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Archived questions from: 18 July, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I like him, but is it inappropriate of me to contact him through work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - Hey, im 21 and been working around 3 years at my job I been training all our new staff and recently started talkin to some guy alot. I couldnt stop thinking about him cos he always makes me laugh n we hav fun, after him flirting with me a few ti...

Is she playin me or what?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

18 July 2009 (M) - hi, I met this girl online...we exchanged numbers and started talking on the phone almost everyday for about a year and a half!we had intimate conversations.. she told me everything of her past relatioships..(she still talks to a lot of guys whom...

He never believed me and I liked him alot

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5611 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - im fond of this guy hes the brother of a very close friend we kissed once or twice and i did chase him for awhile he never believed that i liked him as much as i said for sum reason hes back texting me now which is strange just wud like to know how ...

If he's not interested he won't respond right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5611 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - Silly question. I went out on a first date with someone I met online on Friday. We went to lunch and had a really fun, pleasant time. I'm usually really good at reading a guy and if he's interested in me but this one straight up confused me. One, ...

When it comes to sex hes stuck in low gear any ideas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - I'm now 6 weeks into a new relationship with a great guy. He's fun and outgoing, and i had my hopes high for the bedroom department. But it turns out that he has a very low sex drive. In my experience of being with a new partner, i was more than ...

Txt message breakup

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - hi people i need some advice on a love problem im being txtin this guy a couple of months now and im gettin to really like him and he said he really likes me to the thing is he lives in a different county not to far but far enough, he asked...

I'm only 22, but feel like I'm living the life of a 60 year old!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - I have a bad social life. There are so man reasons for this, No money, flaky unsincere friends, my no-bf situation, spending the last year of my life in th books studying for my degree that now that I am finished and want to go out and have fun...

I feel silly for falling for it all!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - I have just come out of a 15 year relationship I am 33 years old and met a wonderful man 3 months ago. He has recently split up from his wife 6 months ago and has 2 children. We met through work and I spent the night with him not thinking anything ...

In love with another girl.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - I have quite a few problems I'd like to sort out. I'll try to present them cohernetly, but they may get a bit muddled as they are sort of joined... To start with, I fell in love with this female teacher. I know it wasn't a crush or obsessio...

Is it possible for ex's to see each other again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - Is it possible for ex's to see eachother again? My ex boyfriend has suddenly started speaking to me regularly after nearly 2 years since we were in a relationship and he's very flirtatious and keeps trying to arrange for us to meet out and go on a ...

Can you change a "commitment phobic" man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - Can you change a commitment phobic man? He keeps coming in and out of my life. He has not had a g/f since me just retreats to his cave or goes out to dinner with his older friends. I know he loves me but his fear is so great He had been deeply ...

I'm falling for my first cousin and knowledge of this would tear our families apart!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - Hi all, I am wondering if you can help me? Recently, I have found myself falling for my first cousin,he is ideally everything I could ask for in a man. Im sure he likes me also, as he is just asked me out on a dinner date. Nobody knows about th...

He thinks he's too old for me and I hate that he feels that way!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5611 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - This summer I got a job working in an office on my college campus. The great thing about it is that my college offers camps for kids and I get sent out to them to help as a teachers aide since i want to become a teacher. This past week has been the ...

I don't like the feel and smell of his anatomy. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - Started a relationship almost 4 months ago with my b/f We've started messing around. I try my best not to get covered in anything. Don't like the smell and feel. He puts my hand on the tip of his anatamy. The feel of it makes me feel hor...

Should I just call him and ask about her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - My ex and I have had contact again for one month mostly on the phone. We saw each other twice and were intimate. the last time 3 days ago and have not heard from him since then My question is this. I know he goes out w/ friends and is dating. But ...

Help...I'm torn between two guys.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - ive been with my bf for 5 months now and my first love has been in touch! he says he loves me and wants me back says we were always the perfect couple i do still really love him so i just dont know what to do weve got so much history and were more ...

Does this man fancy me or just see me as a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - Does this man fancy me or just see me as a friend? We worked together - only for 6 months but just clicked and got on really well and had to spend a lot of time just the 2 of us - both single (me divorced 5 yrs - him never married),both similar ...

Do you play hard to get to get treated better?

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18 July 2009 (F) - wat do you do when your in love with a guy u work with who is with sum1 7 years and you have been the other woman 4 2 years and he has moved in with her .. she knows who u are and he ignored you 4 six months.. is back talking to you now and you have ...

Am I going to end up a sad, lonely old woman with regrets?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5611 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - How the hell do i get over someone! Im so inlove with a man we were together 2 yrs on off. Im besotted with him. We had something so special but he wont commit to me hes not the settling down type at all! I love him so much and if he could just open ...

What do you do when everyone else has luck?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - So what do you do if you feel like everyone is having all the luck in the relationship deparment meaning people getting back together ect. Do you give up hope or move on?...

If I love my boyfriend I wouldn't be confused by this other guy right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - OK so for five years I've known this guy he's not amazing looking but theres just something about him and i've always loved him and wanted to be with him. He was scared of commitment and always tried just to be friends with me even though we both ...

I didn't feel 'that' spark, what shall I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - hiia x i got told that if your really like some one , then you feel a "spark" when you kiss your boyfriend and well i felt nothing ! what shall i do ?? is this true ?? do you really feel a spark ?? thanks x laura :)...

Jason or John?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - I have liked this guy named Jason*(who is also my older brother's best friend) for about 6 months now...once I met him I instantly felt this really strong feeling...like I'd known him forever and that in a sense...I felt some belonging. His ...

Need a few tips on how to give a good hand-job?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - Okay so today I was with my bf and we were hangin out with his friends and stuff and when they all left we were getting into it and iwe couldn't hav sex cause monthly shit ya know? And so he wanted a hj and I just had my hand on his tummy and he ...

Is it normal for milk to come out of a girl's breast, if it is sucked?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - i have a girl am dating but anytime i suck her breast during love making,milk comes out.please i want to know if it is normal.or what could be the cause? ...

His parents don't want to get to know someone unless she is going to be a permanent fixture in his life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - Ok...so..I've been dating this man for 8 months. I've only met his parents twice, and his whole family (6 brothers and sisters)once. This is really tricky situation, but...his parents told him a while ago that they don't want to get to know someone ...

Is my girlfriend worth it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

18 July 2009 (M) - I at the crossroads where I try to decide whether my girlfriend is marriage material. I have issues with her past and I don't know whether I get over it. She used to go to orgies and swingers parties with her ex-boyfriend and have threesomes with ...

I still care for my ex, though my current girfriend is perfect, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

18 July 2009 (M) - Right, so I'm dating this amazing girl; she is utter perfection to me but I am on and off about having serious feelings for her. Recently, I met up with an ex of mine and I realised that I still have the deepest feelings for her but I know she's...

I am having a problem communicating with her, how can I improve?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5612 days ago

18 July 2009 (M) - It's me, again. It's like I can't stop. I just has sex with her, taking into consideration everything you all have said. I made her come twice and then asked her why I can not make her come like I've made every other woman (48) come (internally...

22 & never had a girlfriend..how do I get things started?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5612 days ago

18 July 2009 (M) - Hey everyone, I'm a 22 year old male, about to graduate university and have never had a girlfriend. I normally don't want to do things if I don't think they'll last, but each time I find a girl that I do want to go out with, I just can't seem to ...

I don't understand why he became distant and changed

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5609 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - I met this guy and I liked him from the moment I saw him. He was a friend of my best friend's boyfriend, and her close friend too. When I told her I liked him, she was glad and she started telling me about him, about how nice he is and that he is ...