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Dating: Help and advice

How to make-out with a guy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5614 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - SO this is my first article but I have just answered a question which was how do you make out with a guy so I thought I might aswell just post my entire comment and more. Here we go. Just because you feel like your doing bad doesnt mean you s...

My boyfriend of over one year constantly calls me a whore and accuses me of sleeping with coworkers when I have work meetings.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of over one year constantly calls me a whore and accuses me of sleeping with coworkers when I have work meetings. I have never, in my short 26 years been unfaithful, I have been cheated on and I know that pain. I have been making...

I lied to him about the kind of car I drive, how can I tell him the truth?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - I lied to my bf about the type of car I used to have. I know this may sound really weird, why would I lie about something like that? Well, my car I used to have was a really expensive one and people would always judge me by it. As soon as I say what ...

I don't want to give the baby, my boyfriend or my education up, what shall I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - Hey, I've almost finished with collage, am about to start univsity and have a steady boyfriend. Just on problem, I found out I'm pregnant. My parents where a little upset but are ultimetly okay with it and say they will help out so I can carry on ...

Should I carry on? Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - Hiya I'm 17 and I'm engaged to a 19 year old and we have been together with a year and a half with a beautiful seven month old daughter. Everything was absolutely perfect we moved in together but when I was 9 months pregnant he started going out a ...

She is having the best of both worlds and I am letting it happen!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

1 July 2009 (M) - Well here is the problem. I have been in a serious relationship for 10 years now. Just started going to church. My girlfriend then starts to talking to a preacher who is 28 years old. He has no job and still lives at home with his parents and has ...

My boyfriend is going on dating websites looking for a discreet relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is going on dating websites looking for a discreet relationship. I confronted him about it and he took down the page saying that he was just stressed about us and it was stupid. But then two weeks later I find another one! We live ...

She loves me but is not sexually attracted to me - what does she mean by this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

1 July 2009 (M) - I dated this girl for 2 years in college but towards the end of our relationship we started fighting a lot and kinda fell out of love. We broke up in feb 2009 and continued to remain friends. In May we started hanging out a lot and started acting ...

I KNOW he's had oral with another guy! If I ask him and he denies it I'll be gutted.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend borrowed my laptop, when I got it back I found he has been watching gay and Bi porn. He also left facebook chat open and there it was right in front of me.... a conversation with an old male friend which stated they had had oral sex in ...

Pain in strange places after sex...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - Hey, every time I have really passionate, hard sex with my boyfriend I get terrible pains afterwards, just below my ribs. We dont use a condom because I'm on the pill and he's safe so he finishes inside me. I'm 5ft and weigh 6 stone, if that h...

I feel his penis is too big for me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have sex every time we meet and I feel that his thing is too big because he does it for hours and it hurts me like hell. He keeps on sucking my boobs for hours and licks my pussy throughout and when sex starts he forgets ...

He wants me to get a six pack!!!! Why would he want me to look more muscular? I'm a female for pities sake!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - My husband does not want it at all when I try to instigate it. He has no sex drive at all. Our sex life used to be fairly active, but now it's non-existent. I've tried everything to get him interested: I wore sexy lingerie, I've dressed up for h...

Is he screwing me over behind my back or is he just having harmless fun?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - I am completely and totally in love with my boyfriend of 1 year. He says he loves me and wants to be with me forever, but I keep finding emails from ads that he responds to on personals sites, and earlier in the year he had multiple ads up of his ...

I'm scared my boyfriend will object to the dress I've bought.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - We are invited to a 4th of July party, and I bought a rather modest (in length) strapless summer frock, which shouldn't be a problem except my bf is very particular about what I wear, and I am afraid he will somehow object to this dress!! He also ...

My girlfriend accused me of cheating but I've never done it. How do I convince her of that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

1 July 2009 (M) - I have been seeing a woman for about 4 months. Things were casual at first but heated up quickly. My emotions took over and I started to fall for her. She didn't express very strong emotions for me, so after much consideration, I ended things for ...

Quick -- do you think he wants me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - Hi, i recently moved to New York City from New Zealand and this guy from my local coffee house keeps looking at me. He's pretty attractive, tan, buff and possibly intelligent(he seems to read the buisness section of my paper. We've spoken once about ...

Any tips to help me get with this other guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - God. Where do i start, Okay, i have a boyf, well i did, we're on a break for summer and we're being single because of arguing and we're thinking of getting back together after summer as it's only a break. But there's this other guy, who is the ...

