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Am I bi? I am very close to this girl. My boyfriend knows and says I can't dump him!

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Question - (20 July 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 1 August 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I met this girl in one of my classes PE to be spacific and were realy good friends. Except i think she like me and im not all inocent either. I like her to. Shes so nice and she cares about me. She hugs me all the time and kisses my cheek and forhead, and sometimes on the nose. I like playing with her hair to and she will lay her head on my lap so i can. she uses me as a pillow sometimes. Sometimes we even hold hands. She likes linking arms with me to and skipping around. My boyfriend doesnt mind that i like her and she fights him all the time for me. I like it to them fighting over me it makes me feel special. She tells me that one time to claim me shes going to kiss me in front of him.

I need help. I dont know what to do. Iv only told 2 friends becids my bf and they both think im Bi. am i?? Can you give me your oppinions on this please that would realy help.

Oya my bf says if i do date her then i cant dump him so i will be in two relationships and he wants me to film it if we kiss.

Also she has told me a bunch of times she doesnt know what she is.

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A female reader, gRaa United Kingdom +, writes (1 August 2009):

gRaa agony auntsay she can kiss you but not infront of your bf if your so worried about him kicking off.

if you think your boyfriend is a bit "too" protective slow things down a bit until you think you can trust him again to be nicer. but if you do slow down and you see the girl, she might try to pull a move on you.

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A male reader, kurtyz United Kingdom +, writes (20 July 2009):

kurtyz agony auntbut do u want to date the girl,would you acctually kiss here?? if so then i would think you are bi but i dont see anything wrong with it.

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A female reader, mossy Ireland +, writes (20 July 2009):

hiyah

im feeling the same way at the moment with a friend of mine however the same as your case i think ye are really close friends and that ye dont care what others thk around ye and ye love each other alot...

i dont like the way your bf said you cant dump him you can if you want,it suonds like a controlling factor there,also he could not saying he would use all this aganist you if he got hurt so id play it careful with him abit.

if i was you i would play it cool and play along, if your friend decides to ask you out then you have nothing to loose, but im not sure if you are bi i think you are just curious what it could be like..

remember bi is a naural thing screw what others think,its what makes you happy the most important thing here...

breathe and go with the flow!

i dont know if nething helped, i wish you the best, write bk if you would like to know nething more, im happy to help you!!

mossy xx

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A female reader, ugh101 United States +, writes (20 July 2009):

ugh101 agony auntWho is he to tell u you cannot dump him? You can do whatever yo want.

It sounds lke you might be bi but it could be a phase or just this girl. Time will tell you the answer.

Good LuckXX

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