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Archived questions from: 23 July, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

He wasn't making me feel good, so I broke up! Should we try again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

23 July 2009 (M) - Well... my boyfriend and I been dating close to a year, never been perfect, he sucks in bed, but I have fallen in love regardles. For some reason, can't explain it why, he casues for me to withdraw, I like him and want to be cheerful and happy ...

How do I get her number without insinuating anything?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

23 July 2009 (M) - Hi people, i need some advice desperately... So pls pls reply! Im 22 yrs old, and a very shy guy. I started a job (2 months) and there is this girl at work i really like. Now i got to know her slightly over the time, we talk on breaks or lunche...

How do I get my psycho boyfriend to come back? And then when he does how do I make him work for it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - hi, ive been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half and i have recently lost my virginity to him. I love him more than anything and want to be with him for the rest of my life. However, we have manyyyy fights and basically fight over ...

How can I get him to want me the way he used to?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5605 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - I met this lad about 6 months ago, and we automatically clicked. We rushed into a relationship, and although I knew he cared, I wouldn't have sex with him. We ended up giving up on the relationship. A few weeks later, however, we started ...

My girlfriend wants a boob job!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

23 July 2009 (M) - My Question, Problem call it what you will Been dating this girl for around a year now and we are by this time very close (close enough by now that i really should be talking to her about this and not an internet). Anyway, She's decided ...

Want to have sex with my boyfriend but worried about how my 'stubble' down there looks!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - right, me and my boyfriend have been going out for about a month now and we both have decided we want to have sex. But i'm a virgin and i'm really nervous but i've also told my boyfriend this. The problem is, he keeps asking me if i shave, and i do, ...

17 and only find men over 40 attractive

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - As you have probably seen from my last post I am in love with my teacher. But I only seem to be attracted to older men, I dont know why. I have never felt any affection to boys my age. Im 17 years old, im quite friendly to one guy who kissed me th...

Why do good looking guys always get girlfriends?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - why is it good looking guys always get girlfriends no matter where there are....

Can I take this as a sign of affection that he's into me or do some guys just like to cuddle?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - Can I take this as a sign of affection that he's into me or do some guys just like to cuddle? I'm casually seeing this guy and yes we are sleeping together. He likes to cuddle in bed, especially after sex. When I fall asleep he's holding me and when ...

I have same name crushes, am I crazy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - Is it weird that I keep crushing on guys with the same first name? I'm fairly sure it's just co-incidence but has anyone else ever found the same thing happening to them? There are two guys that I have fancied for a few a years and they are both...

What do I do? We both know how good we are for each other but we are not together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5606 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - i fell in love with my best mate...told him how i feel...and he said the timing is wrong and wants to be friends. we became friends but more distant. still talk to each other. things always bring us back together when we spend time apart. in j...

Men: What do you look for in a girl when you want a long term relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - Quick question for men: what do u like from a girl at the beggining ? What is the thing that u look for a girl that u think in a long term relationship with her?...

Everything was going great until we had sex! What do I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - ok i met this guy at work and he was into me and i was too. he was real nice and sweet. until we had sex thats when everything went wrong. he started to treat me bad. until one night he called me when he was drunk. he was telling me he liked me and ...

Does my ex like me more than his new girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5606 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - Right, here is my problem. At the beginning of this year I was dating my dream man. Tall, gorgeous, funny and loving. The fact that I was with him was a dream come true! After a while things became rusty and we ended up spliting up. I was gutted. ...

Why are we so shy around each other?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - I like this boy and he likes me back We talk or actually text everyday but all of a sudden stopped, no I idea why Anyways.. the thing that bothers me is that when we see each other, we act like we don't like each other ( crush like) When we ...

Should I continue my chase, or is she just not that into me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

23 July 2009 (M) - Hey I really could do with a second opinion on this please; I’m even more ‘lost’ now. Here’s the background to my situation: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/shes-invited-me-to-her-party-and-id.html Basically I went to the party last...