Do I let him go or pursue him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - Hey!! Ok. I kind of chased my boyfriend away unintentionarily! I was snooping on his facebook, so i created a false account and i could see his flirting with other girls. I got involved with a guy, but it didnt lead to anything, it was somethi...

How can I make her orgasm during sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

1 July 2009 (M) - me and my girlfriend have been together for a few months and our sex life is great. we are both 30. she has never had an orgasm through penetration, we have to get the vibrators out to help make her orgasm afterwards. this doesn't bother me, infact ...

I don't want her to think she can lie to me and treat me like a fool, but I don't want to lose her either

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

1 July 2009 (M) - Bit of a long one this. A few months ago i met up with an old school friend. before we met up we'd been emailing and texting each other a lot. during this time our feelings for each other grew. we both felt an emotional and sexual connection. we met ...

After 5 weeks together he needs space. Should I wait for him or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - I started dating a guy 5 weeks ago.he was going out with a girl on and off for nearly ten years, they broke up nearly 8 months ago. he lives across the road from me also. we spend the first few weeks together stayin up for hours chatting. got on so ...

Am I blindly trusting him? What do you think?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 months now. My boyfriend's friend that is female always sends him texts saying that she loves him and she misses him all the time. He has other females that he is close with and they don't send texts like this ...

I'm a virgin but don't want to appear clueless in bed. What moves can I try?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - I am a virgin, but I really want to do it with my boyfriend of 3 months, and I don't wanna seem clueless. What moves could I try for my first time?...

We don't trust each other and now I might be leaving for a job. How can we make this work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

1 July 2009 (M) - Don't know what to do? I have been dating this girl for almost a year! We live in the same town! In fact she lives about couple of blocks away from me! We spend almost every weekend together! But most of that time we will be fighting! I told her ...

Did I scare her away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

1 July 2009 (M) - alright here it goes, i cannot beleave im doing this but i need help there is this girl that i showed intrest in over the last few months, and she has shown some back. a few nights ago i had her and a few other friends of ours over my place fo...

Why do I attract psychos?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - Ok, so maybe this is more so of a venting session than a question. Why do I attract PSYCHOS???!!! They always have a problem or a chip on their shoulder, they like to act like they're a "victim" when they have serious issues! They lie constan...

Is he going to wait till the baby is born and then run?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - I asked my boyfriend if he could promise he would never dump me and he said "i cant promise that" then said "i have to change my family or he wont stick around" im 8 months pregnant. Is he jus gonna wait til its born and do a runner anyway?...

How can someone be incapable of loving?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend told me that he doesn't want to be with me because he isn't capable of truely loving anyone and doesn't want to hurt me. He also doesn't want to have sex with me because he knows I will end up getting hurt. I think that my boyfriend ...

Could he be starting to like me?

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1 July 2009 (F) - Ok, well when I was younger, I hated the idea of marrige. My mother told me that will change when the right guy comes along. I met this guy Tony. Now, all i think about is what it would be like to marry this man! We are very close, nothing sexual or ...

Am I doomed for spinsterhood?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5629 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - I'm nineteen years old and I've never been in a romantic relationship. I've never even had a first kiss. I chalk it up to the fact that I'm frequently afflicted by social anxiety and have a depressive inclination. I always shy away from guys whe...

I love him, but he's still dealing with issues about his ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5629 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - For the first time, I truly love a man, but I can't let him know because it would freak him out. His ex badly hurt him about a year ago - they'd been together for 5 years when she cheated on him. She's still with the other guy but still sees my one ...

Is he moving slowly because he doesn't like me that much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - I met this guy "Ben" 2 or 3 months ago and we got on really well. A few weeks ago we were out dancing one night when he kissed me and said he really likes me. So far so good right :) In the taxi home that night (we live near each other) he brought ...

29 year old male virgin, still approaching women with zero luck. Any tips appreciated!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

1 July 2009 (M) - im a 29 year old male going to turn 30 next month. i am indian american born and raised in NJ. i have never kissed, dated,..still a virgin. i am not shy when it comes to approaching. i have been approaching women since the age of 18. i have ...

I'm lost right now...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years since i was 19 i do love him but feel like I am missing out on life and we now have 2 kids i am pregnant now and i feel like we have to stay together for our kids he has no lue that i feel this way but ...

How can he love someone else in just one month?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend very much for 2 years now i did everything i could to be with him. Sex, care, be there, go out anytime n everytime he need me. I love him n he loves me. We went throught hard time together he is my everything but just the other ...