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*ohn R
writes:My girlfriend and me have been going out for a couple months, and we have talked many times on what we both have done in the past. Surprisingly were both still virgins and were both 16, and we both have gone up to oral sex. The thing is like i feel positive on my physical appearance, i have a six pack, and I'm honestly a real good looking guy, and shes beautiful like wise. But im scared when that day comes (because i know its coming...we have something not everyone else has...) but when it does come..like im scared i wont please her enough. I masturbate whenever im stressed so maybe twice a week, and i think my penis size is good enough like flacid 4in and erect 7.2in. And ive already told her im not going to be the first one to make a move, and she knows that and shes happy for that, so i keep a condom just in case. But im flipping out because i want the first time to be something special, like i dont want to cum in the first 30 seconds cause im so nervous. Honestly i just need tips or personal experiences that can help me out now. Cause i dont just want me to be pleased, i want her to be pleased as well. Also on how to just have it romantic not just sex, how can i be mentally prepared? please and thank you very much
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reader, john R +, writes (21 July 2009):
john R is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you very much for that
but i also need help like what to do...what not to...slow,fast, finger her first, im literally at a loss here
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reader, john R +, writes (21 July 2009):
john R is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthat calmed me down thank you but does anyone have any step by step of what i should do and shouldnt do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2009): hey ill let you into a secret .. the first time i slept with my bf .. it took a while for him to even get up me.. make sure your gf if wet.. so it doesnt hurt her..
it tok my b4 20 mins to get up there and when he did it was amazin he was so scared and nervous but i told him to take it as he wanted. i just held him as it happened and it lasted 15-20 .. and it has never lasted that long since,
just make sure your ready
and make sure its what ur gf really wants and she not doing it to please you x
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