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Archived questions from: 5 July, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I was blown away from the intense goodbye kiss but he hasn't contacted me since!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - I met a guy about a month ago. We've seen eachother about 5 times now. We're both in our 50's. He's a lovely man. Very respectful. We seemed to get along well. Each date, his goodbye kisses became more intense and I was blown away from the last ...

He doesn't talk much when we're together, don't know what to make of it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - Right this may sound really stupid to some, but i need your help! I'm with this guy, who i really like, am always thinking about him, both sexually and not. Just spending time with him is amazing! I dream about him almost every night, again bot...

My girlfriend freaked and started crying when I undone her bra. Why did she do this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

5 July 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and me were making out and until I unhooked her bra. She had padding in it, she ran out of the room in tears. I did call her a few times with no answer. She wont talk to me. She always problem her with insecureties. Like she wears my ...

Am I barking up the wrong tree?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5624 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - My question is I am 54 and he is 2 years younger and I know he was married to a younger gal that only lasted a few years. we have become friends eccept last night we consumated the friendship yet no major love sparks just very comfortable with. Each ...

How can I turn her down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

5 July 2009 (M) - i'm an 18 year old boy dating a 16 year old girl that threatens to hurt herself and she acts inmature out in public and i just can't stand the way she acts when we go out somewhere and i'm at that point where i just wanna break up with her ...

He's used to younger women will this be a problem?

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5 July 2009 (F) - I am mid-50's and hooked up with someone who has been a friend and is 2 years younger than I. We went to breakfast and it was all very comfortabel...almost too comfortable. He is used to being with younger women and wonder if this will be a problem....

Going back and forth between these 2 women isn't working!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5624 days ago

5 July 2009 (M) - I was with a woman for about 2 years and after I met another woman we started dating a few months later. Since I've been with her everything was fine until this past new year's eve when I sent a txt to my ex saying happy new years. My girlfriend ...

Commitment issues but amazing chemistry?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - Ok so this is a bit of a long one but your answers will be fully apprechiated!! :) Ok so on new years eve (this year) i was out with my friends having a great night, i ended up in a huge crowd at the bar and bumped into some guy, as soon as i set...

Girlfriend says she goes to gay gyms because she knows the men won't hit on her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

5 July 2009 (M) - My girlfriend told me she works out at gay gyms because she knows that other men won't hit on her - is this weird or what? I'm realistic, and I KNOW that other men will flirt with her in the gym, and don't try to get jealous about it. I know sh...

Too dependent on my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5624 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - i feel like im too dependant on my boyfriend. we have been together on and off for a year now. i feel like hes the only one who really knows me because i tell him everything and i dont hide anything from him, like i do with my parents. my parents ...

With a guy but still find myself looking at women!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfrind for nearly 4 years now , but i am very concerned weather i am a bisexual i had a encounter with a woman a few months back and it ended badly but i still find myself looking at other women , even tho i would like to think ...

There is a bad atmosphere between me and my boyfriend's sister. Should I do anything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - Me and my fiance have been together nearly a year and we got pregnant pretty fast (after 4 months) but we are happy about it and have kept the baby which is due next month. Anyway everyone was fine about it except his sister. She started telling ...

Why is she doing this to me when I'm sure she wants me as much as I want her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

5 July 2009 (M) - The most beautiful woman - physically and as a person - has been on my mind for a couple of years now. Then 18 months ago, we started seeing each other for drinks etc. We told each other we were in love and would be together just as soon as we could ...

Whenever a problem arises, I get angry for what he did during our breakup. Am I too uptight?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5624 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - My ex boyfriend recently came back to me and we decided to give us another chance. Now we know our problems and are trying to work things out and actually getting along well. However, whenever a small problem arises, I get disappointed and...

Guys: Was it right to let a shallow get the better of me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5624 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - I liked a guy a few years ago, though he rejected me when he was drunk about 4 times. He didn't care. He does the same sport as me, I left it for 2 years and I fell behind, now he's away ahead of me and he the same age as me. Now I'll never catch ...

I don't want to be competing with guys 3 years older than me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

5 July 2009 (M) - hey well theres this girl i really like at work and we get along pretty well but im gettin mixed signals from her like she will be really flirty one minute and not the next i know theres a couple of other guys that like her and shes talking to them ...

I met his his parents, and it didn't go too well! How do I deal with it next time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - I am so confused right now, I dont know what to think or make of the situation I am. Firstly let me start by saying I am 19 years old and my bf who I have been dating for over a month now, is 24. I recently met all of his family. However I...

We're back together, but I'm afraid to need him like I did before

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - I really love this kid and well we broke up for a little bit and those were the hardest months of my life. And now that were back together I'm extremely happy but I'm afraid to need him like I did before. And he's already told me he needs me but I ...

I don't want gifts, I want his love. Why has he gone off sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - Ok, this is a long one... I'll start from the begining... Two years ago, I just entered highschool as a freshman in highschool... I met Lukas, a senior ready to graduate. I'll tell you a bit about him. Before me he only dated two other girls, non...

Should I chase him, let him chase me, or just let him go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - this guy told me he liked me and i said i liked him too, he asked me out and i said yes.then after 2 weeks later i told him that it felt more like a friend zone then boyfriend and girlfriend thing.so he asumed i broke up wit him and he always said ...

How can I get him to see that I really care about him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5625 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - I need some insight and advice. Okay my story goes like this: about 9 months ago I was getting over an ex when a guy I worked with started pursuing me. We dated a little but I made it known that I didn't want to start anything because I wasn't ...