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Stuck in a loop of humdrum and can't get out

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Question - (20 July 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 July 2009)
A female age , anonymous writes:

I have planned a holiday with my partner but we are not travelling together but have arranged to meet upon occasions.

I have not been intimate with him for over a year. I kinda went off him a bit as I did not feel our relationship was going aywhere. We have a 6 year old and both of us have other children for other relationships.

Because I have not been intimate with him or anyone else for so long I do not feel like doing so with him as things have not changed. I feel I will feel sick being on holiday and becoming intimate and then returning home to the same humdrom.

What do you suggest?

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A male reader, RAINORFIRE United States +, writes (20 July 2009):

RAINORFIRE agony auntwhy are you still with this person your not happy its appears to be going nowhere its unfair to you and him to continue the charade. you only have one life why waste it on meaninglesness

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2009):

I think if both of you feel the same and want to be intimate I think it's ok to do. You have a 6 yr. old together, you've been there and done that before, not a stranger to you.

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