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Archived questions from: 9 July, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How do I start dating again after 15 years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - i am 40 yrs old and i haven't dated in 15 years. i recelently lost weight and now i feel better about my self and i want to date. i looked up an old friend that use to be interested in me when i was big so i know he would love to see me now. i never ...

I made a big fat stupid mistake and I'm scared my boyfriend will end things with me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

9 July 2009 (?) - Hi there Could really use some advice here. I was seeing a guy for a few weeks after Christmas but it was only casual. He left to work abroad for a few months and i met another guy who happened to be in the same crowd as the first guy (i.e they al...

Starting to develop feelings for my ex again, but I don't want to end up hurt again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5620 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - I have recently just started seeing an ex of mine.. We dated when we were 18 for about 3 months, so nothing major or to serious.. At the time I was head over heels for him.. He was amazingly good looking and had all the perfect things to say.. being ...

Late night texts.....does it mean anything?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - hello, Three days ago, a guy texted to me at 3 am if I have a boyfriend. I answered later No.The guy who texted me did not text me or phone me till now. What shall I do? Is he interested or not? I can't forget him. Please help me, what shall I ...

Second thoughts in my relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - having second thoughts in my realonship i can not get him intrested inme for nothing not even while we're in sex ...

Running out of patience!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - im running out of patience with my boyfriend of 2 years. we are on holidays so i have been at his house for a week straight. While i was there i felt like all he wanted to do was play computer games and was bored with me so i said this to him that i ...

Why the sudden distance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5620 days ago

9 July 2009 (M) - Okay, so I met this guy through my sister of all people. She worked with him for about 9 months and always told me we would get along. we started talking and hanging out about 3 weeks ago and everything was really cool. He's a great guy and we have ...

Confused and torn between two guys. Any advice on this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - Hi again, the other day, i asked for help for the situation between me and the 28 year old chef at work. When i went to work, i acted like nothing had happened, and it seemed to be ok. Towards the end of the night, however, i noticed him star...

I need advice with my kissing technique!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - hi i have some questions about kissing i mean i have kissed boys before etc but when they put there tongue in my mouth i just dont know what to do do i move my tongue? just leave it not moving? any other kissing techniques i could use that ...

Six months of dating and he wants us to get married. But I think it's too soon!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5620 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend (21) and I (19) have been dating for six months. He's in the army and in two and a half years he'll probably get shipped elsewhere, which is problematic for where I live, but not an immediate issue. He signed on for this station again ...

How can I feel closer to him and show my love in our long distance relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about 2 years now. We are engaged. He has been away for a couple of months now and I wont be able to see him until December. How can I feel more closer to him in your LDR? I want to show my love to him and I need ...

I want to be more than her friend, but she likes women and doesn't want to hurt me. Help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

9 July 2009 (M) - I have a very attractive neighbor and she moved in about 4 months ago. Shortly after she moved in I noticed that she had a girlfriend. Recently, they broke up and we have been talking a lot. She is very cool and easy to talk to and we just hit it ...

Sometimes she calls me lots of times a day, and sometimes not at all. Is she taking a break from me on those times?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5620 days ago

9 July 2009 (M) - My girl makes me worry so much about us. We are a bit of an LDR. I see her on weekends, sometimes more, for over 3 years now. We are very serious and intend to marry. Plans are set to move in together into a place real soon. But like right now I ...

She's only 15 and I have feelings for her, is it wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

9 July 2009 (M) - I really need someone elses imput on this situation.I have feelings for a girl I know. The problem is Im 18 and she is only 15. Most people would probably wonder why an 18 year old would want anything to do with a 15 year old. Im not a pedophile or ...