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Archived questions from: 2 July, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

If things don't go the way he wants it then he gets mad.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

2 July 2009 (F) - I just need opinions! Heres what its about. Well i have a boyfriend and ive been going out with him for ten months now, but the big problem is that he treats me like his little B**ch. See he sais its all because his ex girlfriend cheated on him t...

I don't think he realises that these lies to his mother are starting to erode my trust in him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

2 July 2009 (F) - I have been with my partner for 2 years. He is in his mid thirties. He is currently working extremely hard to save enough money so that we can move in together. However, there is one problem that I don't know how to approach. When my partne...

My ethnicity seems to keep me from finding a girlfriend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5627 days ago

2 July 2009 (M) - Well i'm chinese and i live in the uk. I'm a gentleman and a nice lad but i can't seem to find a girlfriend as most girls don't seem to be interested in me due to my ethnicity and not my personality. i'm pretty outgoing and get on well with a lot of ...

How do I get over him when this is happening?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

2 July 2009 (F) - I need some help. I have no idea what to do, or what to think, or what to feel. I met this guy a couple of months ago in a parking lot at a car shop that I was at with my best friend. The moment we saw each other across the way, there was this ine...

He's now dating BOTH of us! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

2 July 2009 (F) - I started dating my boyfriend 2 years ago and he told me he has a girlfriend but based on the girl's attitude he wants to breakup the relationship but all those times they had a quarell and i thought it will soon be over but the girl kept calling ...

Does he like me? I'm going crazy not knowing!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5627 days ago

2 July 2009 (F) - I work in a mall in a popcorn stand and in the kiosk in front of me there is this really cute guy that i like. At the beginning I would stare and catch him turning to look at me then look away. I made the first move to start talking. Now if I'm ...

Why do guys only want me sexually?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

2 July 2009 (F) - Its kind of annoying, I am 22 years old and I just want to be in a relationship (one day that is). I do not have any experience when it comes to dating and its like...no one wants to take a look at my "resume" I am extremely quiet, shy, kind...but I ...

They're only 3 days broken up, but I'm falling for her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5624 days ago

2 July 2009 (M) - OKay a friend of a friend of mine, has just broken up with his girlfriend about 3 days ago, and me and the girl are really good mates, were proper close, anyway the problem is that even without flirting with each other there seems to be this huge ...

Should I stay friends or ask him about us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

2 July 2009 (F) - I have a question to ask you, I am 22 years old and there is a certain someone at my school that I am into. He is confident, outgoing, nice to everyone and very talented. I really want to get to know this guy, the only way I can get in touch wit...

Am I rushing the relationship too quick?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

2 July 2009 (F) - been with my feller for 5 mths hes been going home cuming bk to see me, we are living apart at the momment wants me to live up north.I have got 2 tennagers im looking after its not fair to leave school has the only got couple more years before they ...

I really like her, and I hope someone can tell me what is going on inside her head!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

2 July 2009 (M) - yesterday i poseted "did i scare her away" and it seemed like no she came over to my place again last night with the origanl crowd that was there from previous night however, last night wen she got there she wouldnt even look me in the eyes and then ...

What's going on here? Is she lying to make me jealous? Does he still like me? Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

2 July 2009 (F) - ok im really confused right now. im 13 and so 'was' my bf. wut i mean by this is he broke up with me(twice?) well we were dating for a very short time and when he first asked me out, the next day everyone knows about it? but this isnt wat the ...

My boyfriend is going overseas soon and I'm worried. Should I be?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

2 July 2009 (F) - My bf is going overseas for 6 weeks soon and I am really quite worried. He said he would love for me to come but he planned the trip way in advance before we even met, so by the time we met it was too late for me to go as I woudlnt be able to save ...

What can I get for my boyfriend's moms birthday?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

2 July 2009 (F) - Hello, it will soon in a days time be my boyfriends mom's birthday, i really dont know what to get her, i have asked her but she has not said anything, just like what he does, they always say they want nothing but i cant found nothing.... Lol... ...

B/f becoming very possessive and controlling..its scaring me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

2 July 2009 (F) - Alright, where do I start? I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 years. He's ten years older than me (I'm 18). I really don't know how that applies, but maybe that will help you in helping me? I'm getting ready to start college, plus I'm moving out o...

Could he not like me because I'm "too good" for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

2 July 2009 (F) - Heyyyzz i have one simple question im not trying to sound snotty but could i possibly be too "good" for a guy?? Could he not like me because im pretty or because i wear make up or am " high matinence" if you will...... Just wonderin...

I want my boyfriend back, but how?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

2 July 2009 (F) - I want him back! We haven't spoken in a week, and I've been strong and not called/emailed/or texted since he broke up with me. i wrote a previous question about this, in which i thought the best thing to do would be to ignore him hoping he will come ...

Putting love on hold

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2 July 2009 (M) - No I don't believe this, but I've been seeing a girl recently that somewhat does. Now of course I'm not going to lie down for this and I have told her no person can decide when they fall in love or not. But from experience from myself and frien...

Is he telling the truth about this trip? Does he really HAVE to go with her or is he just using me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

2 July 2009 (F) - Ok I have had a crush on this guy I have worked with for 8 years. I was married and he was in a long term relationship for those 8 years but I always had these feelings I couldn't ignore, but being married, I did ignore them and quite honestly I ...

It's too soon for us to be exclusive, so how can I turn him down gently?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

2 July 2009 (F) - I am meeting a guy for coffee today and I've got a strong feeling he's going to ask me to be his exclusive girlfriend. We've been seeing each other for a month or so and I like him, but I guess I'd like to get to know him some more before rushing ...

Can in-laws date, if both are divorced?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

2 July 2009 (F) - Can in-laws date, if both are divorced? As in mother of the bride and father of the groom....

I'm wondering if my boyfriend is having an emotional affair.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

2 July 2009 (F) - I've been in a relationship for 12 years. I'm wondering if my boyfriend is having an emotional affair. he has a friend of the opposite sex. he tells me about her. i've met her but, she won't speak to me. she said she gets along better with guys. he ...

He has stopped talking to me and I don't know why... What should I do? I still like him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

2 July 2009 (F) - This is a really long question... Especially from a kentucky girl like me.. But please answer becuase I am soo heart broken over this :-( Ok, so here it goes - I met this one girl named Dawn and she introduced me to her guy friend, Beckson....

Do you think she's still stalking me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

2 July 2009 (M) - 10 years ago, my first girlfriend and I broke up after going out for a very short while. We lost our virginity to each other. She is the one who broke up with me because she was a little older than me and graduating high school that year, and more ...

I'll never get over him if I have to see him constantly!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

2 July 2009 (F) - I was with this guy from age 17 until 24 we broke up 6 months ago when he left me for another girl. We have a kid together also, now his new girlfriend is pregnant - ugh. Anyway she left her husband, the father of 1 of her 2 kids for him. Their ...

I wish this guy I was dating was black.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

2 July 2009 (F) - Hi, well im 14 and ive always dated black boys. im white and recently im dating a white boy, we're "in love" but i dont love him a lot because he is white but when i date a black boy i always love them so much but they play me. I don't know wha...