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Archived questions from: 19 July, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

There's been no honeymoon period... am I being a drama queen, am I wasting my time or should I give him some time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - Im dating a guy who has a ten year old daughter that he has sole custody for. The ex has only come back recently and takes the daughter every fortnight. Ive a couple of issues Im trying to get my head round at the minute. Firstly, I brought up the ...

I'm the boss's daughter, but his mom is my supervisor. We like each other but don't know if dating would be inappropriate. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - Alright so I work at this tiny little store with only like 5 employees. So we're all a pretty close-knit group. Well, this one kid and I have gotten really close, to the point where he admitted that he likes me and wants to date me. Awesome, ...

He never introduces me to people we bump into who know him, but when I did the same, I was told I'm "spiteful". Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - My b/f of 3 yrs. and I have had a long-standing disagreement about something. We are always running into people who know him (mostly women) yet he rarely ever introduces me. They give him a hug, ask how the kids are doing, how the job is going, ...

Gay man with a dating question: is he leading me on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

19 July 2009 (M) - This is my first time doing this. I am a gay male, 28. I have been seeing a guy for over three months now. Initially, I met this guy and we hit it off. After about 2-3 weeks of seeing each other, he asked me if we could become more serious, but did ...

How do I start relying on myself to make me happy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5610 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for around 8 months now. We are completely different in so many ways eg our outlook on life, what we like to do for fun etc. He constantly wants to be out doing things, whereas im happy relaxing watching the ...

She's invited me to her party, and I'd love to be more than friends. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

19 July 2009 (M) - Dear All I would appreciate any advice you maybe abe to offer. I could really do with a second opinion please. I’d recommend you look over some background info about my situation: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/have...

How can I stop being selfish with my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - MOD NOTE: Please resubmit your question using initial capitals only and NOT all capital letters (which is not allowed.) ************************* okay my question is i have a boyfriend and we knew each other for 5months and we started dating 7/...

Mollycoddled!??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5610 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - I just returned from a great vacation w/my family and my bf. My parents are nice enough to invite him along every year. We have been together for 5 years. We are both at home for the summer and his parents still have an issue when he does stuff ...

How do I know if it is just friendship or if it is something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5610 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - We were both deeply hurt by the town gossip and so we took a step back from the relationship. We are slowly stepping back into it but I am confused. Keep in mind that this man was head over heels for me as he put it I was life and his soul and he ...

Am I being selfish or expecting too much after 9 years in this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5610 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - I am back again. several years later. David (26) and I (24) are living together. We are not married. For the simple reason..we feel that there is no extra money for a ceremony. That is not what i'm concerned about. My brother just passed away...

My best friend claims my boyfriend tried it on with her but my boyfriend says she's lying. Who do I believe?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - Okay, heres the thing, My old best friend claimed that my boyfriend tried it on with her, she had been a really pants friend and been getting around a hell of a lot! i didnt know what to do, he denied it but said he might have said things to her o...

He fell asleep on me!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5610 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - So i've been seeing this guy for 2 months already. I'm a little confused. Last night I ran into him at the bar and he always does this: He never comes up to me but he's always observing me and watching me, he'll pinch my butt, he'll call me and ask ...

Is it possible to feel such a strong connection with someone you don't know in real life? Or is it just an illusion?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - I've met a guy on the internet. We have been talking for a year and half now. We've been always honest to each other, we spent hours of talking, watching each other on cam... I think of him more and more and obviously he feels the same. I feel that ...

How do I explain? What to do... please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - I am a 25 year old female. I have only been with my boyfriend for almost two years.We have three children all together in our home. I have a 4 yr old son from a previous relationship, he has a 2 1/2 yr. old son from a previous relationship and we ...

Crush on my brothers' ex

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19 July 2009 (M) - Sticky situation, don't want this to become a catastrophe but I don't think it will; I have two younger brothers who are twins. They have "dated" a number of girls however never having held a real job they have never really taken a girl on a real...

