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writes:Hello, i am an 17 year old and newly single. My ex relationship was huge. He was my bestfriend and a great person everyone loved that he took care of me and loved me. I am sick and tired of thinking I did something wrong. He and i got into a fight and he wanted a break. For how long I dont know, but he wanted one. so okay its been almost a month now i havent talked to him and people keep saying oh he will come around but im sick of hearing that.. I just want to know what i should do? i still love him..and i really dont want to anymore. what should i even believe?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2009): I know it's hard but you need to try to stop analyzing what happened to come up with "what you did wrong" you might not have done anything wrong! He might be going through something right now that has nothing to do with you. There is no quick fix to getting over love and sometimes it never completely goes away. The best thing you can do is keep yourself as busy as possible doing things that are important to you and that you enjoy. You can't force yourself to stop loving, but when you can think of the person and feel indifference, you can be fairly sure you are over it.
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reader, Jason32477 +, writes (20 July 2009):
 Love can be a hard thing.And love is not the best determining factor in a relationship.If he made you happy and your still thinking of being with him talk to him and see where he is at.Don`t wait for him to come to you.After a month if he is still unsure then it`s simply time to move on.But try to communicate your feelings and indifference's before throwing in the towel.If you don`t feel like he is right for you then just move on.The best thing about love is we can give it freely.Find someone worthy of your love and cherish them always.
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