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Archived questions from: 28 July, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I can't stop thinking that he stole money from me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I think my boyfriend may have stolen from me, but I can't prove it. Saturday night, I came home from my waitressing job and counted my earnings and put it all away very neatly in my wallet to take to the bank. The next day, a large bill was m...

Why are boys like this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about 3 months now. He usually comes around mine and we will watch movies and play games. My siblings always seem to get in the way though. But whenever we are alone in a room, he will get on top of me and its like ...

Mr. Right, but not right now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5601 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I'm 21 years old and have been dating my boyfriend for the past 10 months. He is a good guy, sweet and kind to me. He is also older than I am by about eight years, and I think he's ready to settle down (has asked me to move in with him before and so ...

We think of the same words or what the other was thinking! Does this mean we're super close?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I somtimes say things at the exact same time and it will be the same word. Or we will say something that the other was thinking, it's like our minds are one or something. What is this? Does this mean we are super close??...

What are the sings that your boyfriend is interested in his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5601 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - What are the sings that your boyfriend is interested in his ex? WHat are the signs that hes jealous that his ex might have a new boyfriend?...

Why does he always LAUGH at me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - Why does my boyfriend laugh at some of the stupid things I say. I know I'm a bit ditzy but he makes it worse; it makes me feel more stupid and lowers my self-esteem. Especially when it gets serious it upsets me so much... ...like the time we were...

Forced to raise a brat!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I have lived with my bf for almost 6 years now. We have been thru a lot and I really love and care for him. The problem is he has a 14 year old bratty son who no one has ever diciplined and now the child's mother wants to give up custody and have us ...

Are you thinking what I'm thinking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5601 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - OK... Well for the past week now I've suffered (on and off) from feeling nautious and not being hungry, headaches and fatigue. Two people have said something about me being pregnant on my facebook. I've been thinking about babies a lot and took a...

2 years on and I still haven't told him I kissed my ex. Should I?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend 2 years nad love him dearly. When we were together 3 months I kissed my ex. It was a very brief kiss and I immediately knew it was a mistake. I didn't tell my boyfriend as I was petrified of losing him. He is amazing and ...

How can I change the way things are with me and my girlfriend? We argue all the time now!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5601 days ago

28 July 2009 (M) - Please help ok I have been in a serious relationship for 6 years on and off the girl I am with is a very nice caring person. That being said she has failed to have a job for the last two years that we have lived together she has nowhere else to ...

Confused and Frustrated in San Antonio

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5601 days ago

28 July 2009 (M) - I've been in an relationship for 3 years and we finally moved in together and she has a 13 year old son. We all get along for the most part. MY concern is that our finances are starting to be a problem, she hasn't been paying her part and I'm ...

How can I make amends with his mum?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5601 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I was at a party with my boyfriend a few days ago. I was really drunk and ended up saying some really harsh things to him. He says he's ok with it now and forgives me but I haven't seen his mum since. Apparently she's taken it badly and I think she ...

Would you give someone a chance, even if you didn't like them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5601 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - Ok here it is... I really like this one guy that ive known for a long time.... Im pretty sure he has absolutly no idea that i like him!! Anyways the other day i decided i needed to face my fears and tell him that i like him... Except i didnt t...

Confused on what to do... does this sound more like 'just friends' to you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5601 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I'm 15 years old,i look very mature for my age. Not to sound concieted or anything im very attractive, and have a great body. i like this guy thats 18 years old he told me i was beautiful, and would try to dating if i was older. Even though i feel ...

Is he for real or just bored?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5598 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - Hi my "unofficial partner" is currently working away at the moment. I call him unofficial as he knows I love him and although we see each other from time to time I still don't feel like we are a proper couple! Anyway, we have been keeping in touch...

We're fighting and his birthday is this week...How do I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a fight right now, but his birthday is in two days. Should I still celebrate with him? Get him a gift? Or wait until we sort things out to celebrate?...

Long distance love is killing me! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5601 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - hey...i am 15 years old...and i am from greece...i am in love with this guy...he is perfect...i love him and he loves me very much...he means everything 2 me...we want to be together but we cant..theres a hudge problem...he lives in a different ...

How do I ask him without sounding desperate or nosy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5601 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I want to find out if my friend took a date when he went to the movies. How do I ask without sounding desperate or nosy?...

I've lied about trivial things, but he broke it off anyway. Will he ever take me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I've been dating this taurus for a year now and unfortunately I've lied to him about trivial things about myself simply because I have low self confidence and I felt that I needed to zest myself up a bit to make me look interesting to him (I'm...

Am I fooling myself into believing that he loves me just as much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are facing a bit of a problem in our relationship and I would like some advice on how to handle the situation. Let's start from the begining. I am Swedish and he is English. After 2 years travelling between our countrie...

I think my boyfriend might have been sexually abused...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I think my boyfriend might have been sexually abused. In the past, he had a relationship with another guy but that's not my issue.. We also recently wanted to further our relationship and have sex but he was unable to keep an erection... He's an ...

Do you know when a man is still in love with you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5601 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - How do I know when a man is in love with me? My man still says he loves me but has been distant lately and a bit cold at times. He says he's just stressed about work. He hasnt been there for me for the last few weeks. I'm not very good at relation...

