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Archived questions from: 24 July, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Is it possible to infect someone with gonorrhea if you test negative for it, please help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

24 July 2009 (?) - HELP!!! Okay here's the story. I went out with this guy for a little while. We had unprotected sex. Within a month of us having sex he finds out he got gonorrhea. I went to a clinic and got tested. The lady told me my test results were going to come ...

My lover left his family, now his health made him decide to go back, how do I cope with ending our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - I've been in a relationship with a man for 10 months now and we are totally in love with each other. He left his kids 24, 20 and 15yrs and wife of 23 years and moved to a flat to be nearer to me and work. I ended my relationship with my partner of 6 ...

Serious mood swings and depression because of a contraceptive implant, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5605 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - i had the contraceptive implant implanon inserted nearly a month ago. Sice then the only side effect ive had is severe depression and mood swings. The mood swings are affecting my bf a lot worse than me, i switch from severe depression to ex...

He breaks my heart everytime I give him another chance, should I give up or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5605 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - How to make me feel better and peace of mind? My boyfriend is a flirt, I had been give him so many chance in the return he said I am sick, I am too much to check his phone, call the woman that he talk with, the last chance I gave him was a month...

I'm so insecure and feel like the outsider! Should I let him go?

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24 July 2009 (F) - I have some severe insecurities in my relationship. My boyfriend has been established in this town and I'm new. This is the kind of area that everyone knows everyone and I know no one. My boyfriend has friends he had feelings for in high school and ...

Should I confront him about his online dating account?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - My bf and I have been together for more than a year. We dated for 5 months and I had to go back home but came back after 8 months and moved back in with him. we never ended the relationship and we are deeply in love with one another. Recently I ...

How can I find the right guy for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - Lately, I've been asking myself should I still become happier than this? I am happy with my kids but sometimes I wish there's more than the three of us. The problem is, there's no chance nor time for dating. The guy I was initially interested in ...

Sometimes he's cold and rejects me

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24 July 2009 (F) - Hi. I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 8 months [11 days until our anniversary]. I have a problem though, he's depressed and I understand that his anti-depressents take a toll on his emotions especially romantic feelings towards me. But, ...

What do I do with this girl? And my boyfriend's response to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend visited me during my college classes. he Stays home as i go to class. i didn't want him to be bored so i gave him access to my computer. my curiosity gets the best of me, so i checked the history. i saw he went to this social network, ...

My boyfriend's dying of jealousy over nothing

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5605 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - The other day my boyfriend had a chat with one of my girl friends and she made the stupid mistake of telling him out of our group of mates I'm the one who always gets chatted up when out with the girls. Aside from not being too happy with her.....

Whether to go or not to go...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - To go or not to go? that is the question. The guy i like lives 8 hours away, its apparently a rule that the guy should come see u, we havent met yet and i AM DYING TO SEE HIM. He cant afford it though and nor can i. my friend told us to talk and ...

Should I try to let him know how I feel?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

24 July 2009 (M) - hi, i'm a gay student who has not, as of yet, "come out". I've been interested in loads of guys from school for a couple of years now. However, now that i've left school and am going to uni in September, i have really felt a deep affection for one ...

What do you think he meant by his comment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - Hey guys what would you say this meant! when a guy says.. "(my names) Nice, but it'll never happen, you know..." One way i think hes saying it will never happen but its the You know... bit tht makes me think if he has feelings but for some rea...

When is it ok to sleep with a guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - When is it ok to sleep with a guy? first date, second? a month......just when i like a guy i get so sexually frustrated i want sex with them as soon as.......

I'm too scared to ask him how he feels in case I scare him off!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - I'm so unbelievably confused! I can't even think how to get all these thoughts written down in an order that makes sense. I always thought I knew how to figure guys out but I could really use some help, I'm thinking someone impartial might be able ...

Complicated situaton with a female co-worker!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5606 days ago

24 July 2009 (M) - Bear with me as this is long. . . I recently broke up with my girlfriend and have been on the mend for some time now. At my work we were short staffed and my boss's daughter came in to fill in. She is gorgeous and I love talking with her, we can...

He is a lot 'bigger' than anyone I've slept with before and it really hurts! What do we do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - Hey guys. Here is my problem. I am in a wonderful relationship with a great guy. We have been together a few months and we are both madly in love with each other. We have decided to move our relationship on and sleep together. We have both had ...

