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*ever again
writes:i have been with my boyfriend for eleven years off and on.i was 14 he was 16 and we have been threw so much i guess u can say we've both hurt eachother.he is my bestfriend and i love him with all my heart.we just got back together after being apart for a year.one of my biggest problems with him is he keeps doing these stupid things and just got arrested a week ago.the kicker is he just came home a week prior to that.so now im just so confused should i stay or go.i know he will be hurt but i dont want to live my life like this anymore.other women is another part of my pain,i know all the red flags r up saying i should leave but i love him so much,so i just need some more advice.what should i do leave or stay?
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reader, Your friend  +, writes (20 July 2009):
 Your are right, time to go. There will be more pain in staying then going.
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (20 July 2009):
 Oh Sweetie, I think the writing is on the wall... you need to leave this man because he is going to cause you more pain in the future....
I know 11 years is a long time to just throw away, but rather move on now, and give your self a chance to heal and meet someone who will treat you right.
Honeygirl
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2009): I think you should leave...I don't think I have to tell you why but I know Eleven year is hard to throw away. He does dumb things and gets himself arrested...I don't know if he will change anytime soon for the better and with all the red flags you have with him...its more than enough of reasons. You love him I am sure but it's not enough to help him...or help you.
You need to find the strength in yourself to leave him..and you can do it.
Good Luck
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