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Archived questions from: 15 July, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Where's a good place to meet girls for a young, working guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

15 July 2009 (M) - ok need a little advice... my ex broke up with me about a month and half - two months ago. I just recently decided it is time to move on and talk with other girls... as my ex has been since the second day after we broke up. but my problem is i work ...

He likes me, he likes me not. He likes me, he likes me not...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - I know i have put this up a few times but here goes. I have been in love with a guy for about 9/10 months now and i think he like me back. He always starts conversations with me (on MSN and in person), always teases me, gives me loadz of eye ...

How can I make things more exciting in our relationship again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - I feel like my boyfriend is getting bored with me, he said he isn't but I still wanna spark things up a lil.. Any suggestions... him and I have been together over a year. And have a pretty good relationship and are very happy it just seems like as ...

I know I should stay cool and back off, but I also feel like I should call her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

15 July 2009 (M) - I've been dating a girl on a once a week basis, partially because we both live busy lives and I'm always traveling. In the past she has been by my standards permiscuous, for example sleeping with someone who has a girlfriend. By no means is she a ...

How do you know if he is single or taken?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - how can you know if a guy is single or taken without asking them?is there a way to find out their relationship status?if you have any idea,please answer....

I'm insecure and feel less loved

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - (Mod note: two questions merged together) ONE: im really insecure with the fact that my boyfriend has a lot of girl friends. he has one in particular, who is undeniably gorgeous, talented and popular. in comparison to her i cant help but feel lik...

He stood me up a few times, yet I still think I should stick around

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - what do you think when you've been seeing a guy for over a year (dating) and he all of a sudden, stands you up (more than once) and says he'll call you back and doesn't? im not a spring chicken im almost 30. it seems as though this guy doesn't...

Could a minor argument really spell the end of the relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

15 July 2009 (M) - Dear cupid I've been dating a girl for over a year now. Everything has been going very well up until yesterday. We've had some small issues of course, but have generally worked things out well. Yesterday, however, we had an argument, and sh...

Would you date someone who was the wrong star sign?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - would you avoid dating someone that was the wrong starsign? im seeing a man whose supposed to bethe worst match for me yet we love each other to bits, yet i keep thinking if we were together full time we wouldnt work..any views on this?...

How do I find a decent guy who doesn't just want sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - My exboyfriend and I broke up like 3 years ago. But I havent have any other serious relation ever since. I just feel that I dont trust guys. Every guy that I meet they just want to be friends with benefits. How can I find a good decent guy who is ...

If he's interested, why does he keep looking at his watch?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5614 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - When a man is interested in you would he keep looking at his watch? Would he say that he dates "alot"( which is not a problem) I am not looking for anything serious and neither is he. He says he likes me and we have great chemistry, but he is ...

I obviously have fallen for one of my friends, but I'm confused for some reason

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - A few months ago, my friend introduced me to some of her other mates. They are all girls, except one. He is really small and sweet. I know a boy would hate to be called that, but its true. I took a liking to him cause of his energy. He's always so ...

I don't know if what I'm feeling is love. How am I supposed to feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - Please no negative comments. I'm simply asking for thoughts. I need to start off with my dating history so you guys can fully understand. My 1st serious relationship was in high school. I was 14 and he was 17. So freshman and senior. Before t...

What else can she do to get a man?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - my friend is in her thirties and still stays at home, i think between us we have exhausted her options of finding a man shes quite fussy when it comes to what she wants from him job house money etc..and this is a reson i think shes still single, ...

Men: When is a women being cold?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - guys when is a women being cold? when she doesnt get in touch for a few days, in another hand is texting or emailing every day just too much? what would you guys like from us as a thirty something woman ive still never figured out how to play it...

Dating a year and now things have sort of dried up between us

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

15 July 2009 (M) - hi, i have been dating this girl for about a year and everything was going great but lately weve both noticed that things are changing, we dont laugh as much and we are both very playful but things are very dry with us lately,and i recetn;y learned ...

Let the guys do the chasing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

15 July 2009 (?) - Okay I've been talking to my ex for the past three weeks now. He's the one who contacted me first. Ever since that day he contacted me we've been talking or texting everyday. Today I woke up and decided to give him a call to say good morning. I ...

I'm 17 years old---am I too young to get married?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - i am just 17 going on to 18 in a few weeks my boyfriend wants to get married to me, i don't know what to do we have been together for 2and a half year he has been a wonderful man to me in every way but i just need some advice. thank you...

Big trust issues here! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

15 July 2009 (M) - i will try to keep it short thanks to anyone that replies. i was seeing a girl for a few months and she was texting this guy all the time and going out on saturday nights etc with this guy as a part of a group. anyway he told her he liked her and...

How can I stop my bf from texting her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - hi, i recently found texts on my boyfriends phone from him to another girl (who doesn't have the urge to look :P) she goes to the same college as me, he was texting her like he does to me putting 'babe' and lots of kisses i could tell he was ...