I don't want to be a second wife but I love him so much!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - i am 24+ and i really need someone in my life(a fiance),i dont want to be too desperate about it because i dont want to fall into the wrong hands. i dated my boyfriend for four years but i have broken up with him because he doesn't trust me, he is a ...

Why put on a dating website "just looking for friends"?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - So, I have a profile on a dating website. I found a really interesting guy so I messaged him. We messaged back and forth for a while, until I noticed his relationship status was "unknown". So it turns out he has a girlfriend and is just looking for ...

I need a man I can call my own!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - hi i am with a married man but the thing is that he an his wife lives 1000 miles apart 4 the summer an christmas they hook up an i am left on the back burner till i see himm again i do love him an i no he loves me but i cannot handle being the ...

He's not into showing love on text!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5606 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - I don't understand my boyfriend, when he sees me he shows all the things that says he is in love with me with me. He stares at me so intensely, holds my hand even in the most uncomfortable position and he tells me he misses me. As soon as he sees ...

Does this mean anything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - So I was at my friends bday party at her house She has a playground and like around 5 of us were just hanging out and chatting I was by the swings This boy ( the only boy with us) was on top of the slide right above me The rest of the peop...

He hurts me or makes me cry and I'm living in fear

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now, and it's been pretty rocky. He's been putting me down about certain things that occurred before we were even together! I was in a "relationship" with a guy he despises, so he beat me up ...

A one night stand or more?

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23 July 2009 (F) - Hi, I wonder if anyone can help. I know D for about 2 years, on and off, we were never close. I was in his city recently so I asked him out for drinks, which led to dinner, and ended up in me at his place. I was drunk, and I didn't think much of it. ...

Was I wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5606 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I resently had a huge fight because he thinks I am disrespectful to his friends. He has this dumn friend he considers his bff all of a sudden and now he is saying things he never said before. He is pointing out things that are ...

How to help him get over me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - My sister had a boyfriend from which she had a son who I love, my only and favorite nephew. They never loved each other and the relationship deteriorated fast and broke up. But he ended up falling in love with me, I liked him too so we had a ...

Went out on my first date after 6 years!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - I went out on my first date after 6 years after a divorce (married for 13 years- I came home from work and my X had left- found out later that he had an affair with a woman that frequently visited the church...there's no life in that story)... On to ...

Her mom and brothers are against us dating!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

23 July 2009 (M) - i'm 17 and my girlfriend is 13 we are 4 years apart. what makes it worse is my friend little sister her mums took away her phone and made it clear not to try to talk to her daughter again and her bros are pissed off". this might led to fighting....

Having Doubts on our relationship (Warning: LONG)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5606 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - So my bf and I having been dating for two years now and I don't know if I should call it quits or not. In the beginning it was great, we had a lot in common, could be on the the phone for hours at a time and clicked very easily. I could share an...

What's going on with this guy? I think he may like me, but doesn't talk much!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5606 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - We're in college and have recently been at the same events. I recently noticed him looking in my direction quite abit, though im unsure of if i'm dreaming. I had this strange eye contact thing when i caught him staring at my face. And once w...

I can't find girls my age outside of school. Should I go for older woman?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5606 days ago

23 July 2009 (M) - I go to a conservative christian school, I am an Atheist however and I want to know where I can find girls my age 17, outside of school. I go to the city every day and hang out in book shops and coffee shops but, I can never see a girl my age there, ...

My boyfriends mother hates me! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend has been together for 2 yrs and it has been a bumpy road for us but we are managing and still are together, but the problem is his mother, she hates me and he says no she dont but i know because is not possible for somebody to ...

I'm not sure I want to be in this relationship, but I'm scared of breaking up and being lonely

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - I'm really confused!! I'm 22 and currently with my boyfriend of two years. I dont know if he is the one, I dont even know if I really wanna be in this relationship anymore, but at the same time in not sure about breaking up either. I think im just ...