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*sitworthit88
writes:So i saw this girl at my job i haven't seen in about four years. We had a thing in high school and i really liked her. And vice versa. We talked awhile and i ended getting her number. We text each other and she told me she still liked me. How she wanted to kiss me. I popped the bf question and she said she was seeing someone. Everything seemed good. I wasn't worried about her seeing anyone because it hasn't been for very long and afterall, she did say she still liked me. But now i text her and she will respond, but only a couple times. And that's it. And i'm the only one starting the conversation. I'm confused and i don't want to seem psycho by texting too much. But i really do like her and i don't know what to do. Please help me! I'm just confused
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (21 July 2009):
 Hey there,
Maybe she is just not a texter. I know I'm certainly not!! People text me and I just sort of drop off... I prefer a phone call or face-to-face. Perhaps your gal is the same way? But try not to overwhelm her with your affection and attention. Too much smothering and you'll just push her away. Let her miss you, let her enjoy you when you're around. But, if she's involved with someone else, it is best to not get involved until she's fully free and single. And don't pounce too soon after a break up, you don't want to be reduced to a rebound!!
Good luck, sweetness!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2009): You shouldn't be confused, after all she did say that she is seeing someone. She said she liked you, she was being honest at least but don't make her regret it by smothering her or forcing her to chose between her bf or u. You'll just have to wait till she is done with the guy, and you yourself should see other girls.
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