His brother was all over me! Do I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5601 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - ok. I got my first boyfriend a month ago and we really really like each other. but one day we were gonna hang out after he went to the skate park. he said to just go to his house cause he'd be there in a couple minutea. so I got there and he wasn't ...

I just want someones view on what I've done and learnt from it : )

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

28 July 2009 (M) - Hello I've been wanting to get this off my chest for a while as it keeps coming back to bite me. A few months ago i visited a brothel. The reason i did this is clear to me now as i was very lonely had not many good friends and was addicted...

How do I keep the fire between us burning once we are married?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5601 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - hi,am getting married in 2 months and we are happy and in love with each other.my worry is that after marriage,we might get too used to each other and the fire between may vanish....how do i keep the fire between us burning?...

My boyfriend told me he needs a break. What does this mean relationship-wise?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - My Boyfriend said to me last night i need a break.. i was shocked at his behaviour..and i still am. i kept saying to him... it means you dont love me anymore, and also i said you have your eye on someone else. you see i have been with this guy ...

I'm too scared to make out with my boyfriend, but I want to! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - well im 15 and i get nervous very easily around my boyfriend... hes had sex and has basicaly done everything i havent. but to get to the point im terrified of making out with him x_x i really want to dont get me wrong but i havent before so im afrai...

There has been some serious flirting between me and my new doctor! Now should I expect him to call or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - After seversal visits to my new doctor and some serious chemisrty and flirting on both sides, such as you are so pretty your probably used to men hitting on you. How do you enjoy living alone now yeah I love it too! Wow you look really beautiful in ...

What is a womans perspective on a threesome? Why does my girlfriend want one?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

28 July 2009 (M) - What is my girlfriend looking for in a threesome? My girlfriend and I have been going out for over a year. We are very close, and have a really good relationship. My girlfriend asked me if we could try a threesome with another guy (no g...

How do I avoid putting myself in a vulnerable position?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I am anxious about sex and don't know what to do about it. I've always been nervous about it, because my family is somewhat strait-laced. Then, when I was a teenager, an old man once grabbed me in the market and kissed my cheek. That completely ...

Despite seeing another girl my ex says he wants to be friends...Is he being genuine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - Ex lover what does he want? A long distance ex lover who i was seeing for about a year and is older than me. We split mainly due to my nervousness around getting too close and the fact i wasnt able to see him much. So i told him best we went our...

He said he couldn't balance a relationship whilst getting his life on track. Should I wait for him until he does?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - A year ago I got out of a long term relationship and finally found a guy that made me happy. He was everything I wanted so I let all my barriers down and threw myself out there. We dated only for a couple weeks, spending every night together. I ...

How can I move forward with my russian girlfriend... My ex won't stop harassing me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

28 July 2009 (M) - My ex-partner and I lived together for about 14 months. We had a foster child who I got along with very well and my partner showed signs of jeolousy. My partner began to become a control freak and eventually the foster child escaped. My partner ...

Why do I still miss my ex-fiance? It's been 7 months since the split and I have a new boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - i miss my ex fiance. i dated him 3 years, in the beginning of coarse, the relationship is all good. i hear bout him sometimes, i seem like i dont care, but i care so much bout him. the last thing i heard is that hes on drugs, and hes being dumb. i ...

The man I was dating has been cheating on me. What should I do if he contacts me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

28 July 2009 (?) - I'm so sad tonight. I have been dating this guy for 4 mths. we have met families. talk everyday. He actss like a boyfriend. Things didnt add up so I surprised him tonight by showing up at his house because this morning he texted saying he would call ...

I always feel depressed and insecure without my boyfriend around. How can I become more independent?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I am always feeling depressed when I am not with my boyfriend, and I already know i am insecure about myself. What can I do to become more confident and dependent of myself?...

I've met a great man, but I suffer from uncontrollable flatulence. How do I tell him? Or should I just pass up the chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I'm 21 and have been a sufferer of uncontrollable flatulence for five years now. It has crushed me many times over for the past few years. For a while, I was ok being single. I could imagine myself spending the rest of my life alone. But recently...

We were practically dating, and he told me he loved me. Now have those feelings just gone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I'm so heart broken. my best friend and I have always acted like we were dating. we practically were, we've just never ask each other out. he and I have been "together" since last september. I mean at first we both knew just never said our ...

Why not let me see the message? Why lie?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - Im am 16 years old and my boyfriend is 27. Before we got together he used to cheat on a girl he was seeing but changed when we got together. We have been together for just under a year and he hs never cheated on me and we have a really good ...

Can I really say I love him if I have these doubts and insecurities at times?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. We've been on and off for different reasons. I'm the one who called it off most of the time... Anywho, he changed so much this year (2009) that he's like a different person. He says I have ...

Please help, missing pieces!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I'ved dated this guy for seven years, he is the first and last person I've ever have to asked if I need or wanted something however, he has cheated twice that I know over and we've been seperated for over six months and I've began to sleep with some ...

I think he's still logging into his online dating profile! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - Ok, so I've been with my boyfriend (6 months). Things are going good!! Anyways, we met online and still have our profiles up. In the beginning he had mentioned..'yeah, I should delete this profile that I hardly log into.' And as time went by I n...