Is it true that if a guy doesn't chase a girl, he is not that into her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - I have known this guy for a couple of months and we are constantly flirting with each other. We've onlly hung out three times and don't really see each other that often because he has a job in a town 2 hours away from where we both live and I don't ...

We haven't talked for a few days, should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - So there is this guy that I really like. We've been talking almost every day for about a month. He came over the other day and we just hung out at my house. He says all these cute things how he wants to kiss me and cuddle with me and hangout more. I ...

Why wouldn't he ask for my phone number?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - This guy in my class approached me and we had a small conversation. When we got to the subway we went out seperate but he never asked for my phone number. Why would he do that? What are the reasons why a guy wouldnt ask for my phone number?...

He was interested when I was with someone, now we're together and it feels like he's gone cold

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - when j and i first got to know each other, i was still with my ex. then, i was having problems with my ex, so i kind of confided in j and talked to him about my unhappiness. j was furious when he learned how badly my ex treated me and tried to get m...

His family really doesn't make an effort to talk to me and I'm shy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - Im scared my bf is going to break up with me. Ive met his family twice and I am pretty shy around them. I dont really say much, I'll say hi how are you and smile etc, and Ill talk to them if they ask me a question etc. However I am not good at ...

Should I make a move or just be content to leave things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

19 July 2009 (M) - Hey all, So I've been friends with this girl for over 2 years and we've both been through boyfriends and girlfriends while being friends. We work together and we talk a lot and people have wondered if we have been together, are going out, or wh...

Does boyfriend want me for love? or lust?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - my name is adrianna and i have this boyfriend and sometimes i wonder if he wants me for love or lust. i want him to want me as his girlfriend but sometimes i feel like he justs wants me for sex, but other times i feel like he wants me. i don't kn...

THe only reason I got with her is because I thought she was easy

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

19 July 2009 (M) - My girlfriend has kind of a sluty past, and I know shes a freak. Infact the only reason i got with her was becuz i heard she was easy, which she was extremely and also REALLY REALY FREAKY, but then while we were sitting in bed she told me a bunch of ...

When is it time for boys to grow up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - Just wondering when it is time for boys to "grow up" drinking-wise? I understand that guys (and girls) like to have a good time while they're in college/university, and tend to party hard, get very drunk etc, but when does that behaviour start to...

B/f of 5 years stopped sleeping in bed with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - my boy freind of 5 years stoped sleeping in bed with me he is always makeing excuses of why he wont then i tell him stop making excuses and am told the he just dosnt want to he wont tell me why and i cant sleep with out him it realy hurts i know im ...

24 and feel at this point in my life I should have a boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - Hi there. I'm 24 years old and I feel as though I should have a b/f at this point in my life. I am a grad. student and am working towards being a ateacher, and I take pride in how I present myself and feel I have a great personality. All of my...

Should I believe this will work or should I believe that "history" is going to repeat itself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, About a year ago I left my man due to the fact he stopped listening to me, started screaming and yelling @ me instead of talking to me and he was being just down right sneaky!! During the time we were broken up we still communic...

Looking for advice on how to decipher the future prospects for me and her...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5611 days ago

19 July 2009 (M) - I am in love with this girl I have talked to online for going on 3 years now that I recently met face to face. At the beginning of this year while in college she met this guy that she was all into and they started sleeping together. He has a GF ...

Hard to let him go, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5611 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - I meet this guy and we have been knowing each other for one month and something days. And I read some advice about someone elses question and she was going to end it. I gained feelings for him and then lost them later on, cause I felt used. now I ...

Ladies: Experiences and suggestions with a mama's boy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5611 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - I went tonight on a first date with this guy I chatted to sporadically over the years but never met before. All went well, he is the kind of 'boy- i thnk' who knows his own mind, a bit of a mummy's boy ( yes, i can spot them now'. but overalla ...

Living with my boyfriend & the guy I like...complicated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - I'm 23 years old. I have been living with my boyfriend Chris for 2 years and dating him for 6 years! We are definitely in love. I have always been one of the guys so I loved hanging out with Chris and his guy friends. I love to flirt but Chris ...