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writes:Hi can you please helpI started seeing this really hot guy who lived in the apartment block next to me. He has given a lot of attention, which really is very flattering as His type would be out of my league. Even though he lived in the next apartment block to me we can see into each other’s apartment because they are mainly windows. So its like we are sort of living together, even are bedrooms are nest door and both have slide doors into them.He has been so sweet buying flowers and he has been staying over at mine quite a lot. The only problem is that that the last few days he has been sort of ignoring me and he has not wanted to stay and all he wants to do is stay at get stoned at his house. I have only been to his house twice. I’m really starting to annoy myself because I generally wouldn’t be such a stalker but I find it hard not send him a text asking what he ism doing the only reply I would get would be that “im busy “.I asked him yesterday was everything ok and he said yes, I really don’t understand cause he send a picture of me to his brother is Russia to show him and I was even talking tom his grandmother on the phone who also lives in Russia just today so im really confused and getting mixed signals.H e is Russian himself and the language barrier is a big thing so I cannot really tell him how I feel unless I take up Russian classes.I really like him but he makes me so angry and for some reason Im at his beck and call. I want help and tips to be strong. Thanks for taking the time to read (“,)
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reader, Sini +, writes (24 July 2009):
Sini is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your advice, its funny I took your advice & been doing my own thing & he called last night with a take out & a teddy for me.... Thanks (",) x
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reader, malibugirl +, writes (20 July 2009):
Ok.. you need to stop, calm and collect yourself. When women get physically close to a guy, a natural chemical in your body called oxytocin makes your brain go all wobbly and you feel like you can't live without the person you want, I'm sure you are having irrational thoughts at the moment. You need to take a step back, take some space for yourself and let him have his time to himself. Focus on yourself this week, meet some friends, book cinema tickets, go for a walk, tidy up your bedroom and take some old clothes to a charity shop. He's acting like he doesn't deserve your time or attention at the moment. So focus on numero 1.. i.e. YOU!
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reader, Sini +, writes (20 July 2009):
Sini is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI suppose you are right Jason.... Its just sort of hard when your home alone and you know he is there
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reader, Jason32477  +, writes (20 July 2009):
 This is a tough one.The mixed signals are confusing me as to this guys interest in you.Honestly though I don`t see to much of a future here,but I could defiantly be wrong on this. Try to take a step back from the situation.Close the blinds,draw the curtains,and wait.If this guy has a real interest he will come to you.
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