Did she want to talk to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

15 July 2009 (M) - I go 3 times a week with my mum to the hospital so she can have her dialysis. There's this girl in the dialysis unit she runs a exercise program she keeps looking at me and when i look back she turns away (i asked on here before about her doing ...

A man's taken interest in me but I still love the father of my child. Should I go for it or not?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - i have recently split with my fella who is also my childs father.he has clearly showed me his interest are else where and he has no interest in me,im having some work done in my home and been bombarded with 4 elecrticians 1 of whom has taken a bit ...

He's talking to a girl I'm uncomfortable with

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5614 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is talking to a girl through text I'm uncomfortable with. I can not force him to stop talking to her. So I simply have to deal with it. The thing is, I think I can deal with it by knowing if they are talking every day or not. I plan on ...

Am I just a way to get over his girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - i have feeling for one of my best male friends. we a re very flirty and there is a strong chemistry. he has a gf but we have kissed quite a few times recently, without anyone knowing. i want to know if he has feelings for me or i am just a way to ...

Do you just know when you love someone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

15 July 2009 (M) - how do you know when you love someone? i broke off with this girl a month ago cuz i was nt sure about my feelings for her and asked for some time...i am struggling to know whether i love her ot not ...she was one of a kind who loved me from all her ...

After 8 months I still haven't gotten the courage the ask her out

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5614 days ago

15 July 2009 (M) - Hi, I am wondering if you can help. See there's this girl in work who i've admired from a distance but have not had the courage to go over and talk to her, this has been going on for about 8 months. You see I never have any dealings with her so I...

I'm not sure if its the right time to ask her out yet

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

15 July 2009 (M) - So, I've recently been talking to this girl and I'm really attracted to her but she just got her heart broken and its been about a week but I'm not sure now is the right time to ask her out because I want to give her time to get back on her feet and ...

He says he doesn't like sex and can't be bothered with it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now. He is the most wonderful boyfriend and most amazing person I've ever been with. When I'm with him I feel happy and content. I adore this guy and I hope to be with him for a long time. The problem ...

He's made no plans to see me, he leaves in 3 days

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - It's years since I've been in the early stages of dating, so I'm not sure if I'm right or wrong to feel annoyed right now. I've been dating this guy for 2 -3 months now, not too seriously (as in we haven't slept together or talked about whether ...

How can you like a woman but not want to be in a relationship with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - Men: how can you like a woman but not want to be in a relationship with her? This guy I'm seeing told a guy friend of mine that he really likes me but he's just doesn't want a relationship right now (not that I have ever pushed for one with him or ...

The guy I'm seeing denied my facebook friend request!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - I've been casually seeing a guy for eight months. We had been friends on myspace (he added me), but I deleted my profile so about a month ago I tried to add him on facebook. He denied my request! He has over 100 friends so clearly he's not that ...

Could his unemployment be why he's putting us on hold?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5614 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - So I met this guy a few weeks ago and we hung out a couple of times and had this amazing chemistry and connection. The third time we hung out I invited him over for dinner because my roomie is also seeing his friend so we all had dinner together. I ...

Is this guy serious or stroking his ego?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5614 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - I have a real connection with this particular man that I saw a couple of times over the past year and a half. He also said he felt this connection too. He moved away a while back, but he still does the same thing as he did when he lived locally. He ...

Should I contact him again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - I have always wanted to get back in contact with a guy that I went to college with. It has been 7 years now and I ran across his parents number and his sister. I found the courage to call him after I saw that he was on another social network site ...

I'm not sure how the guy I'm seeing feels about me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - I'm not sure how the guy I've been seeing for the past two months feels about me. We talk about everyday, we have a good time together when we hang out, and he tells his friends about me. The other night (when he was really drunk) he asked me why do ...

I want him to notice ME, and realise the other girl might break his heart. How do I do that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5615 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - Ha well right now it seems like the song is going on in my life. I like this guy from my school, but he likes someone else. He keeps telling me that he's almost positive that she doesn't like him, and it's really upsetting him. So I'm being the good ...

Should I just be happy with friends with benefits?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - I am head over heels for this amazing guy who shares the same feelings towards me, next step would be to just get together right? Wrong, he wants to sort through the commitments he already has before taking on another. Now we are friends with ...

I feel chemistry with him, except for when we're kissing

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15 July 2009 (F) - Can one person feel chemistry and the other nothing on a date? I've been dating a great guy for a little while now and we've kissed a few times and, well, I don't really feel much from the kiss. He seems to get into it though. I feel strongly ...

Where do nice girls hang out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

15 July 2009 (M) - I am 18 years old. I work in a supermarket, I also live in a villiage with not many people in it. I have a few friends but I've never been one of the most popular people in the world. I am single. Apparently a girlfriend comes along when shes ready. ...

He's 4 years older and we don't see each other much

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - well..im 15 and my boyfriend is 19,we been going out for 1month and I really like I feel something special for him and I think he feelsz the same way too...im kind of wondering if this will work out,since there's age difference and we don't see ...