 (F) - Well i'm a Fourteen Year old girl and i just got out of a 9 month RelationShip, i guess u can say i was in puppy Love, Apparently he's turning 17 and i We're Still friend's And talk but he Still has hard feeling's for me since I'm the one who ...

I think I am in love, am I, and can I make this work despite of the age gap?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - hey i need help asap i met this guy and he is perfect i work in theater so i hav alot of gay friends (im bi so is this guy) but all of them think we r perfect and i totally agree i hav had many crushes and not to many boyfriends but not once hav i ...

If I keep going out with him without feeling a connection, am I leading him on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - I met this man and he is a nice person and I open really slowly so I usually need to spend lots of time with someone before I'm really into that person. He's a nice man, polite and seems to be very into me( calls me often, texts me, keeps asking me ...

Love on the rocks, we broke up, should I email her to start anew?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - This may sound really stupid to alot of you but here it goes. I met this girl one day for like 1 minute she was a mutal friend of a friend. I felt something the secound I saw her, she admited she did too. Here is where it starts we knew each other ...

How to cope with missing home and him?

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13 July 2009 (F) - I have gone away to college, five hours away from my home. I miss my boyfriend so much. At least, I think that's what it is. I become so sad and await anxiously for a phone call or a text from him all the time. Today, we were talking but his phone ...

She studdies religion and shuts everyone out.

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13 July 2009 (M) - Hello again agony aunts! i've got a doozy here and need some outside perspective. starting at the beginning, my current girfriend whom i love with all i am, has had some major issues in the last year and a half. basically about two years agot s...

Is he only in It for the Sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - So I'm newly single, was married for 6 years. However I'm only 23, young by most standards! I would like to have a relationship, but am not looking for someone to bring home to my kids. I met a guy back in April we had a class together, and 2 weeks ...

Girlfriend was raped when she was a child, and does not like me to hold or touch her, what can I do to change this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - My girlfriend was raped when she was a kid, and now it affects her. She hates been touched in any form. I really like to hold her but she nevers allow me to hold her. What should i do?...

I feel he has ruined my life, my parents kicked me out, he dropped ne but keeps calling me, how can I get rid of him forever??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - okay so im sorry for the poinless detail here, but i just cant understand whats going on anymore, im a total mess and im so confused! back in september 08, i met a guy, i was out in town one night (not out drinking or anything, just generally out) ...

My girlfriend says she loves me, I think she's cheating and I'm insecure, any suggestions to help us?

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13 July 2009 (M) - two days before me and my gf started dateing she was talking dirty to another guy through internet on myspace and i think she lies to me alot i love her and she says she loves me but i think she cheats on me and talks to other guys she dnt want me ...