What are some interesting things to talk about with the guy I really like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - to make this short sweet and simple i was jus wonderin how to talk about interesting things and not to be boring with my conversations... i talk to this guy and we really like each other a lot but there are pauses sometimes when we talk on the ...

How do I let her know how I feel about her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

24 July 2009 (M) - I have a freind of which i've known for about four years, and i really like her. I have been told by her cousin that she really likes me, but thinks that i'm not all that interested (which based on my personality i can understand). The problem i'm ...

Feeling quite sad and confused

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

24 July 2009 (M) - Hi there. Lately i don't know what's going on in my head, i've lost a huge sense of direction in my life and i'm feeling down a lot more than usual. I've not long turned 21 years old, and i see everyone else around me moving on in different ways a...

Tired of drama and heartbroken

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - Hello to all, I just recently got out of a 14 month relationship with what I thought was a great guy, we met through friends. I had been separated from previous 8 year relationship for 2 years and figured it was time to give dating a try!! W...

I want her to notice me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5606 days ago

24 July 2009 (M) - I've been with a friend from new york the past couple of weeks. we have been staying with his dad and his dad is going through a divorce so we have been going to his new girl friend house. his new girlfriend has a daughter that's 15. we have only ...

I don't want her to give up friends, but this guy is not decent

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24 July 2009 (M) - My girlfriend has more guy friends than girl friends... just a part of military life. I do get jealous sometimes, but Im working on it. One guy in particular bothers me though. She told me that one time about two years ago he tried to take advantage ...

Depressive breakdown and don't know what to do.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - i suffer from depression, a hell of a lot more than i realised i found out today, i was on a hugxe downer after a row with my boyfriend, we spent the whole of the night partyin with friends and when i asked him for some alone timean hour or so, he ...

Should I date this guy or should I keep waiting for the right one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5606 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - I'm 21 and have never had a relationship before. My mom, friends, and even myself think that going through dates and relationships are just a natural part of life. I want to know what the buzz is. I do want to have all those experiences like going ...

Boyfriend ignores me, what should I do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5606 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - I really don't know what to do anymore..my boyfriend is always ignoring me but he gets mad at me when i talk to other guys. hes always so rude to me. i dont get him. he acts like he doesnt care, but sometimes he can be really sweet. i broke up with ...

Thinking about boyfriend's bestfriend while masterbating.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - Is it really ok if I masturbate while thinking about my boyfriends best friend?? I kinda feel bad about it....

Is my new dating relationship doomed already?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5606 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - So I started talking to a new guy a little over two months ago. In the beginning, he pursued me, called often and we had great communication. However, during this time we've known each other, we've only been on four dates. It's been a while since ...

Am I expecting to much and being selfish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - I need to know if I'm in the wrong...tonight my b/f and I were out on a "Date" night. We've only started doing this about 2 months ago - we've been together for a while now. My b/f and I have been having some serious issues that we have been trying ...

He messed around with someone at a party. What shoudl I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - For 6 years my best friend Mike told me he was in love with me, everyday he would tell me but I just couldn't risk our friendship. When I say we were best friends I mean literally. We told each other EVERYTHING, spent every single day together, even ...

Should I move on or stay with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5606 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - I've been dating someone for 4 years now on and off. About 2 years into our relationship I found out he had cheated on me and that he was lying pathologically just for the sake of lying. At first I tried to make it work with him. I spent a whole ...

Am I a freak for remaining a virgin?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - All my friends, guys and girls alike, have participated in sex of some sort. So I can't help but feel like a pariah when they begin to talk about their sexual encounters when they go on about, "Such and such made me a woman/man the other day." I ...

His needing a break, feels like a breakup

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5606 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 14 months needs a break. His sister has been in the hospital and needing constant attention for 4 months after a surgery that went very wrong, and his father just passed away. He has a very demanding job and isn't in the best of ...

Should I sit here in frustration and misery, or just go for it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - So I'm going to college in september. I've been there a couple of times on inductions. And already I find myself really really attracted to this girl lauren in my German class. I met her in spanish class, but it got cancelled because there wa...

I'm tired of my fear of dating! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - Ok, I have a little problem. I'm afraid to go out with guys. I dont really know why. Well I do think that guys use us!! For sex and that we mean nothing at all. Just a time filler. I guess I want to know, is it true? Because I'm tired of being ...